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My name is Kristen, and I'm seventeen years old.

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One of my best friends is about to throw her life away by dating the schools pimp, im not joking, he has cheated on everygf he has had including me, but every time i tried to explain that to her she just doesnt listen.. Please hel me help her

how many times have you tried to explain?? if you've tried over 4 times, i'm afraid there's not much hope. if you see something horrible is going to happen, you have to talk to her again, and make her listen. you have experience with this "pimp" and you know what will happen. there is a small chance he will change but you never know. best wishes. send me a message if you need more help. i'm here to listen

xox Kristen

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ok when i go out to eat with my sister and her boyfriend he boyfriend always makes my sis pay shouldnt he pay now my sis has like no money so what should she do or i do?

have your sis talk to her b/f .. maybe they can split the bill half and half or the sis can say she forgot her wallet or she's broke.

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my mate has fallen out wiv me and i dont no y.we was at dancing and i went to say hi and she just flipped.i really wanna be mates wiv her.can ne 1 give me advice as to become mates wiv her agen?

i guess just go and confront her. see what happened and try to fix it. maybe she misunderstood something you said or something. good luck

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uh, i just wrote this poem and i wanna see if u think its good.i dont kno wut to name it tho. so here it is:

There's love i miss
A desired kiss
A someone to hold
Their loveletters to unfold
Love i wish to have
But this i can't
To risk my heart i shan't
To take that risk
Is to risk the miss
Of losing something that once was
All because
We fools who love
Will risk beyond and above
To have that chance
To take that fall
All because of love's true call

by:me,taryn collins!
wut do you think?i hope you like it.

i like it alot!!! you have a talent.. i wish i could do that

xox Kristen

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ok...i was in a chat room for my school..and this guy imed me...and he was really sweet and cute//he sent me his pic and we started talking and now he wants me 2 meet him at the beach..but im not sure//wut if they dont even go to my school and wut if hes like a killer? he text messages me all the time and we totally click!! please help me b/c i think he might b the 1!!

bring friends with you!!! plus if it's at a very public place, he cannot do anything .. i wish you the best of luck!!!

K

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ok..i have a boyfriend right now but theres this kid that really likes me and it gets really annoying cause hes always saying how much he likes me and even though i have a boyfriend he still asks me out and stuff and it makes me feel really bad what do i do?! help!!

tell him that you have a boyfriend and you are happy with him. keep saying no and maybe try avoiding him. please send me a message if you need more help

K

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every times i wear a shirt you see on my sides sticking out.. any moves wrok on abs??
i am like 4.11
wight105

do crunches, go out and run or go on walks, and cut carbs like bread and pasta. send me a message if you need any help

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I need to no is there any where i can go on the net and make my own homepage for free and can copy and paste pictures on it? pleez help and answer asap! thanx! i rate!

xanga.com is more of a journal type thing

you can also make a homepage at http://www.hometown.aol.com

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I'm 13 and I weigh 126 pounds. I would like to weigh 110, and I really need a way to know how I could lose just a few pounds. My friends know me as the big eater. I'm not fat, actually I look very thin, but my stomach is a little bigger than I'd like for it to be. Some1 please help!

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hey!!! do crunches, cut carbs like bread and pasta, go on walks, run, dance, run on a treadmill, and stuff like that. just don't get too obsessed with dieting because that spells trouble. i wish you the best of luck. send me a message if you need anything else.

xoxo--> Kristen

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Okay...for the past 3 days I have had nausea, indigestion, and some dirrahea!! I have run out of ideas and don't know what else to do!! Can someone give me some suggestions on what to do??

go visit a doctor. they'll be able to tell you what is wrong and give a prescription for it. i wish you the best of luck

ex oOh --> K

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well...my friend and i decided that we wanted to go to this really cool camp next summer. we would go away for 3 weeks and do a bunch of cool things there. the only problem is that it costs sooooo much money and im afraid to even ask to go because they might say no. and if i do decide to ask them...how do tell them its a lot of money? L. 14

just come right out and tell them. say that you and ___ want to go to this camp and that it's expensive.

you have to be willing to pay for some of it. thats also a good thing to say while telling your parents. get a job, and if you aren't old enough for a real job, babysit, mow lawns, do chores around the house. send me a message if you need anything else.

eX oOh--> K

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Im 13 and I am 5 foot 1. I weigh between 90 and 95 pounds. Im I underweight. Thx I Rate!

I think you seem healthy. People have all different kinds of body types, and this seems OK. If you think you're underweight, go to the doctor and see what they say.

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ok so i have been doing gymnastics for liek 2 years, i have always wanted to be on the high schools team but i have never competed before so im kinda scared, and the girls on the team are really intimidating and rude!! help me!!

i think you should go for it!!! don't let other people come in the way of what you want to do. show em how good you are!!!!! good luck!

ex oOh--> K

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ok well im ok with most of my body but ewww my stomach needs to be flat!! but the thing is im really picky...about like excercising and dieting: i literally dont eat any vegetables and i dont play any sports so what should i do to et a nice stomache??

you probably should eat vegetables, and make sure you eat healthy meals. and do crunches. if you need anything else, just send me a message.

lots of love--> K

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I've always strived for straight hair.. but it never seems to stay straightened.. when ever i flat iron it.. it always goes back to its natural fall.. and when ever i blow dry it straight.. its all poofy.. and i can't get rid of it.. any suggestions on how to get my hair to stay straightened?

hey!!! my hair is the exact same way. If you want it really straight, use a regular clothing iron on low. u can't do this all the time though, it'll fry your hair. i do this just for special occasions.

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I think I'm okay now....I talked to one of my friends lastnight and it felt good to get everything out in the open with thim....but thanks for helping me, I really appreciate it.

it's no problem at all!! if you need anything else, feel free to send me a message

lots of love--> Kristen

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I really like this one guy aand I know he likes me. How do I tell him how I feel? Should I wait untill he makes the first move because that is what I think I should do. Im to afraid to tell him myself

get friends to hint around and see what happens. Or, get the courage to ask him yourself. it'll show him that your comfortable around him. if you know he likes you, you'll probably get a positive response. i wish you the best of luck. if you need to talk more, i'm here for you!!! just send me a message.

lots of love--> K

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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him

if you don't think he's ugly, don't listen to them. your opinion is the one that matters. if they do really get on your nerves, tell them to back off. do they have boyfriends? if not, maybe it's jealousy. if they still keep it up, maybe it's time to find a new group of friends. if you need any more help, feel free to send me a message in my inbox!!!

lots of love--> K

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How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do??????

my boyfriend was the same way. he would act like i wasn't around and talk to every girl except me. i broke up with him, because no one deerves to be ignored. I'd talk to him online and see what's up.. if nothing happens, break up with him. you don't deserve that. if you need anymore help, just send me a message. i'm here to help!

lots of love--> K

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You see there's this guy and I think he likes me but I don't know. He tried to put moves on me the other day and it kinda freaked me out. Like he kissed me on the cheek, put his hand on my leg. He did stuff just to get close to me. When a guy does stuff just to get close to you it means he likes you, but I don't really like him. Ohh...help! What should I do??

he probably likes you. the next time he does it, push him away (gently) and tell him you aren't interested. if he persists, keep telling him no and eventually he will back off

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