You see there's this guy and I think he likes me but I don't know. He tried to put moves on me the other day and it kinda freaked me out. Like he kissed me on the cheek, put his hand on my leg. He did stuff just to get close to me. When a guy does stuff just to get close to you it means he likes you, but I don't really like him. Ohh...help! What should I do??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xyz answered Thursday July 15 2004, 12:21 pm: If he is your friend and you don't like what he is doing, and you want to tell him that he is making you uncomfortable, then do so with grace and tact. You know, be nice about it. That will work with most people. If it doesn't work, and you still want to be left alone, then you'll have to find a way to tell him sternly, with raised voice if need be, and without a little kidding, so he gets your point. That should do the trick. If not, and especially if he is someone you don't know very well, run for the hills! [ xyz's advice column | Ask xyz A Question ]
ballerina04 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 8:14 pm: he probably likes you. the next time he does it, push him away (gently) and tell him you aren't interested. if he persists, keep telling him no and eventually he will back off [ ballerina04's advice column | Ask ballerina04 A Question ]
S-n-S4Lyf answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 7:35 pm: Straight up, tell him how you feel. Say thass not what you want with him. Just say how you feel and you'll be happy with the results. Good Luck. [ S-n-S4Lyf's advice column | Ask S-n-S4Lyf A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 7:33 pm: You should tell him you like him as a friend but not as a boyfriend and you want to get to know him as a a friend
p.s. THE TELL HIM I HAVE A BF THING DONT WORK I TRIED IT THEY WILL EVENTUALLY FIND OUT
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 7:22 pm: If you don't like him then tell him or give him a hint that you don't. Don't lead him on. So when he goes to put a move on you, like to go kiss you or to put his hand on your leg, push his hand away and back away. That should give him a hint. And if it doesn't then you're going to have to tell him and just be like "I'm sorry, I don't like you like that, I don't want to lead you on, thats why I'm backing off." Just say something like that. I hope that helps, just leave something in my inbox if you still need help. Good luck =D
DorkyJay27 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 7:18 pm: Askin him would probly be the best thing, but you dont have to flat out ask, do it like in a game of truth or dare kinda situation, or you could get one of your good buddies to ask him. [ DorkyJay27's advice column | Ask DorkyJay27 A Question ]
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