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Help me Help her
One of my best friends is about to throw her life away by dating the schools pimp, im not joking, he has cheated on everygf he has had including me, but every time i tried to explain that to her she just doesnt listen.. Please hel me help her
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Well get alot of his xgf's to tell her what they have done and what he will most likely do to her and if she doesnt want to listen then let her find out the hard way..-trix
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You should just sit down with her and tell ehr if she wants to date him fine bu when she gets her heart broken or gets cheated on that you dont want her to come back and say any thing to you about it because you already tried to tell her.
~Lakey~
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well i once was in this situation....i went out with a couple boys who was known to not keep a relationship and cheat on their g/f's....i think you should talk to your friend more and make her realize all the girls he has played and she can only see what she wants to so if she dont listen you have to let her learn the hard way.-bryttnii
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how many times have you tried to explain?? if you've tried over 4 times, i'm afraid there's not much hope. if you see something horrible is going to happen, you have to talk to her again, and make her listen. you have experience with this "pimp" and you know what will happen. there is a small chance he will change but you never know. best wishes. send me a message if you need more help. i'm here to listen
xox Kristen
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hey..jus let ur friend kno how much that she means to u n that u dont want to see her get hurt. but dont lie jus tell the truth caz that'll help her more than lyin to her, ya kno? also, does she like the guy or is she jus goin out wit him 'jus becuz'? if she likes him and he likes her why not lettin them give it a shot? ya never kno..maybe ur friend could change the guy from bein the pimp to a totally great boyfriend. ya never kno! if she likes the guy and he likes her jus let them give it a shot n see wat happens u cant tell her wat to do in her life or how to live her life n who to n not to go out wit..ya kno wat i mean? i mean how would u feel if she told u that u culdnt go out wit the guy that u liked? ya kno wat im sayin? im not tryin to be mean here im jus thinkin that maybe u shuld look at it frum ur friends point of view. u shuld be happy for ur friend if shes happy. well good luck n let me kno about wat u decide to do please!! <3
-blondekisses
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TO: Help me Help her
its not like you can stop her from dating the doode...the best thing you can do is just help her realize thah the guy is gonna hert her...explaining anything wont reallie help and stuff buh just find a way fer her to realize thah...ya noe?
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i think you should just let her make her own mistakes. maybe in the end, she'll see that you were right and never disregard your opinion again. if dating this guy makes her happy for now, you cant ruin that for her.
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Well,I know it's hard to watch your friend make what you know is a mistake,but in this case,I think that's what you're gonna have to do!If you've given her fair warning and let her know that you care about her so much that you don't wanna see her get hurt,and she STILL won't listen,you'll just have to let her learn for herself.I know it sucks,but you're gonna have to just let her make her own mistakes and learn for herself.Just be sure and stand by her,and be there for a shoulder to cry on if she does get hurt.No one wants to hear 'I told ya so' when they're hurting,so just be her best friend like always!!!
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ok well i DEFFINITLY know i can realate to that.thats how my boifriend is. he has dated so many girls. he has cheated on plenty of them. but let her make her own decisions. i know you dont want her to get hurt but maybe you should let things slide n let her have a break. because when ppl are on ur back telling you what to do with you rlove life it feels a little uncomfurtable at times. talk to her boi set him straight. if heez cheate don her she has every right to break up with him. but if she really does seem to love him and want to stay with him theres probably nothing u can do for right now. so heez cheated on u too? ok well maybe thats where you just want to watch out for ur fridns. i go out with my best friends ex (terrible decision)) and she has felt the same way as you. just take a breather and play in the rain try to forget about it. all i can say is that helping yourself is the only way you can solve your problems.
*hannah
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i think since you already tried convincing her not to go out with him, theres nothing you can do but let her experience it for herself. then, when it happens the way you told her it would, she would realize you were right and say sorry for not listening to you. good luckkk - *((sHELbY))*
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You have done what you can by telling her that this guy is only going to hurt her. But she has the right to make her own decisions, and needs to learn from her own mistakes.
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