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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him
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Tell him to ignore your friends and that your not them, that you do relly like him. Everyone has different taste...
Whenever your friends get a boyfriend, and you think he is ugly, tell her her boyfriend is ugly. :P
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Hey now...those "friends" of yours have no right to judge your boyfriend without knowing him. That's not right. You need to tell them that, 'cause they don't seem to get the hint. Your boyfriend does know that YOU don't think those things about him, right?
You've just gotta tell them that they have no right to judge him, and it's gotta stop.
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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For one thing, stop telling your boyfriend that your friends think he's ugly and isn't good enough for you. The only thing thats going to do is make him uncomfortable around you and your friends. If they don't say anything to him then just ignore them. If you like him then they are obviously wrong about him. I feel bad for the poor guy because his girlfriend keeps letting him know that her friends think he's ugly. Thats just mean.
My advice is, ignore them and stop telling him they think he's ugly.
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Well I*ve been in the same situation numerous times.. just tell y0ur friends that it's YOUR life and not theirs and they really need to back off before y0u lose sumin and y0u just end up not being their friends! They obviously arent good friends if they cant except y0ur decisions!
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m'dear, this is a common thing, and it's called peer pressure. you shouldn't care a damn what your friends say about your boyfriend. in fact, go tell them right now that what they said is extremely rude. if you lke him, that's enough. it's totally their problem if they don't like him. guys don't have to be hot for you to date them. secondly, don't tell him what your friends say. if someone tells you you're ugly, that doesn't make you feel good, it just brings you down. same with him.
hang onto him. treat him like your best friend. don't let others bring him OR you down.
aka: it doesn't matter what he looks like. as long as you like him. and he likes you. that's all that matters.
~accolade~
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if you don't think he's ugly, don't listen to them. your opinion is the one that matters. if they do really get on your nerves, tell them to back off. do they have boyfriends? if not, maybe it's jealousy. if they still keep it up, maybe it's time to find a new group of friends. if you need any more help, feel free to send me a message in my inbox!!!
lots of love--> K
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Don't get defensive. Just ask them why they think that (a calm, cool, in-control voice is best), then explain why you like him, and what he's like. If they keep at it, ask them to stop. Give them an ultimatum. They need to stop nagging you. Your relationships need to be between you and the guy, not you, your friends, and the guy. Take a break from them for awhile, and have some alone time with your bf.
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If they were your real friends then they wouldnt make fun of your boyfriend. If you like him then it dosent matter what everyone else thinks.
so, ignore them and talk to your boyfriend about it.
good luck
TiffanyCroft
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First of all they are not your true friends.Find a group which will accept you as you are and what you do.And as for your boyfriend tell him that you care a damn about what your friends think and that they're totally different in thinking and anyways you should be knowing that "A Person is known by what he is from inside and not by what he is from outside".Best of Luck...
*~~Kariena~~*
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Child I'm going through the same thing, don't worry about what your friends think. They just care about you, they don't think anyone is good enough for you. You can't just get them to stop, for me it took 4 months of going out with my bf before they realized that he wasn't going to go away just because of what they say. If it really gets to be to much maybe your friends really arn't as good "friends" as they should be. As for spending time with friends and boyfriend, have you tried dividing your time? Spend one day with your boyfriend then spend a day with your friends, if you can't deal with both- then deal with one at a time. Good luck!
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Ok, well what they think doesnt matter because he's your bf! I think they are probably just jealous! Tell them to stop saying nasty stuff and if they dont like the fact you've got a boyfriend who by the way has a great personality, then they know where the door is! Good luck
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alrite, gurl maybe your friends just jealous, and they envy u..but dont let your friends or whatever they think get in the way of u and ur man..if u really likes him, u need 2 stay with him, dont let no1 tell u..thats he ugly
if they were ur tru friends they would accept any1 u date..so dont get mad, mayb ur friends arent really ur friends, think bout it Good Luck
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Who gives a crap what they think? They're probably jealous you have a better guy than them. These are crappy friends if you ask me. They're not going to stop,but so what? I'd say I'm attracted to him and if you don't like it,tough shit.
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You like him, and that's all that's important. Tell your friends that what they say hurts both of you and that you wish they would stop. If they won't, they're not worth being friends with. Ignore them.
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hes your b/f and it shouldnt matter what your friends think... if they're really your friends they'll respect you for who you lyke and they'd respect ta guy.. ..if you guys wanna have fun an hang out with out having your friends always at your back telling you that hes ugly or you could get better, get tha two of you ta hang out jus you and him...tell your friends that you really care for this guy and that you'd really appreciate it if theyd let you choose on your own who you wanna go out with...
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man. that's messed up of your friends to do. who cares if they think your boyfriend is unattractive. he's YOUR boyfriend, not theres. confront them. be nice about it though. <3
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aww sweeite..i'm sorry but maybe you should take a step back and think *are they really your friends?*..friends are suppose to be supportive and except all of your decisions even if they don't agree with you. but i could be wrong,maybe they're just jealous of what you have, they could possibly like him, too. stay with your boyfriend..if you really like/love/care about him, that's all that matters. and remember , beauty is in the eye of the beholder =)..hope i helped..you can ask me, sweetie2oo4 , questions anytime..please rate me if you get a chance.
xO`Lexi
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Tell your friends that it is basically none of their business! Looks shouldnt matter in relationships, as sad as it is, sometimes they take over, but they really shouldnt. If they say anything about him.. it might be better to just not tell him cuz it will hurt his feelings. But to get them to stop just sit down and talk to them and explain that it is hurting you and they really need to stop because there are alot of things in him that you really like and he makes you happy and suggest maybe if they would get to know him better, that they might see things in him too! Hope i helped
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Thats mean that you're friends are doing that. It doesn't matter what anyone looks like. As long as he treats you well and you like him! Next time they say that tell them "Why do you guys have to make fun of him? I LIKE HIM! I don't care if you guys think he's ugly or if you think he's hot, I like him for him. And if you guys were my friends, you wouldn't say anything. So, please just stop" Just tell them how you feel! Good luck hun!
xoxo Kourtney
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Tell your friends that it's def. not up to them to decide who you wanna be with and to keep it to themselves. If looks don't mean anything to you then tell them that and to keep their mouths shut cuz they are ruining what you two have got! Rate me plz and good luck!
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Well your friends are WRONG! who cares what anyone thinks, all that matters is how you feel about him! next time they say something, just be like "well i like him and thats all that matters...if u dont like him, tell HIM"!! it's understandable how your boyfriend feels about it, but after you do what i said, tell him you did that! he'll feel better...=D
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tell them that if they are your true friends then they'll stop for you. If they dont stop then i wouldnt call them friends, and i would avoid them just to try to teach them a lesson that you are serious when you say somethin.
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