I HAVE THIS EX B/F...WE STILL TALK ON THE PHONE ALOT... AND WE FLIRT ALL THE TIME.. A PART OF ME WANTS TO DATE HIM AGAIN.. BUT THE OTHER PART DOESN'T.. SOME ONE PLEASE HELP ME!!
maybe you should talk to him and see what he wants and if he feels the same way. Maybe you should give it a shot again! But if you want to move on maybe you shouldnt talk to him as much and dont flirt! I know its soo hard believe me i've been there like a thousand of times!
-Holly-
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ok well theres this guy broc and i like him alot. broc's best friend cole and me talk all the time and cole always tells me that broc likes me and that he wants to go out with me, but hes just too shy to say nething. im not the shy kinda grl so i dont care if i have to make the first move or nething, but i dont want to ALWAYS make the first move, ya know. do u think after were together or after ive made sum moves hell loosen up and make sum moves??? cuz i dont want to feel like im doin all the work in the relationship.
Ya know i'm the same way i've dated a few guys in the past like that. Yeah make a move or two and maybe talk threw Instant messanger online or on the phone and tell him you dont always want to be the one making the move, if you say anything to his face he might get a little shy and nervous and what not! Just tell him you like him and you want to be with him but you dont always want to be the one making the first moves... and Hey you never know he might break out of his shell and make ALL the moves! Good luck!
-Holly-
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If everyone in the world had both female and male parts...would gay people be considered gay??
Ya know i dont think so! thats kinda a strange question and i've never thought about it before lol
-holly-
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well after seeing my ex yesterday.....today when we were talking he keeps on talkin about other girls and everything and that they are cutter and prettier than me and it really hurts....he keeps on telling me how all the other girls are all over me and it really hurts b/c before i went to see him yesterday, he thought i waz da finnest gurl and sweetest and everything and now everything itz so weird...im so sad...wut do ya think????? am i not good enough for him :(?? he is not that fine but he is okay....
Sweetie forget about him! Guys can be such dick faces! Seriously I bet no girls want him and none of them think he is cute! Guys are like that... they try and make it look like Oh i'm all big and bad! So just ignore it! and if he keeps doing it talk to him about it and tell him it bothers you! Good luck
-Holly-
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We live in a duplex for 2 years now, are landlord is a good friend of ours. Recently he let his daughter move who is 20 years old. Her boyfriend lives there too. Everyday there is someone new moving in there with them. It has turned into a flop house. Up all night banging on the walls, loud music, up all night. Doing drugs on the porch and in the driveway. We told the landlord about this, and he is in denile. He told us if we didn't like the situation, we gotta do what's best, why should we move, I like it here, any suggestions help. Too much riff raff. Can the police do anything? Or is it a lost cause.
Call the police they might be able to solve your problems! if thats doesnt help out maybe you need to find another nice spot! Or maybe theres another duplex you would move into that is in the same area! hope you figure things out!
-Holly-
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You never know what someone means to you until their gone.
Those are good words to live by, and here’s why.
Once a day, everyday I talked to two girls that rode my bus.
They were twins, and also older than me, they were seventeen.
They were always nice, not even once were they mean.
We would talk about all sorts of things.
They even helped Kyla with one of her reports.
I remember Kim would always drop her books on the floor.
One time Kathy tripped walking out the door.
Soon school was out, I had no fear that I would see them next year.
But I was wrong.
I heard about the accident from a friend, I didn’t know what she meant.
She said it was a car accident and they went to the hospital.
But I didn’t think anything of it.
I got online to look up any information about the accident.
It took me a while, but I found an article.
It was named “Twin Disaster”.
I started reading slow and I got faster and faster.
I couldn’t believe what I had read.
The accident was really bad.
Their car was hit by a pick up truck
The car was so smashed that they were stuck.
The paramedics came and got them out.
There were five people involved in the accident.
They were all alive, but Kim and Kathy were barley living.
So they were rushed to the hospital.
The article said the other passengers would be all right.
The next day I got a phone call.
It was my friend she said Kim and Kathy had passed on.
She also asked if I wanted to go to the funeral.
I said no because it was more of a family thing.
I soon got off of the phone and started crying.
I later found out that they both had died around eleven.
I was happy that they were in heaven and didn’t have to suffer.
But it was so sad because they were so young.
I remember them telling me they were going to go to the Career Center.
But they never will.
I know the guy that had hit them didn’t go out that night to kill.
But he did, he ended two teenagers lives.
They didn’t get to get married, have a kid, and so much more.
I feel so sorry for their mother because she didn’t only loose one child.
She lost two; it must be so hard to live in the house without them there.
I think everyone should live their lives to the fullest,
And never take anything for granted.
Because you never know what something means to you until it’s gone.
Aww thats was good! Sorry to hear about that! :(
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Well been married to my husband for 2 year's been together for 3 year's and he is getting worse, he work's night shift from 9 p.m.-6a.m. mon-thur and he sleep's all day until it's time for him to go to work and than when it's time for him to be off from work he sleep's all day and stay's up all night he spend's no time with me,i feel like he is my room mate and than he just started stop telling me he love's me and kissing me good bye,but we do still make love he never hold's me, please help i cry all the time,don't know what to do.
Well i'm young so I dont know much but I think you should talk to your husband! I do know that when you have those shifts your days and nights get flipped around... maybe since he sleeps all day when he has days off maybe you could spend time with him at night time... and maybe if possible he might be able to get his shifts switched around. I think you really need to talk to your husband and tell him how you feel. He loves you and he'll understand! Good Luck to you!
-Holly-
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If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help?
Ya know i dont find cutting yourself wrong. I think its a way to get your anger out and what not. If your obsessive with it I think that'd be the time to seak help... but if you just use it as a thing to take stress out on I think its alright. but since you've only done it once and you now find it stupid i think that your fine. But if you decide to do it again and get obsessive then get help..
-Holly-
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ok, i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for like 4 in a half months. Towards the end of the year we would like go off and just walk and talk whenever we could. Then i realized i was like ditching my friends and so was he. And next year we're going to be in high school. I know that we could just easily like hang out with each others friends but the only problem is that my friends aren't into the things he and his friends are. i get along with his friends and he does too but its kind of akward when he hangs out with them. WHAT DO I DO??
Having a boyfriend takes a lot of time and effort because if your not with him and your with your friends more they tend to get upset. maybe you should like go back and forth like one day spend the whole day with him, the next just with your friends and maybe have a friends get together with hes friend like a movie and he could try and do the same with your friends. Just take it slow and remember that boyfriends come and go and friends stay forever!
-Holly-
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ok me and this guy had been talking for along time, and i knew he was gay, but i started growing feelings for him, as more than a best friend. and over the time, he said that he had grown feelings for me too. well one day we did some things and now he is talkin bout how he kinda likes this other girl. i mean he is bi now, but i dont like that fact that he said he jus wanted to b with me, and then he likes someone else. what do i do?
Awww i'm sorry hun! maybe you should talk to him about it. Maybe the fact that hes starting to like girls maybe he thinks he needs to test everyone out... :-/ Just talk to him and end the end if you guys were ment to be with each other than you guys will get together! Good luck!
-Holly-
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well,theres is this guy that i like , and im pretty sure he likes me!but when i talked to him hes like "Ur kool and all but ur a little to young"!i dont get it!im not even 2 years younger than him!wats the deal,is it cause hes my brothers friend or sumthing?
That might bother him that your his friends sister. Or maybe he just doesnt want a relationship with you at the moment. Try talking to him ask him if he likes you. Your not to young for him but maybe he just like older girls or something! Well thats not much for advice cuz i wasnt sure on this one but I hope i did help some what
-Holly-
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idk what it is, but i've just been really out of it lately. and i hate it. my mom yellz at me for doing stuff, and then she yellz at me for not doing thingz. see im tha younest of 3, i feel like im alwayz getting blamed for stuff. like. . . i . . . cant. .. breathe. its really hard, and sumtime i feel like i want to just die. I feel like no one cares. but at other times everythingz F***ked up. idk wut i cant do. plzz help.
Ok well maybe your feeling a little depressed, I know that when i was depressed it felt like everything was going wrong and i was the one that everyone blamed. Maybe you need to sit down with your mom and family and what not and talk to them about how you feel. If this continues maybe you should see a doctor and he might be able to get you on something!
-Holly-
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um...well im 5'7" and i weigh 140 at most.am i over wieght?
OMG no sweetie your not over weight at all!!! Thats either just right or maybe a little under! Your just the right weight for your height!
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what is spooning
Just cuddling pretty much
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I met a guy the other night and he's really nice and stuff. I was going through a rough time and he helped me out and made me feel better. But then yesturday I was talking to one of my friends who is friends with him and he said "he does that with all the girls that he talks to and he's just trying to get in your pants" I don't personnally think thats what he is trying to do...but I'm naive...should I listen to my friend instead?
well maybe your friends right... but maybe not! See guys always make up lies if they get jealous of another guy, "Oh he just wants in your pants", "Oh hes just gonna play you"... ya know stuff like that! Go for the other guy if he you like him... But just make sure you if he trys anything on you that You stand your grounds and say No, and dont let him talk you into it! You gotta try things out even if friends dont like it
-Holly-
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Whut do u do when someone u really lykes tells u he lyks u but then gos behind ur back n tells otha ppl that he doesnt lyk u.. and other ppl r telling u thats hes playing u.. whut do i do?!
wow... sounds like something i had going on! Just forget abuot him sweetie! If hes gonna be like that He is NOT worth getting hurt over! I know it'll take time to get over but just remember if hes gonna be like that hes not worth your time!
-Holly-
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hi again. ok. i have this friend and she is soo nuce and i love her to death but, weve grown in different directions. Shes become like a major punk and tells me all this stuff i dont want to hear. She wants me to do all sorts of stuff with her and i want to its just hard to decide what to do because shes not all that great of an influence. what should i do??
Hey hmm maybe you should think about the choices shes making... Dont do them just because of per pressure!! Seriously if she was a true friend to you she wouldnt pressure you to do things you didnt want to do. Just make sure you dont get into trouble. maybe you should sit down with her and tell her that your worried and you dont want to go in the direction she is, maybe you can change her mind about some of her choices. or maybe its time for find a new crowd to hang out with.
-Holly-
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i dont know what is wrong with me i can literally jsut finish a meal, and want to eat again.. i have been diagpnised with mild depression does that have anything to do with this? Please help me i think i am geting really... fat.. i weigh 135 pounds and i just hate how i look..
please lend me some friendly advice..
~*~cj~*~
First off... 135 is not bad! Omg thats like a great size! and yeah depression eather makes you loose appitie or for some all they want to do is eat. Dont worry sweetie your not fat... Just maybe since you do have depression maybe you should get on meds and that'll help you. But dont worry your not fat! Just keep smiling sweetie and remember things will get better :)
-Holly-
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I'm 16 years old and technically a virgin.
I have tried to sleep with my boyfriend but he keeps losing his erection and we used a condom each time we tried.
His penis has definitely come into contact with my vagina whilst unprotected but there was no penetration or attemt at it.
I don't know exactly when my period was due but it is definitely late.
I'm hoping that it's just exam stress or something (I finished my exams 10-06).
Please tell me I'm not pregnant.
What should I do?
Alright sweetie go get checked out! If you think something might be wrong then go to a doctor or like a nearest place to get tested! Sometimes stress does cause your period to be late but you better be safe than sorry! GOOD LUCK! and i hope your not pregnate!
-Holly-
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How do I get over a guy?!? I thought I didn't like him, so I pushed him away. Now everytime I talk to him, I think I want to be with him. idk what to do.
Well... my best advice would be to tell him how you feel. Tell him you were wrong about your feelings and that you want to be with him. If you dont want to do that do something else like a sport to get your mind off of him and keep you busy... maybe you'll meet someone while your doing that.
-Holly-
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