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good friend??
hi again. ok. i have this friend and she is soo nuce and i love her to death but, weve grown in different directions. Shes become like a major punk and tells me all this stuff i dont want to hear. She wants me to do all sorts of stuff with her and i want to its just hard to decide what to do because shes not all that great of an influence. what should i do??
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hey....i can relate cuz im kinda the "punk" in a friendship I have. Dont let anyone tell u what to do or what u should do. You are your own person....be you. Talk to her about it.
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Well i think you should just tell her how you fell and the things she is doing wrong and if that dosen't work you should try getting knew friends. i had that problem with my friend but know we are still friends but i hang out with other friends and it been great. so just try new friends that might work
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well, if the stuff she asks you to do is bad or makes you feel uncomfortable in any way, then dont do it. just be the best friend you can be for the time being. these things usually sort themselves out. but if it doesnt, stay true to your self, no matter what.
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Hey hmm maybe you should think about the choices shes making... Dont do them just because of per pressure!! Seriously if she was a true friend to you she wouldnt pressure you to do things you didnt want to do. Just make sure you dont get into trouble. maybe you should sit down with her and tell her that your worried and you dont want to go in the direction she is, maybe you can change her mind about some of her choices. or maybe its time for find a new crowd to hang out with.
-Holly-
Hope i helped
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even though she may not be a great influence,you mkae your own decsions and if you dont want to do something then you dont have to do it. If she is pressuring u into to doing somehting your not ready for or you know u would get in a lot of trouble for. You should probably try talking to her. If you love her that much then it wouldn't matter if she was punk or not.. if she is telling you things you don't wanna hear, isn't it your job as a friend to listen anyways.. im sure she does the same for you. If your in different groups, its harder to do things at school and i think its a good thing that she is making an effort to do things with you. ..however, if you don't want to be friends with her anymore for whatever reason then you don't have to be. but remember this punk thing might just be a phase that she'll grow out of or something and she seems like a really good friend even though she has a bad influence, but you live your own life and how she lives hers doesn't effect the descions she makes.. you're your own person .. hope i helped and remember to rate me :)
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Tell her how you feel and show her ppl who are headed in the wrong direction .. the same as she is and ask her what she thinks of it. and ask her what she plans on doing further down the road so just pretty much just sit down and talk to her.-trix
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Since she's a punk and you think that she's not all great of an influence, I think you should just do what ur doing and if you think the thing she ask u to do is bad dont do it.Good Luck! :)
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ok well listen friends grow apart that happens. but i can totally understand u wanting to stay friends and you should try. but if shes bringing bad things into ur life and friendship and u dont like it u have to let her know. that might mean that shell get upset for a little while but u have to speak ur mind and if u want ur friendship to last u have to tell her what ur not comfortable with... i hope this helps!
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~*~ This is a CLASSIC situation for teenage grils growing up. She's growing up.. and when yuo grow you CHANGE! SHe is just experimenting with all the new "life" at her fingertips. Obivously she still wants you to be part of her life.. she may be a bad influence.. but switch it around.. be a GOOD influence to her!!
KNOW YUOR BOUNDRIES.. IF YOU ARENT COMFORTBALE LET HER KNOW, your honesty in the end will make A MAJOR!!!!!!! difference in your friendship.
g_o_o_d l_u_c_k!
~*~Cassie Owens~*~
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If she is sort of pushing you around physically and verbally, maybe there is something going on in her life. You should subtly hint at her to sort of draw her in so you can talk about what you do and dont like about her.
But if it is a little more serious, if she is in a way abusing you, you should probaly reconsider her being one of your close friends.
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