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ok, i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for like 4 in a half months. Towards the end of the year we would like go off and just walk and talk whenever we could. Then i realized i was like ditching my friends and so was he. And next year we're going to be in high school. I know that we could just easily like hang out with each others friends but the only problem is that my friends aren't into the things he and his friends are. i get along with his friends and he does too but its kind of akward when he hangs out with them. WHAT DO I DO??
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Plan some time where you and your friend can spend time by yourselves.Then Plan time for your boyfrind and his friends.
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Having a boyfriend is hard on your friendships. Most people go from one extreme to another. Just talk to your friends about the fact that you do have a boyfriend and you wanna give it the chance it deserves but you want to spend time with them to. Maybe one afternoon or one night you can be with the girls. Just don't lose your friendships for some boy who might turn out to be a jerk in the end. Good luck!
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the same thing happend happend in romio and juliet!
they did kill themselves at the end BUT see if you can find an alternate solution!
maybe see if you could hook some of your friends with his friends! ^_^;
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Hey well thats a problem I have been in because boyfriends are very time consuming and it takes alot of effort to keep a good relationship. Well since ur friends arent really into things him and his friends like to do maybe you could talk to both of them and make like a schedule for one weekend you can be with friends and the next with your boyfriend are something like that.
Hope I helped. GOOD LUCK!
-Haleigh (rate my advice plz)
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OK I hope this makes sence! haha Maybe like if you and your b/f go to a movie, meet up with either his or your friends and just spend a little time together. I think if you spend little amounts of time with eachothers friends at a time it will show that you care and you want to be able to have a b/f and friends! Trust me from experience it is HARD to have both! Thats kinda just how it goes! But if you work hard at it, you will all get along!!! And trust me i bet there are things that you all have in common, they more you talk the more you learn! Good luck! and you can ask me more questions if ya have any k!!!
xoxo!
Hope i helped~!
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Having a boyfriend takes a lot of time and effort because if your not with him and your with your friends more they tend to get upset. maybe you should like go back and forth like one day spend the whole day with him, the next just with your friends and maybe have a friends get together with hes friend like a movie and he could try and do the same with your friends. Just take it slow and remember that boyfriends come and go and friends stay forever!
-Holly-
Hope i helped
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Having a boyfriend is time consuming. You just need to find a good balance. You don't have to do eveything with your boyfriend. Make sure you are putting at least one night a side a week to hang out with the girls. But they also have to understand that you have a boyfriend now and you can't do everything with them like you use to.
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Dont spend every waking moment with him make more time for your friends as well. And if you all do hang out do something all of you can do like go to the mall or go to a movie. Sometimes people have to make sacrifices. Hope iv helped good luck! and dont be afraid to write back.
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Short N Punky
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