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I have a boyfriend that i "like." i've been going out with him for a month. And even though he understands my beliefs and opinions, I'm starting to feel that we are more likefriends. But the problem is, i've recently met a guy who i could see actually being with. But he thinks my religion his as he puts it "Bulls__t". Should I dump my understanding boyfriend for my new possible lover? (link)
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If you don't like this guy then why have a relationship with I guy you don't like? Tell him you see him as a friend. But I say don't go for the second guy he he dosn't like your religion then he's not the right guy for you. Just talk to other guys and you might see something great about them and then you might find yourself falling for them!
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Hiya...i need help with a small problem i have. I have no trouble getting a boyfriend at all its just when i have one..after a few weeks i feel as though i dont want to be with them anymore..as if i get bored. Im only young but i need to know what this could meen? Can i not be in a long relationship ?? Please help (link)
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What you should do is talk to the guys and see what they are like and then if you go out with one you might be able to find the perfect guy. Just do what you feel is right and then someday that guy will definetly come.
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13/f
i like this guy, but hes two years older and he has a girlfriend...should i just give up? (link)
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Go with what you feel. You don't want to mess up him and his girlfriends relationship. Look around there are so many other guys out there that are perfect for you. Maybe even one is crushing on you right now so talk to other guys and get to know them and you might find yourself falling for one of them.
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Ok i cant stand my family. they make me want to kill myself. First off. my little brother of 11 years old, is a selfish little brat, who crys and crys about everything. and if he doesnt get his way he flips out. my sister of 15 is always pointing out the bad things about me, she is always yelling at me, and always makeing me feel like crap. My older brother of 17 is always beating on everything and needs to take anger mangament classes. My mom is always telling me, how i should feel about things, and yells at me for things i dont even do. Please tell me, what do i do? (link)
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If you feel bad about all this just try talking to your mom. Maybe even a counsler. Just get away from the house for a little like go over to a friends house or to the movies. Bowling maybe and stuff like that where you can get all that off your mind. Your mom might be yelling at you since she might be stressed since she has 4 kids so it might be best if you let her be but just get away from the house and have a good time!
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Ok so i like this boy alot. But hes very short. and im tall. and thats just kinda whats stopping me. what do i do? (link)
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I've been there. He was short I was tall. That really shouldn't stop you fromliking him and it turned out he liked me too. Height dosn't mean a thing its just the way they were born. hat shouldn't stop you. Go for this guy if you really like him.
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well me and my friends a&b are really close. we always have fun(i'm c if you were wondering) and hang out all the time, but sometimes a treats me and b like were useless and were not worthy to be her friend because her sis is in 8th grade. BIG WHOOP. and she sometimes hangs out with her sis and her sis's friends and she acts all cool around them. i think that they are bad examples.for instance we were in church for christmas eve mass and they were laughing the whole time and being disrespecful. sometimes she is so fun and so nice and other times she acts like she is better than us in everything. I want to say something to her but what do i say that doesn't ruin our friendship 4ever??? please help me i need adice fast me and b are starting to feel really bad?????? how do we fix this please answer as quickly as possible because we need help!!
signed,
confused and hurt (link)
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Dear Confused and Hurt,
Just talk to her and tell her what has been going on and why she treats you like that. Don't say it in a mean way you know but just talk to her, she will either understand and stop or she'll keep it up. If she does keep that up you don't need a friend that acts like that. If she is a bad example then stay away from her you might start acting like that too.
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16/f
okay so theres this girl kayla and me and her are best friends right? well weve always been close with this other girl tiff, but now we've been getting closer with her and i dont know..it doesnt feel like me and kayla are as close anymore... it feels like they dont want to hang out with me as much.. (but maybe thats in my head? and maybe im the one with the problem idk...) but what are some things to .."put a spark back into the friendship?"
anything helps.
thanks. (link)
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Talk to Kayla about what has been going in your head. Say something like Kayla I've been having this weird feeling that you don't like to hang out with me as much. You've been hanging out with Tiff alot more now but I just don't want to lose a great friend like you. She going to understand and tell you whats going on.
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Hey, I am really bored half of my friends left the city and some just went somewhere with family. Some of my friends are busy with other people i don't know. & I also don't like asking my parents for a ride to go somewhere. I dont celebrate Christmas, but i am really bored. & i have this thing, when im bored I CRY because NOTHING to do home at all. Do you guys have any advice what I can do to keep myself busy & NOT cry? I usually go on msn, facebook & myspace, but i want to do something better. Also i usually clean my room, talk a bit on the phone, watch t/v , eatt but i still end up CryyInn.
Any good new sites or any advice please help, Also if you are not going away ober the holiday please share what you guys do & if you have facebook id like to add you if u dont mind =] THanks for taking your time to read this . (link)
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Well you can find some games on the computer and music is also good to get you entertained. Sometimes the t.v. has some good movies or shows on so thats there too. Even scrapbooking is fun and writing in a journal to express you feelings right now and lets see....well if you like to cook make something nice even if it isn't for the holidays. If you got a pet then hang out with it for a little it should keep you company for a bit lol unless its a fish. Go outside kick a ball, paint, draw. You'll find sometehing to do.
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Libby always follows Vanessa around all the time! It's sooo annoying. Everyone notices, even Vanessa. Like if we're at a party, Libby is like Vanessa's shadow. I can't talk to Vanessa or be with her without Libby popping up. And if I'm with Libby she always leaves to go find Vanessa. V is annoyed w/ it too. Libby is such a follower it bugs me. I can't talk to Libby ab it because its hard to explain.. like i dont want to make a big deal ab it. Should I just leave it alone and let Libby figure it out for herself? Or what? (link)
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If you feel you should talk to Libby then go ahead but it might be better if you have Libby talk to her. Okay if you can't talk to Vanessa while Libby isn't around get Vanessa phone number and talk to her then about the sittuation.
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alriight so my friend lucy used to be like my best friend. she moved but we still kept in touch and hung out every now and then. it's hard though becaus we're both busy with our lives. we always plan on hanging out but it kinda falls through, and i was gonna go to a party at her house for her birthday but they were all getting drunk so i didnt go. i want to hang out with her, but every time we've tried its fell through so i haven't seen her for a year (except when i saw her for like 2 seconds at the beach). i know if you're truly friends no matter how long its been it'll be like old times, but i just dunno what to do when we're together. i dont wanna just hang at my house because that would be boring. any ideas or helpp? thanks (link)
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Well if want ideas to go somewhere where you 2 can hang out then maybe I can help. Try going to the movies and spending time with her there. Maybe a fast food place where you guys can sit a chat about whats been happening since you havn't seen each other. The beach just go have some fun there and just plan something special and you both will have alot of fun!
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okay so im 15 now and i went out with my first Real boyfriend. I am an attractive girl and really sweet/caring. well this is how the relationship started: 2 months ago he had a relationship with another girl and me. he was with her first but he left her for me and told me he wouldnt cheat on me again. i forgave him.. Recently i broke up with him because i thought he was playin me :(. but he wasnt and he told me he would never do anything to hurt me and he wanted me back and he wants me to trust him (he knows i have issues with that)..but i chose to not be with him i jus need some time to think cause there are so many rumors. i want him but then again i dont. im so confused. because i daydream all day about this boy. and we havent be going out for long..its probably jus an infactuation...ughhhhhhhh
but he says he hates not being with me... (link)
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It sounds to me he really cares about you. It you are sure you can trust him then go for him and if you aren't and you have proof I say stay away but so far you don't have proof right? Well then I say think about getting him back if you do have real feelings for him and you know he wouldn't break your heart.
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I have been having prolonged stomach discomfort and nausea for the past few weeks, and it's nothing that I have changed in my diet, medications, or livelihood. I also have been having some white discharge down there...(sorry)... and the general pains in my stomach feel like cramps even though it is not that time. Can anyone please provide a medical perspective? Thanks (link)
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All I say is go see a doctor. They might not know what it is but you should try it anyways. You might have eaten something bad or something like that. So the doctors might figure out what it is.
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I'm a teenage girl who is going to commit suicide today. No questions asked. I could never cut myself or jump off of a building- but I might be able to suffocate myself. But the problem with that would be that I don't know if I'd come back to consciousness with brain damage or not. Does suffocation cause brain damage? Or does it just kill you? Any quick and painless methods would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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Don't do it! Life is way better than that! Please talk to a parent or gaurdian or someone who can help you! If anything is bothering you you just shouldn't go ahead and throw away your life like that! So please don't. Someone loves you and don't say that they don't so you really don't want to hurt them too so my final words are don't do it!
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I've always felt like I should have been a girl when I was born, and I feel wrong as a guy. I'm 16 and in 10th grade. I just feel like I can't tell my parents or friends, cause they would freak, and I just feel like I'm stuck living with this feeling. Anybody have any advice on what I should do? (link)
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Well some people feel that way I am a girl and life isn't that easy but sometimes everyone dosn't feel who they are supposed to be but you don't have to tell your friends or parents. Just be who are are. You should just be happy of who you are because thats how you were born and you'll soon find how you are happy being the guy you are.
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14/F
okay, so, i'll be blunt. i want a boyfriend....no, wait, scratch that, i NEED a boyfriend. There are many guys i'm interested in my school, but they don't seem to be interested in me. I don't know what to do. I'm shy, short and i don't think im all that good looking. but what girl doesn't think that about themselves? all of my friends have boyfriends... many infact. My very best friend is workin on her 8th...but this last one is steady (already 7 months!!), one of my other friends has a date practically every weekend, and i just feel lonely. I asked someone out in 7th grade so he would stay out of harms way with another girl who was gonna ask him. (the fact that i liked him too helped), but knew then that i wasn't ready becuase we didn't do nething, infact, we talked even less when we were "dating". well, i'm ready now. I'm so tired of being the third, fifth, or even 11th wheel. I want someone to hang out with and taht will like me for me, and will want to do stuff (like go to the movies or dinner or somethin). How do i get these guys, or any guys to notice me?? please remember, i'm shy...oh yea, and i NEVER want to ask out another guy as long as i live (except for turn-about)!
I really want a good break, so quick advice would be very appreciated and helpful!
thanks so much, and sry this is so long (link)
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Sounds like you are desperate. There is no reason why you really need a boyfriend besides being lonely. Just slow down and then before you know it you'll have a boyfriend. If you are so desperate and then you get a boyfriend you might be stuck with pain if the guy is a jerk. If you like a guy right now just talk to him even if you are shy you can try to get over that. Just pretend that he's one of your best friends and you can say anything to him. Start the conversation with an easy topic and he'll take it from there. Maybe a little flirting but don't make it so obvious just give him little hints. Hope you find the right guy.
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Do all girls like chocolate. And if they do do the like Dark or Milk better? (link)
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Not all girls like chocolate like my best friend. She hates it! I like it. I like Milk Chocolate the best but I hate Dark.
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14/f. i hang out with guys alot and now girls think im a slut. does that seem slutty to hangout with mostly guy? im just friends with them, and i still hang out with girls too. this is really bothering mee. (link)
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You are not. You just like to hang around boys there is nothing wrong with that. They are cool. Those girls you said that are probably just jealous that you get to hang out with the boys and they don't. Just forget them and do what you want to do.
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i need help keeping my self-esteem up cuz im not really good at anything although im into alot of hobbies. i cry for no reason and no one will ever love me. I need hope and help. (link)
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Of course someone loves you. Your family and friends, you know they probably were there for you when you really need them most. Hobbies are great you should keep that up and thats one thing you are good at so thats a good thing to do. I suggest a nice hot bath and really pamper yourself and just relax. It gets rid of a lot of stress. Or just curl up on your bed with a nice book. I know some people don't like to read but thats you choice. You know sports is something good to try. You might not be good at it but practice makes perfect!
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14/f - straight
well..i had this boyfriend a really long time ago that i was like in love with
and then we kinda broke up because we both had issues with other stuff ((family..school))
but i still like love him and he's got a new girlfriend that i guess he loves
i want to date other guys
but i guess im intimidating or whatever ((ive been told a couple different things))
Other guys like me..i know..they've told me a lot.
But i feel bad because i dont like them
and i cant date someone i dont like.
i just need help with some issues i guess =/
sorry this is so long.. (link)
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You might not be over him but one thing he gots a girlfriend and you don't want to ruin a relationship. Just talk to the other guys and get to know them. You might find yourself off this guy and onto one of them. There are tons of guys in the world so don't sweat it. Just stay away from the guy you like now and try to get to know the other guys.
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The teacher is going to yell at me once I get back to school because I didn't do my work in this group project.
It was to write a big poem about something. So yeah, I had these 2 girls in my group to work with. They already got started. and .. well I can't work with them!
They weren't speaking ENGLISH .. and I don't know spanish! They both are like best friends so I couldn't butt into the conversation.. (I'm uber shy x3554343 :[)
And they were working on their own and each person had to write 3 stanzas.. but I had no clue what they wrote.
So i didn't want to repeat and get in trouble..
Is it really my fault?
They both got up and walked away right in the middle of it. They both worked together and forgot about me.
I dont know. (link)
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Its definetly not your fault. Just tell your teacher that you don't speak their launguage and wish to work in English. She should understand.
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