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i think i love this boy..i think about him every day..but th
okay so im 15 now and i went out with my first Real boyfriend. I am an attractive girl and really sweet/caring. well this is how the relationship started: 2 months ago he had a relationship with another girl and me. he was with her first but he left her for me and told me he wouldnt cheat on me again. i forgave him.. Recently i broke up with him because i thought he was playin me :(. but he wasnt and he told me he would never do anything to hurt me and he wanted me back and he wants me to trust him (he knows i have issues with that)..but i chose to not be with him i jus need some time to think cause there are so many rumors. i want him but then again i dont. im so confused. because i daydream all day about this boy. and we havent be going out for long..its probably jus an infactuation...ughhhhhhhh
but he says he hates not being with me...
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Go with your gut dear. Your gut is saying even if this guy is being straight with you (not likely) he isn't worth all the drama, doubt and rumors.
You don't have 'trust issues' if this guy really can't be trusted not to cheat! It doesn't matter if he was or wasn't playing you this time: it's pretty clear you CAN'T trust him. Maybe he will be true to you now, but if you can't believe that then you can't be with him.
There is nothing wrong with you if you can't believe him! You have absolutely no reason to have faith in him: he cheated and was flakey enough to cause you doubt agian. He has not earned your trust.
You can fogive him for the past, and still decide you can't really trust him and don't want to be with him.
Just trust listen to your head and not your heart or any desperate thing he says.
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It sounds to me he really cares about you. It you are sure you can trust him then go for him and if you aren't and you have proof I say stay away but so far you don't have proof right? Well then I say think about getting him back if you do have real feelings for him and you know he wouldn't break your heart.
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Usually rumors are based on real things, but don't let it get to you without good solid proof. You should really give him another chance if you think he deserves it. From what you say he seems like he really cares for you. Hope I helped && Merry Christmas! =]
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