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hmm typical boy issue..
14/f - straight
well..i had this boyfriend a really long time ago that i was like in love with
and then we kinda broke up because we both had issues with other stuff ((family..school))
but i still like love him and he's got a new girlfriend that i guess he loves
i want to date other guys
but i guess im intimidating or whatever ((ive been told a couple different things))
Other guys like me..i know..they've told me a lot.
But i feel bad because i dont like them
and i cant date someone i dont like.
i just need help with some issues i guess =/
sorry this is so long..
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You might not be over him but one thing he gots a girlfriend and you don't want to ruin a relationship. Just talk to the other guys and get to know them. You might find yourself off this guy and onto one of them. There are tons of guys in the world so don't sweat it. Just stay away from the guy you like now and try to get to know the other guys.
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Dear boy issue,
Don't worry it's not long i've seen longer. Yes everyone will have their first love and it will be the hardest one to ever get over. Aparently he wants to move on and you just kinda are still standing there waiting for someone good to cross your path. Even though you may not like a guy that likes you, but maybe you should get to know him first, even if you think you may know him now there may still be more to him than you know.
So try giving some of the guys a chance. I'm not saying go out and say yes to every guy that crosses your path, just go on the occasionaly date and see if there is more to the guy than you saw.
Good luck!
-Beanie
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It doesn't sound like you're over this guy, and you cannot move on with another guy if you're still hooked on someone else. Because it will always come back to you, and it wouldn't be fair to the other person. The only thing I'm concerned about, is that this guy now has a girlfriend. You do not want to step on any toes, so you may want to leave this alone. Unless, you feel that you should tell him how you feel.
If you don't want to tell him how you feel right now, then I suggest (not dating someone or anything like that) talking to different guys. Just talk to them and get to know them, and you may find yourself falling for one of those guys. Just make sure not to throw yourself into something you're not ready for.
Good luck!!! Don't worry, I'm sure everything will work out!
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hmmmmm.
i'm just telling you now, you should be extremly careful when you say you love someone. Usually you end up hurting them because you didn't really love them. If you want to get back with your old boyfriend, then you should definetly tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels about you. The best way to meet other guys is to get to know them through some of your friends. They most likely have other guy friends in school you don't know. Get to know 'em, maybe you'll like 'em.
hope i helped
best of luck
xo
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Aweee. To me it seem`s like you deff.`ly aren`t over that guy, and I think you need to talk to him & flirt around and just talk about the old times & see how he reacts, and see if maybe there`s a chance he still likes you. =) & If you are wanting to get over your ex it`s best to date guys you really don`t like that much from the start and then you start to like them later on; because that totally makes you forget about your ex or ex`s! Well I hope I helped & Good LuCk!
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