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ma boi and ma homeboi


Question Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 1:54 pm

okay here is the thing my boyfrend is E and my homeboy if F ok. well im not so sure if i still want to date my boyfriend because well he doesnt trust me and on the other hand my homeboy F is really great but i think i want to be more then his homegirl and i can tell that he does too becuase he practically told me! What should i do?

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the_sweeter_heart answered Wednesday December 20 2006, 4:11 pm:
From confused girl,

It'll be wrong to dump E just for another guy. But then again, F seems sweeter and he seems to share the same feelings you have for him.
Hang out with F a lot. But don't make out or date or anything like that... yet. Because a person might be really great to be with as a homeboy, but not so right as a boyfriend. He might not be so great at dating as you might've thought, so just be around him around him a lot and pretend he's your boyfriend and how it would be like.
If you really like this F guy, talk to your boyfriend. Tell him you don't like how he doesn't trust you and everything. As a couple, you guys are supposed to trust each other, right? Well E doesn't trust you, so what kind of relationship is that? Tell E you should see other people. Tell him to find someone he actually trusts.
I think you and F will totally go together... but if it doesn't work out, don't worry. Remember, there are A LOT more cute guys out there as your options. You just have to be yourself and, most importantly, flirt! ;)

Hope I've helped
-Jenny C

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beanie answered Wednesday December 20 2006, 4:06 pm:
Dear confused girl,

You prett much told me what you wanted to do, you may not of realized it but you said it. Yes you're current boyfriend is your boyfriend, and he doesn't trust you because he probably sees the way you two interact with eachother. He either knows the way you feel about your homeboy or how your homeboy feels about you. Most of the times great realationships sprout from friendships. And you're curious to find out whether you want to really be more than a homegirl to him.
My personal opinion I think that you should give your homeboy a try. You may be surprised about how well it turns out.

-Beanie

ps- if you decide to take my advice let me know how it turns out.

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snickerzz11 answered Wednesday December 20 2006, 3:06 pm:
I think you should date your friend. If you don't like your boyfriend anymore, and he doesn't trust you, then you have no reason to go out with him. But if you want to date your friend, and he wants to date you, then you have every reason to go out with him! hope this helped and good luck =]

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linzbaby answered Wednesday December 20 2006, 3:02 pm:
Well it all depends on who you like more, your homeboy or your boyfriend. And you said your boyfriend doesn't trust you, if you went out with your homeboy would he trust you? It really all depends on who you like more and who would make a better boyfriend.

Hope I helped
-Linsay

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