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i need hope and help
i need help keeping my self-esteem up cuz im not really good at anything although im into alot of hobbies. i cry for no reason and no one will ever love me. I need hope and help.
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Of course someone loves you. Your family and friends, you know they probably were there for you when you really need them most. Hobbies are great you should keep that up and thats one thing you are good at so thats a good thing to do. I suggest a nice hot bath and really pamper yourself and just relax. It gets rid of a lot of stress. Or just curl up on your bed with a nice book. I know some people don't like to read but thats you choice. You know sports is something good to try. You might not be good at it but practice makes perfect!
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Listen, I can promise you this -- that not only will someone love you, that lots of people already do love you. Your family, your friends love you for who you are, I'm sure, that's what they are there for. I know I do not know you, but I bet you're a really nice, caring and thoughtful person. If you have a lot of hobbies, that's great, and those are things that you're good at it or that you're learning and will soon become good at.
I want to recommend a good book, that I think would really help you. Of course, it is completely up to you if you choose to read it or not. "Teen Fit for Girls: Your Complete Guide to Fun, Fitness and Self-Esteem" by Embleton, Phil
The self-esteem part of this book, is very helpful, among the rest of the book also.
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Aww! Never think that no one will ever love you trust me. If you convince yourself that your not good at anything and keep crying then thats not going to make things better! Keep your chin high and have some friends come over and talk to then about things! You may not have love from a guy right now but you have your friends && family and every little bit helps! Lifes to short to be upset and never frown because you never know who's falling in love with your smile!
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I used to be the same way. It's hard, I know. I used to think I wasn't good at anything, and that I would never be in a good relationship. But it all works out in its own wierd way. It takes a little bit of time but you can't give up. There is always something you are good at, you just may not know exactly what it is. And there is always someone that loves you...
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