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feeling low
well me and my friends a&b are really close. we always have fun(i'm c if you were wondering) and hang out all the time, but sometimes a treats me and b like were useless and were not worthy to be her friend because her sis is in 8th grade. BIG WHOOP. and she sometimes hangs out with her sis and her sis's friends and she acts all cool around them. i think that they are bad examples.for instance we were in church for christmas eve mass and they were laughing the whole time and being disrespecful. sometimes she is so fun and so nice and other times she acts like she is better than us in everything. I want to say something to her but what do i say that doesn't ruin our friendship 4ever??? please help me i need adice fast me and b are starting to feel really bad?????? how do we fix this please answer as quickly as possible because we need help!!
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confused and hurt
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I say get rid of her. Talk to her, and say exactly how you feel. If she wants to end it, then end it. If she bothers to treat you like that in the first place, then she doesn`t deserve to have wonderful friends like you and b sound. In the start, she`ll TRY to start hanging out with her and her sister`s 8th grade friends...until they, TOO, get fed up with her. Then, one day, she`ll crawl back to you and realize how much she`s missing in her life.
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`Jam
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Okay, so A is in a phase when she wants to popular or cool around her sister's friends. If she doesn't knock it off and treat you like the way you both deserve.. Drop her.
You don't need a friend that acts all nice to you alone.. BUT around other people, mean. It's not right. She's trying to look cool in front of them so she acts like she's better than you. But the attention isn't worth it because she will just contiune it.
You try talking to your friend, okay? It may not be pretty because her head is in the clouds. She wants to be noticed by her sister's friends and that means she's hurting you along with it. That may ruin your friendship because she doesn't even know she's hurting you or because she doesn't want to stop hanging out with them. Some people aren't aware of doing awful things unless you speak up.
If that doesn't change a thing... then talk to B and try to work something out, and possibly ditch A.
You don't need a friend that treats you bad.
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Dear Confused and Hurt,
Just talk to her and tell her what has been going on and why she treats you like that. Don't say it in a mean way you know but just talk to her, she will either understand and stop or she'll keep it up. If she does keep that up you don't need a friend that acts like that. If she is a bad example then stay away from her you might start acting like that too.
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