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So annoying!!
Libby always follows Vanessa around all the time! It's sooo annoying. Everyone notices, even Vanessa. Like if we're at a party, Libby is like Vanessa's shadow. I can't talk to Vanessa or be with her without Libby popping up. And if I'm with Libby she always leaves to go find Vanessa. V is annoyed w/ it too. Libby is such a follower it bugs me. I can't talk to Libby ab it because its hard to explain.. like i dont want to make a big deal ab it. Should I just leave it alone and let Libby figure it out for herself? Or what?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If you feel you should talk to Libby then go ahead but it might be better if you have Libby talk to her. Okay if you can't talk to Vanessa while Libby isn't around get Vanessa phone number and talk to her then about the sittuation.
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yesS you should tell her or maybe it'd be better if Vanessa told her. it's obvious Libby doens't realize she's getting annoying. im sure she wouldn't want to seem like a follower. She needs some advice and if it's bothering Vanessa she should tell her instead of letting continue to go on. If Vanessa donet tell her any time soon..she'll eventually blow up and say whats on her mind and it might come out wrong or even at the wrong time. When you, (i prefer Vanessa)tell Libby hows she acting, she should be understanding if takes it wrong then let her cool off for a while..try to be respectful about it..if she ends up disagreeing with you guys then maybe you shouldn't hang around her..who wants a follower all the time but then again if she's a good friend Vanessa should take in consideration that someone actullay wants to be around her alot. hope i helped be sure she knows what she's doing thats bothering you guys...merry christmas
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Some people are followers and some are leaders. Maybe Libby just isn't aware that she's doing this. Both you and Vanessa should sit her down and calmly tell her that it's beginning to get on your nerves. Hope I helped && Merry Christmas! =]
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