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give up?
13/f
i like this guy, but hes two years older and he has a girlfriend...should i just give up?
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i dont think you should give up but just put your feelings on hold until him and his girlfriend break up. maybe just put him on the back burner of your mind. girlfriends come and go. maybe you should try being friends with him dont bring up that you like him when he has a girlfriend though because that can make it worse. if you are already friends then thats a start. theres nothing wrong with an age diffrence just dont let him take advantage of you.
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Since he`s in a relationship don`t try to get in it. You could wait. But it`s not worth it if he truely like his gf and wants to be with her. ♥
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Sadly most older guys rarely ever pay attention to younger girls. My friends even told me that, they said they want someone around their age, but older. Since he has a girlfriend, I doubt he's going to break up with her for someone else.
I mean, since he's with her... he obviously likes her.
I'm not saying you can't get with him.. because there could be a chance down the road and all.
but I wouldn't hope for the best. You'll get your hopes up BUT everything works out for him and you'll get upset.
So maybe don't think much of him when he's in a relationship.
.. But don't get too attached to the idea of getting with him.
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Try to wait it out alittle while... you don't want to give up if you have a chance. =] But thenagain, you don't want to cling to him because you don't want to be the REASON they break up. Just back off a little bit & the relationship probably won't last forever. =]
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I don't think you should give up. He might brake up with his girlfriend and then you could go for it. You never know he might like you too so if they do brake up try to get him to like you by flirting and all that stuff. just don't mess up their relationship when they're dating because then he might get mad at you. Two years difference is not that much so don't worry.
Good luck!
-Selma
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If you want something, go for it. High School relationships barely last, so they could be breaking up pretty soon, which gives you a clear shot! Go for it! Hope I helped and have a Merry Christmas! =]
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yup.
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Go with what you feel. You don't want to mess up him and his girlfriends relationship. Look around there are so many other guys out there that are perfect for you. Maybe even one is crushing on you right now so talk to other guys and get to know them and you might find yourself falling for one of them.
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