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okay so theres this girl kayla and me and her are best friends right? well weve always been close with this other girl tiff, but now we've been getting closer with her and i dont know..it doesnt feel like me and kayla are as close anymore... it feels like they dont want to hang out with me as much.. (but maybe thats in my head? and maybe im the one with the problem idk...) but what are some things to .."put a spark back into the friendship?"
anything helps.
thanks.
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Talking is always good! Tell Kayla how you really feel. There is nothing to be embarassed about, because she's a good friend, right? Just tell her how much your friendship means to you. Maintaining ANY relationship (friends, family, boyfriends) takes a lot of work and communication is key. If she's a true friend, she will take your feelings into consideration and work with to make sure you remain friends.
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omg..this is EXACTLY what happened to me and my best friend...
i dont mean to sound mean but all i wanted was the "tiffany" in my group to be gone.
idk if its like that for you.
im guessing if you give it time and really pay a lot of attention to kayla you guys will be close again
mariii
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That`s exactly what happened with me & my best friend Endie. =] With this other girl named Olivia, and I hadn`t really thought about it until now, that me and Endie aren`t as close anymore.
Honestly, it`s just something that`ll grow on you. It`s like a new lifestyle and you`re having to adjust to this new girl in your group. Eventually it won`t be THAT big of an issue, and hopefully it`ll all blow over, as my problem has. In case you`re scared you may lose Kayla as a friend, talk to her and tell her exactly what you said on here, that you`re afraid both of you are going to fall apart because of this chick named, Tiffany. Say that you don`t want that to happen.
The only thing I can think of that would put a spark back into the friendship, is hang out with Kayla more outside of school, and have things be like they used to be, without this other girl. =] ♥
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Talk to Kayla about what has been going in your head. Say something like Kayla I've been having this weird feeling that you don't like to hang out with me as much. You've been hanging out with Tiff alot more now but I just don't want to lose a great friend like you. She going to understand and tell you whats going on.
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just let them have their time...all theire doing is spending more time together...
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