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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

There's this guy that likes me [hes likes me back]
so I was going to see him today [he goes to a different school]

and when i stood next to him.. my other friend came out of nowhere and took me to see someone else. i tried getting a hold of my crush but he said he couldn't leave his backpack in the front.. and my friend had a grip on me.
so i was only gone for like 3 minutes.. i came out as quickly as i could but he wasn't there.

he didn't tell me he was leaving.. there was no bye.

it feels stupid to even be slightly upset.

And he also has my number! He could have called me but he didn't.

I was staying for him for about half an hour then realized he.. just left.

I don't know. Should i even be upset?

I'm not trying to be.. it just bothers me.

If this is the first time he's done it, I wouldn't be too upset. If it's been happening regularly, then yeah, it's fine to be upset. Stop waiting around for him to call you. Call him yourself, because he might not even call. Maybe he had somewhere to go & couldn't stay waiting around for you...Call him & I'm sure he'll explain it.

♥T!NA

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okay well i'm 13 & the guy i like is 16. is that bad?? like he gives me signs that he likes me too but all my friends are going "laura, he's 16." & i go "so?". i just want to know if that is too much of an age difference.

Honey, age is nothing but a number. Honestly, I'm gonna be 16 soon, and in a few months, my boyfriend will be 21. Age is nothing to us. I love him, he loves me.

If you really like this guy, then go out with him & who cares what your friends say. Besides, there are people who more than 5 years apart. So don't even worry about it. And there's nothing wrong with dating an older man. =)

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okay, i know this kid. he's 14/m. but he has WICKED bad acne. like its actually kind of gross. its all over his face, his back, etc. yeah. i feel bad that he has such bad acne, but he doesn't really seem to care. i used to be friends with him last year, but we kind of stopped talking cuz he found out i liked him (i'm female btw). i want to tell him about a germatologist to go to or some kind of acne product that will help him..but i'm not sure how to tell him without sounding rude.

i'm not trying to sound mean or harsh..but, i really would like to help him..

I'm sure he gets picked on enough about his acne, and you recommending a dermatoligist to him isn't going to help. If you don't wanna sound rude, then say nothing to him at all about it. People who have acne cannot help it. All in all, there is no way to recommend something to them, and not sound rude or bitchy. Just don't say anything to him about it at all & keep your thoughts to yourself.

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This is the deal; I'm a prep.
Flat out, okay... but, in my school prep's are targeted. BIG TIME. Teachers make us write papers on how bad cliques are, and in class room meetings we disucuss the groups and every time people bring up prep and look at me. I have a certain group of friends and I sit with them, but i get along with almost anyone. Just beacuse someone has on all black and chains comming off their pants doesn't mean i hate them... I DONT ! BUT EVERYONE THINKS THAT?
Is anyone out there non-prep can you explain to me why people would assume that? they dont even know me.. and its not that im mean or stuck up in any way.

I don't understand you. You hate it for people to label you something, but then you go & label yourself. Nobody should label you, not even yourself.

People are idiots & they judge others based on music, clothing, outside appearance, or personality. Just tell everyone who does that to you to fuck off, and if they don't like you because of the way you dress, then that's their problem, not your's.

It's okay, because I hate people who label others as well. But don't label yourself either. Because then you're right on their level.

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How truly important is the SAT if you have all A's and 2 B's throughout high school with mostly advanced classes..?

Very. It determines what colleges you'll get into. =)

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okay well this is really complicated. i have a friend... hes a good friend of mine. during the summer we liked each other and we hung out all the time, and we were kinda together, if you will. now its the new school year and he acts like he likes me but i dont think he does. but the problem is i still like him, a lot. its ridiculous, like he acts like he likes me all the time & he flirts and he says im his favorite girl and its just so hard to let go. and im so attatched to him, still, its soo bad. i mean i hear he likes another girl and i feel sick to my stomach. i dont know what to do. any advice? xx

Tell him how you feel if he doesn't already know. Talk to him about it.

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I had no idea what kind of category to put this under but here goes my question...
ok now,
I watch porn videos at night to get me horny but I see a lot of girls and I think they're hot. 13/f by the way, and whenever i see like a pretty girl or something ill be like "whoa theyre hot" in my head. but then during the day when i see a lot of guys im like "omg hes so hot." or "whoa hes gorgeous" am i bi? am i lesbian? am i straight? is this normal?

You're young, you're curious. And you don't know what your sexual preference is.

You're normal.

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the girls at my school are getting gayer and gayer everyday, gay in the way that they are acting different and weird not actually gay. Ever since we changed school from 8th grade to freshmen all the girls think there hotshit now and try to boss around all the guys like there nothing so ive started not to listen to them anymore and now im hated?? and all other guys agree with me also. Like girls think there using you know and just start flirting with you to make them feel good about themselves when they really dont want anything from you. I Dont get it. And how should i act towards them without being a total dick cause thats how i have to act to show them there not hotshit.

They're idiots. Continue being a dick to them & maybe they'll learn that they're not the greatest. Or just tell them that they're a waste of skin. That usually works for me. =)

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ok well theres this guy i work with and i thought he hated me because he never spoke to me, but turns out he has a crush on me...someone told me! and from then on it was kinda obvious. well the person who told me is like communicating between us , and she gave me his cell number and told me that he wants me to call him! but idunno i dont want to be the one to make the first move! you know? and hes the one who was intrested in me first so i think he should do something! what should i do....i want to talk to him, but not like that. Oh and the reason we cant talk at work is cause we're from different departments! thanks in advance

Why can't you make the first move? I realize he's the one who likes you, but obviously he's shy. I would do make the first move & call him. Become his friend & if things start to go well, ask him if he'd like to be more than friends.

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does anyone predict lily allen music will be big here soon? i love her songs like woooah, and hope it will be.

Well, she's an up&coming artist, so give it a few weeks. She'll be huge here. =)

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I like this guy who likes me back. Only problem is, he has a girlfriend. He cheated on her with me, and we were hooking up for a couple weeks. Then we talked about it all and he said "im confused, because i mean i love my girlfriend but then i see you, and i like you too. i dont think we should hook up until i know whats going on with her." so i left it at that. i was really upset for the next few days. we still talk, and i saw him the other night and he was standing behind me with his arms around me. little things he does makes me know he cares. but i dont know what to make of it. he tells me he misses me, and he was sad today when he said that he doesnt think i still like him because i dont call him or IM him all the time. i told him i dont want to be a pain. i miss him so much, and i know he misses me. but whats the deal..? sorry this is so long

He's playing the both of you obviously. He has a girlfriend, and cheated on her with you. Then he goes back to his girlfriend & cheats on you with her. Why would you wanna be with a guy who does that? If he's already cheated on his girlfriend, the chances of him doing it to another girl are extremely high. He shouldn't be with either of you. You obviously have something his girlfriend doesn't, and she has things you don't.

Find someone who "loves" you & won't cheat. In this case, he doesn't deserve a second chance. He should break up with his girlfriend, and when he does, don't go for him. You know what he's been doing & you know there's a chance he'll do it again. This guy's an idiot. But obviously, he'll get what's coming to him sooner or later. =)

♥T!NA

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How can you tell if someone your dating is just in the relationship to get sex?

Usually they're very consistent about getting some. Or they just bug you & ask you if you want to everytime things start to heat up. If you say no, and they keep asking. You know he just wants sex & that you should probably leave him.

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How can you tell if your boyfriend is in love with you? Like what are the signs that he is?

Guys are usually bad with sharing or showing their emotions. I would wait for him to come out & say it. Don't ask him about it because he's gonna feel weird about it.

Some guys do give signs though. They usually tell you that you're the only one for them, & that they love your company & that you're perfect. Or they just deeply stare into your eyes.

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Umm yeah this is kind of embarrassing but yeah she want's to have sex but i don't know because i don't know what to expect, like will she bleed or will she get hurt or i don't know would you be able to tell me a little bit more please?? thank you
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Well, if she's a virgin, there's a chance she will bleed because you'll eventually break her hymen [cherry]. It'll hurt her for a little bit, but then the pain will go away. Don't worry about it. But remember to use protection. =)

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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.

Why was this in my inbox if you were gonna ask the whole site?

Get a life, seriously. This question should be deleted.

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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.

I was thinking you could build a doll house & then put your photography on to make it more modern.

I can usually give more suggestions, but I'm not so creative today. =( Sorry.

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Okay while making out with my boyfriend it was getting intense and he was moving his hands around so i grabbed it and put it on one my by breasts. and he squeezed it and what not.

but then later i tried to give him the hint to actually put it up my shirt. i even took his hand and put it halfway up. but then he just rubbed around my back and took his hands back down.

it just confuses me cuz he's fine with putting his hands in my pants and everything but he doesnt seem to want to go up my shirt. maybe hes nervous. i don't know.any suggestions or comments? thanks.

I think that maybe he is nervous. Next time you talk to him, ask him about it. Tell him you'd like for him to go up your shirt. He probably didn't take the hint the way you intended, and was confused.

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theres this song that im going crazy for. ive googled it a buncha times but cant find it. its a guy singin and its rap all i remember is "yes indeed anything you need for five hundred dollars" and there was another part that was like "make it rain make it rain" but its not the Fat Joe song Make It Rain. has anyone else heard it? its on the radio but they never say what its called!

http://www.advicenators.com/answer.php?q=470697

I searched, but the results are endless. I'd look through that link up there. You'd be able to recognize it more than me since you've heard it. But I think it is the Fat Joe song.

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so wen i go to starbucks i usually get a frappacino because i dont like the taste of strong coffee, but i like how there is a little tase of coffee in frappacinos. is the any other kind of drink that is really good but not alot of coffee?

What kind of frap do you get? I usually get a Vanilla Bean. I love it. =)

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I woke up this morning and my right eye is squinted. It won't open up all the way. I don't know why this happened because I didn't hurt my eye or anything but last night I kept rubbing my eyes because they itched and now, my right eye only opens about halfway.

What do I do?? =[

It could be pink eye. Tell your mom to take you to the doctor & don't touch anyone/anything with that hand just in case it is. Pink eye is super contagious.

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