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What would u do?
ok well theres this guy i work with and i thought he hated me because he never spoke to me, but turns out he has a crush on me...someone told me! and from then on it was kinda obvious. well the person who told me is like communicating between us , and she gave me his cell number and told me that he wants me to call him! but idunno i dont want to be the one to make the first move! you know? and hes the one who was intrested in me first so i think he should do something! what should i do....i want to talk to him, but not like that. Oh and the reason we cant talk at work is cause we're from different departments! thanks in advance
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You should call him! If you don't want to make the first move and he doesn't want to make the first move, then nobody is going to make a move and if you wait to long then it'll be akward. Wait a couple of days and if he doesn't make the first move than call him. Just keep it casual. Ask him how he's been and talk about work or something like that. Now that he knows you may be intrested he might make his move.
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well this day in age its perfectly socially acceptable for a girl to make the first move. haha.. BUT i wouldnt either! i dont think its a girls place really, especially if like you said hes the one who seemed intersted first. you said that theres someone communicating between the two of you.. well just tell that person that you arent going to make the first move, theyll tell him, and hopefully things will work out from there.
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Oh, this is so cute! Okay, I can see how you don't want to make the first move. But really, it's okay! Call him! When you're talking to him, ask him if he'd like to see you out of work some time (by 'departments' you mean work, I'm assuming). If he does like you, he sounds really shy, think of how thrilled he'll be when you call! I'm saying go for it! Good luck!
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if you're really interested in him and he's not making the first move its okay for u to do it. when u call him just talk to him as a friend and see how he reacts. over time he might finally admit to you how he feels and you could move on from there! hope i helped
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if you want him than do something obviously hes to shy to call you and what could it hurt and i know its hard to make the first move beleive me but you wont get anywhere if you dont and you dont have to talk to him about anything you dont want i know its eaiser said than done but call him and make small talk and if it doesnt work out at least you can say you tried hoped i helped good luck and remeber in this world i know its hard but you gotta take or fight for what you want
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Why can't you make the first move? I realize he's the one who likes you, but obviously he's shy. I would do make the first move & call him. Become his friend & if things start to go well, ask him if he'd like to be more than friends.
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