How can you tell if someone your dating is just in the relationship to get sex?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DepthofHeart answered Tuesday January 30 2007, 7:14 pm: It's the little details you need to pay attention to. How he acts around you, does he call you or have pet names or a nickname for you. Do you guys talk alot or is your relationship more physical? What do you to do when yuor alone? Is he all over you in two seconds? Does he trust you with secrets?, or do things for you for know reason?There are differnt types of intamacy; it isn't just sex. If you want to find out faster if someones in a relationship for sex, just say that you don't think you should have sex for a while and see ow they react. If they break up with you I think it's safe to say what they wanted. [ DepthofHeart's advice column | Ask DepthofHeart A Question ]
christina answered Tuesday January 30 2007, 11:02 am: Usually they're very consistent about getting some. Or they just bug you & ask you if you want to everytime things start to heat up. If you say no, and they keep asking. You know he just wants sex & that you should probably leave him.
LadyH answered Tuesday January 30 2007, 9:08 am: Well an obvious way is to not put yourself out there so easily. Take things slow & don't be so eager to take the "next steps" in the relationship. If he's not getting what he wants right away, he'll move on in no time. But a guy who is truly interested in you & the relationship will wait a long time before getting "anything." Also, if you're in any kind of relationship & you can't trust the guy.. then you shouldn't be in that relationship to begin with. Get to know someone enough to know they aren't the type before you commit to them. I've noticed firsthand that if you date a good friend, the likeliness of that relationship actually working is a lot higher. :) [ LadyH's advice column | Ask LadyH A Question ]
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