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what kinda music do you suggest that one should hear when one is feeling down? (link)
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Music that scares you. Then you'll feel fear instead of sadness. I suggest The Berzerker. Alright, scratch that. What type of music do you like anyway? Just listen to your favorite band that doesn't make you feel worse.
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people have been saying me and two bestfriends look so much alike as though we're triplets. lol but we're not the only ones, i was wondering why do bestfriends always look like one another? dressing-wise too. its natural they wanna look like each other rite? (link)
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It's not always this way, but it is quite common. It's natural for some, coincidential for others. My best friends and I don't look alike or dress alike at all.
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I am havin soo sooo many problems! I need so much help!
1. My dad is sexually horassin me and Im affraid to tell my mom bc she will get a divorce and well have no money!!
2. I am havin so many problems with movin I dont want to and we relocate like 5 times a year and none or our family is in the military!!
3. My mom is a major bitch!!!!
4. My hole family and supposed to be friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wanna kill my self but Im afraid Ill go to heell stupid huh
Plz plz plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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1: Well, sexual harrassment is an issue that should be addressed to people outside of this, especially since it's your father. A poor life with him out of the picture may be better than the life you lead with him.
2: Why are you moving so often? If it's because of your father, maybe this can be resolved if you tell someone about him. I'm assuming so considering your fear of being poor without him.
3: She can't be that bad, can she? If you think she'd divorce your father over the first issue, then she's at least looking out for you, right? I wish you'd go into more detail on this. A lot of parents can seem cruel and unjust, but most of the time they're just looking for the best for their children.
4: My family sucks too, if that's what you mean (Having little difficulty understanding this one). I usually ignore them while they fight (Some of them can be assholes to my mother), and now I don't see them very often anyway. From what I've seen, it's not abnormal to have a family like this.
You don't want to kill yourself. It's the absolute worst thing you can do in your situation. I'm assuming you are at least slightly religious (Your fear of going to Hell), and it's the common belief that suicide is an unforgivable sin. Besides, if you kill yourself all you would have experienced in life would be the pain you're feeling now. Suicide isn't an escape, it's a dead end.
Trust me, if it seems like life can't get much worse, chances are your right. I think and hope things will turn out better for you in the future. Contact me if you want to talk more about these issues or go into more detail about your problems.
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I gave up on love awhile ago..even though I don't want to, it just happened. Most of the guys I've dated were jerks. I don't trust guys and I resent all of my ex's and I can't help it. I haven't met a single guy in my school or area that was decent and I'm really starting to hate men. I'm not going to like females but I don't understand why men are such jerks. Someone help? (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. Scratch that, a lot of my friends know exactly how you feel (I'm a guy. Knowing exactly how you feel would required me to go through some major changes). Well, it could have something to do with your age. I was an asshole when I was your age, completely immature, much like the rest of the guys I knew. There's a maturity gap at this age, girls mature faster than guys for some reason.
To be perfectly honest, I think a lot of guys treat girls the way they do because they can. Some of my closer friends cheat on their girlfriends, flirt with girls when theirs no chance of them going out, etc. When I try to understand why, the only reason I can think of is because they can. They really don't take other's feelings into consideration. They mainly just concentrate on their own needs. Basically, they're all selfish.
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i have looong hair that i can't seem to do anything with, it looks nice straight, but i want to SPICE it up a bit, without dying it, ive done that enough
please help meee (link)
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I had long hair, but I too desired a change. So I shaved it.
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omg ok...im so pissed right now...i was supose to go to the movies with the guy i like today...he has to bring his little bro every where so i was just gonna go with my lil bro too bc ther the same age and all my friends have started skool already...so we planned this 3 days ago..i called n asked wat he wanted to see and he sed a.v.p and i HATE those kinda movies so i was like ok..i was gonna see it bc i wanted ot b with him! so i called n found out the time for it and we agreed to go today (wednesday) ...and we planned this on like monday...and we used to c eachother ALOT but now we just never get around to it and we hold hands n stuff when we do see eachother n hes just sweet and so i was really excited i did chores to get the money n everything...well so i called him yesterday just makin sure he can stil go n he sed he can..so today i called him n he didnt asnwer so i figured he l eft to go...and i got droppd off with my brother and we waited...i kept callin bc there was no answer...and then he called me on his brothers cell and was like..."oh ya i cant go now" i dont have a ride ..i wa slike um ok....and he was like r u mad i was like no and then he was like yaaa...and then he was like o well i can get a ride but its from a gurl ii was like do wat u want..and then he was like ok well ill call her n see if she can take me and ill call u back...AND HE NEVER CALLED ME BACK! he didnt come, call or nothing to let me no wat was going on...so i was stuck seeing avp with my lil brother...im soo mad he hasnt called or nothing..wat shuld i do?? (link)
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What a dick! I would never call him again if I were you. He doesn't deserve you.
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My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*( (link)
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Don't listen to him, there's no way he can do this. He doesn't know, or he's lying. Semen leaks out the entire time. He's not lying to get you pregnant, he's lying because it feels better without the condom. At least make him use a condom. MFS summed it up better than I can. I just saw that most put to trust him, and I didn't want you to think that just because this seems to the popular belief, it was the way to go. Guys at this age (Or any age for that matter) are mostly only concerned with their own needs.
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What qualities in a girl do you boys look for, be honest!!! (link)
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Very masculine features, ignorance, and she can't be funny or show any emotion what-so-ever.
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I am a mother of young children . You probally dont have any , I hope not . Anyways you are young so I'll see if you can help me ; WHAT CAN I DO TO GET MY CHILDREN TO LISTEN TO ME ? I have to tell them to do something like a hundred times by then I just get mad . Thanks AAWE (link)
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Ah yes, I recall my younger years. I was one of the worst. I know several people have probably said it before, but talk is cheap. Sometimes kids will deliberately disobey you out of boredom. They enjoy getting reactions, especially if the punishment for disobedience isn't much.
You could try different forms of reinforcement. Maybe set up a system for evey day, week, or month where the same rewards or punishments are carried out. This might lessen the yelling required before. From what I've seen, a good way to show your seriousness is to increase the punishments after every incident. If they get allowance, then you might take it away for a week. If they continue, you might make it two, etc. The same is possible for possitive reinforcement too. You could try to increase the rewards given for good behavior, but make sure if you do this the increase is slight.
Whatever you do, I probably wouldn't let them convince you to change your mind on a topic (unless it's absolutely necessary). If you do, they might stop listening to you. It is in my opinon that children react more to negative reinforcement than possitive, which means I would dish out more punishments than rewards since they never listen.
I'm not sure if anything I just said makes any sense, it's 4:41 right now, and I have yet to go to bed. I hope I helped in some way.
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Shut up bitch (link)
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I'm suspending you for 3 days.
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The Final Act
Screeching tires, shattering glass,
twisting metal, fiberglass.
The scene is set it all goes black,
The curtain raised the final act.
Sirens raging in the night,
sounds of horror, gasps of fright.
Intense pain, the smell of blood
tearing eyes begin to flood.
They pull out our bodies one by one,
What is going on, we were only having fun!
One of my friends is missing, what did I do?
Her scattered belongings everywhere,
in the road there lies her shoe.
A man is leaning over me and looking in my eyes,
"What were you thinking, son"?
"Did you really think that you could drive?"
He pulled up the sheet still looking in my eyes,
"If you'd only called your Mom or Dad, you'd still be alive!"
I started to scream, I started to yell;
But no one could hear me, no one could tell.
They put me in an ambulance; they took me away.
The doctor at the hospital exclaimed, "DOA!"
My father's in shock, my mother in tears,
she collapses in grief, overcome by the fear.
They take me to this house and place me in this box.
I keep asking what is happening,
But I cant make it stop.
Everyone is crying, my family is so sad.
I wish someone would answer me,
I'm starting to get mad.
My mother leans over me and kisses me good-bye,
My father pulling her away, she is screaming, "WHY"?
They lower my body into a dirt grave,
It feels so very cold, I yell to be saved.
Then I see an angel; I begin to cry.
Can you tell me what is happening?
she replies "YOU DIED."
I can't be dead; I'm still so young!
I want to do so many things - like sing, and dance, and run.
What about college or graduation day?
what about a wedding? Please - I want to stay.
The angel looked upon me, and with a saddened voice,
"It didn't have to end like this; you knew you had a choice."
"I'm sorry it's too late now; time I can't turn back."
"Your life is finished; that, my son, is a fact!"
Why did this happen? I didn't want to die!
The angel, she embraced me and with her words she sighed,
"Son, this is the consequence you paid to drink and drive.
I wish you made a better choice, If you did you would be alive.
It doesn't matter if you beg me, or plead on bended knee, There is
nothing I can do, you have to come with me."
Looking down at my family, I said my last good-bye.
"I'm sorry I disappointed you, Dad.
Mommy, please don't cry,
I didn't mean to hurt you, or cause you any pain.
I'm sorry all you're left with is a grave that bears my name.
I'm sorry all your dreams for me have all been ripped away;
the plans for my future all gathered in a grave.
It was such a stupid thing I did, I wish I could take it back;
But the curtain is being lowered.
SO ENDS THE FINAL ACT...
Sorry this was so long. I thought this was very good and I wanted to see what you all thought about it.Hopefully it will teach ppl not to drink and drive (link)
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If you do this again, I'll ban you.
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The Final Act
Screeching tires, shattering glass,
twisting metal, fiberglass.
The scene is set it all goes black,
The curtain raised the final act.
Sirens raging in the night,
sounds of horror, gasps of fright.
Intense pain, the smell of blood
tearing eyes begin to flood.
They pull out our bodies one by one,
What is going on, we were only having fun!
One of my friends is missing, what did I do?
Her scattered belongings everywhere,
in the road there lies her shoe.
A man is leaning over me and looking in my eyes,
"What were you thinking, son"?
"Did you really think that you could drive?"
He pulled up the sheet still looking in my eyes,
"If you'd only called your Mom or Dad, you'd still be alive!"
I started to scream, I started to yell;
But no one could hear me, no one could tell.
They put me in an ambulance; they took me away.
The doctor at the hospital exclaimed, "DOA!"
My father's in shock, my mother in tears,
she collapses in grief, overcome by the fear.
They take me to this house and place me in this box.
I keep asking what is happening,
But I cant make it stop.
Everyone is crying, my family is so sad.
I wish someone would answer me,
I'm starting to get mad.
My mother leans over me and kisses me good-bye,
My father pulling her away, she is screaming, "WHY"?
They lower my body into a dirt grave,
It feels so very cold, I yell to be saved.
Then I see an angel; I begin to cry.
Can you tell me what is happening?
she replies "YOU DIED."
I can't be dead; I'm still so young!
I want to do so many things - like sing, and dance, and run.
What about college or graduation day?
what about a wedding? Please - I want to stay.
The angel looked upon me, and with a saddened voice,
"It didn't have to end like this; you knew you had a choice."
"I'm sorry it's too late now; time I can't turn back."
"Your life is finished; that, my son, is a fact!"
Why did this happen? I didn't want to die!
The angel, she embraced me and with her words she sighed,
"Son, this is the consequence you paid to drink and drive.
I wish you made a better choice, If you did you would be alive.
It doesn't matter if you beg me, or plead on bended knee, There is
nothing I can do, you have to come with me."
Looking down at my family, I said my last good-bye.
"I'm sorry I disappointed you, Dad.
Mommy, please don't cry,
I didn't mean to hurt you, or cause you any pain.
I'm sorry all you're left with is a grave that bears my name.
I'm sorry all your dreams for me have all been ripped away;
the plans for my future all gathered in a grave.
It was such a stupid thing I did, I wish I could take it back;
But the curtain is being lowered.
SO ENDS THE FINAL ACT...
Sorry this was so long. I thought this was very good and I wanted to see what you all thought about it.Hopefully it will teach ppl not to drink and drive (link)
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Stop this.
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The Final Act
Screeching tires, shattering glass,
twisting metal, fiberglass.
The scene is set it all goes black,
The curtain raised the final act.
Sirens raging in the night,
sounds of horror, gasps of fright.
Intense pain, the smell of blood
tearing eyes begin to flood.
They pull out our bodies one by one,
What is going on, we were only having fun!
One of my friends is missing, what did I do?
Her scattered belongings everywhere,
in the road there lies her shoe.
A man is leaning over me and looking in my eyes,
"What were you thinking, son"?
"Did you really think that you could drive?"
He pulled up the sheet still looking in my eyes,
"If you'd only called your Mom or Dad, you'd still be alive!"
I started to scream, I started to yell;
But no one could hear me, no one could tell.
They put me in an ambulance; they took me away.
The doctor at the hospital exclaimed, "DOA!"
My father's in shock, my mother in tears,
she collapses in grief, overcome by the fear.
They take me to this house and place me in this box.
I keep asking what is happening,
But I cant make it stop.
Everyone is crying, my family is so sad.
I wish someone would answer me,
I'm starting to get mad.
My mother leans over me and kisses me good-bye,
My father pulling her away, she is screaming, "WHY"?
They lower my body into a dirt grave,
It feels so very cold, I yell to be saved.
Then I see an angel; I begin to cry.
Can you tell me what is happening?
she replies "YOU DIED."
I can't be dead; I'm still so young!
I want to do so many things - like sing, and dance, and run.
What about college or graduation day?
what about a wedding? Please - I want to stay.
The angel looked upon me, and with a saddened voice,
"It didn't have to end like this; you knew you had a choice."
"I'm sorry it's too late now; time I can't turn back."
"Your life is finished; that, my son, is a fact!"
Why did this happen? I didn't want to die!
The angel, she embraced me and with her words she sighed,
"Son, this is the consequence you paid to drink and drive.
I wish you made a better choice, If you did you would be alive.
It doesn't matter if you beg me, or plead on bended knee, There is
nothing I can do, you have to come with me."
Looking down at my family, I said my last good-bye.
"I'm sorry I disappointed you, Dad.
Mommy, please don't cry,
I didn't mean to hurt you, or cause you any pain.
I'm sorry all you're left with is a grave that bears my name.
I'm sorry all your dreams for me have all been ripped away;
the plans for my future all gathered in a grave.
It was such a stupid thing I did, I wish I could take it back;
But the curtain is being lowered.
SO ENDS THE FINAL ACT...
Sorry it was so long
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Hey
In like two weeks im going to be a freshman in high school.. what can i do to stay organized.. ive never open a locker lock before and i was in the same school for 9 years before this.. can u help me and give me some tips on how to stay organized?? (link)
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I was insanely unorganized throughout most of my high school days. I eventually found that the trick to breaking this is minimalism. Try the simplest and most repetitive methods of going about your school day. Keep folders handy, and throw away useless papers as fast as possible.
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Me and my sister (12) just got in a huge screaming match. i love her very much, we havent fought that bad in awhile, but we just got really really mad at each other and just started screaming and hitting and fighting.. what should i do? i want to be friends again but im angry and confused!!!! (link)
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Ask her if you two can talk, try to examine and understand her point of view, explain this to her, and apologize.
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Okay well Im 16 years old and I dont know who my real father is. I know his name is Jim and he lives in west virginia. I dont like asking my mom because everytime I ask she gets this look on her face and trys to change the subject as if she were mad or something. I dont want to make her upset or mad but it feels like theres a wholllle other life that i dont know of! I mean its not one of those things where "she doesnt know who my dad is" she knows but wont talk about him. But there are days where I am completey upset cuz I just start thinking of him even though I dont know who he is."does he even know about me? does he not love me? was i not what he planned on having?" so many questions! Now the TRUE question is when im 18 should I ask my mom then go and try to find him or do you think it happend for a reason?!?! should I just let it go and live with all the pain? im so lost and heart broken. i mean i survived 16 years without a true dad but it hurt so bad excpecially because i never talked about him. What do you think I should do? (link)
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I think you have a very innocent way of looking at this. With a heart like yours, how can any father not love a daughter like you. But there's other ways of looking at this. You shouldn't worry about whether he does or doesn't love you, all parents love their child in some way, it's sort of built into them. Your mother definitely has reasons for not talking about him, they probably had a bad relationship long ago. I think everytime you talk to her about it, you're not really making her mad, it just seems that way. What's making her mad is probably the memories of your father. So in that, he's still making her mad, not you. I believe on issues like this, people are entitled to the truth. Anytime you think would be a good time, try to sit and have a long talk about your father. You're owed at least an explanation. As for finding him, I'm not sure if that would be very wise. Your mother seems to not want to discuss him, so she may have a low opinion of him. If you go through the trouble of finding him, there's a good chance you may be disappointed in who you find. If he came to see you, then that would be a different story. So talk to your mother sometime. Get her to answer at least the important questions. For example, if he even knows you exist.
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Hey I was wondering. if someone reply your qestion and there rude and crule how we deleat them.. well thing is I tried of people rudness not Friendly advice eather. ninthgradeguy need advice bout this and he really put me down..
Amanda (link)
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Tell me or another level 2 about someone whose bothering you with insulting answers and we'll take a look at their column and determine whether or not they need to be suspended.
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hey i asked the question about being 13 and pregnant well i just found out im having twins!!! my question is wht do they do in a c-section people r tellin me in to tiny and might have to get a c-section, nd i just wanna no like is it more or less painful, and wht do they do! ill rate u, i need advice!! thnx (link)
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I'm not caught up on todays procedures. Last I checked, there were certain pain-killers that couldn't be used in fear that it will harm the child. I'm not sure how much you will feel while they preform the incision, but I think the ordeal is more painful than a normal birth. Otherwise why would they ever go through the trouble of a normal birth.
Based on what I've recently heard from my mother, it's less painful due to not having to go through as much labor pains.
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what does being in LUST mean? (link)
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It's a way of saying someone is intensely physically/sexually attracted to someone.
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ok well this is kinda long but ok..ever since i was little i fell in love with gymnastics, i was about 6 when i saw the olympics and was just amazed by it. i used 2 sit and do cartwheels in my livingroom and stuff. well i beged my parents 2 let me join gymnastics and they never did...about a year and a half ago they finally let me take a summer session but i didnt learn much..now the olympics are on tv and i dont no it bothers me alot that its liek my dream will never come tru and it makes me mad at my parents, i feel like they never encouraged me at all and it may sound stupid but i dont now hat 2 do 2 get rid of this feeling, and i just feel liek im not good at ne thing anymroe, please help (link)
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I'm not sure if your familiar with the process of most girls in the olympics. There's this program where they start their training at around the age of 2 to determine whose got what it takes. They train them, a lot of the parents force them to do these painful exercises over and over again until they're freakishly flexible. Then, out of all the girls in the program, only a select few make it. So after training that starts at age 2 until I'm not sure when, several girls try and fail at there dream. It's sad really. Since you don't have the proper training, I don't think shooting for the olympics is the way to go. You have to be good at something, and I'm almost possitive you know this too. It may be that you just don't want to pursue anything else because this has been your dream for years. You still have plenty of time to decide what you want to do and who you want to be, my advice is to not worry so much about it at your age and just try to have fun.
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