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I am havin soo sooo many problems! I need so much help!
1. My dad is sexually horassin me and Im affraid to tell my mom bc she will get a divorce and well have no money!!
2. I am havin so many problems with movin I dont want to and we relocate like 5 times a year and none or our family is in the military!!
3. My mom is a major bitch!!!!
4. My hole family and supposed to be friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wanna kill my self but Im afraid Ill go to heell stupid huh
Plz plz plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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if you're afraid to tell your mom about your dad sexually harassing you then you should tell someone else that trust, so they can help you deal with the problem.
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u do have alot on ur plate 2 cope w/ at the moment but if u listen 2 me youll b able 2 make a stand and make it all stop. it seems as tho both ur parents r unexceptable. u shud inform DSS straight away even if it meens u mite get new parents. these people arent acting like parents their acting like sickos that dont care 4 ur feelings. and wateva u do dont kill ur self. u dont go 2 hell..its much worse....ur chosing 2 take ur life wen God has not callled u yet. i no it sounds gay but its tru. youll just b a drifting soul in an open space forever which actually i gess is hell. just go 2 DSS and tell them everything. dont b afraid. just remeber this "it is not our abilities that show who we truly are.it is our choices" chose wisley;) i reallly hope i helped and plz tell me how it works out
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whoa. you do need help. ok.
1) you do need to tell you mom about the what your father does to you because thats just wrong, but your mom will be smart enough to get a job to support the family.
2)about the moving thing, thats alot (are you guys on the witness protection program?)just ask them why you're moving so much and tell them how you feel about that. hopefully they won't move anymore but if they have a good reason why they move then i guess you should just keep in touch with friends and be ready to make new ones (hope i made sense)
3) if you could give me some example of why your mom's a bitch then i would give you an answer.
4) i agree with what you said, and communication is the key, so use that to your advantage and have a big talk with them.
About killing your self don't do it because you have a long life ahead of you and you will go apart from your family and, have your own life to worry about. so killing self don't do it.
"im really sorry about all of these things hapening to you". hope i helped.
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1. I understand what you're sayin but you really need to tell your mom about it.
2. Try to talk to your parents about it and how its really emotionally hard for you. But otherwise if they don't listen, theres not much you can do.
3. Yeah, some moms can be like that. Can't change her. But try to be as nice as you can to her and she might be like that back. Sometimes moms just get stressed out and need a little love.
4. Try talking to them and working things out.
5. Yeah, I know what you mean. It doesn't sound stupid. I've always wanted to kill myself ever since I hit depression, but the only thing that was holding me back was I knew if I committed suicide that I would go to hell. But just try to be strong. Please don't kill yourself... it will all be worth it in the end.
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1: Well, sexual harrassment is an issue that should be addressed to people outside of this, especially since it's your father. A poor life with him out of the picture may be better than the life you lead with him.
2: Why are you moving so often? If it's because of your father, maybe this can be resolved if you tell someone about him. I'm assuming so considering your fear of being poor without him.
3: She can't be that bad, can she? If you think she'd divorce your father over the first issue, then she's at least looking out for you, right? I wish you'd go into more detail on this. A lot of parents can seem cruel and unjust, but most of the time they're just looking for the best for their children.
4: My family sucks too, if that's what you mean (Having little difficulty understanding this one). I usually ignore them while they fight (Some of them can be assholes to my mother), and now I don't see them very often anyway. From what I've seen, it's not abnormal to have a family like this.
You don't want to kill yourself. It's the absolute worst thing you can do in your situation. I'm assuming you are at least slightly religious (Your fear of going to Hell), and it's the common belief that suicide is an unforgivable sin. Besides, if you kill yourself all you would have experienced in life would be the pain you're feeling now. Suicide isn't an escape, it's a dead end.
Trust me, if it seems like life can't get much worse, chances are your right. I think and hope things will turn out better for you in the future. Contact me if you want to talk more about these issues or go into more detail about your problems.
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u need 2 do sumthing about the abuse. TELL SOMEone. if they get divorced the court will figure out a way 2 help u gguys w/ money. but dont kill urself u'll go 2 hell and b severly punished. try gettin family conseling.. they will help u . good luck :)talk 2 ur parents bout da moving. tell them ho wu feel.
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yo first of all if he did anything to you and ur over 12 which I'm sure you are you can press charges and it can be big money like big cash so don't worry....and tell your mom your tired of moving and you don't want to move anymore...and tell your mom stop being a bitch with me ok like fu** and the don't kill yourself it won't solve anything I tired it so manytimes and nothing was good enough I ended up in the hospital once and I don't know i sucked majorly so talk to your mom reason with her and press charges on your dad cuz thats wrong sexualy horassin your daughter so go and press god damn charges and make your life happier
hope I helped good luck
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okay, this is how most familys are well not there father sexualy abusing you, you have to go talk to a counciler or something about this, they are the only people you can trust right about now, you need to go to someone to get help, you need to get out of your house and live with one of your relivies or something, the reason i know this is b/c i was in the same situation as you were and now i have a better life and i live with my grandma, trust me go talk to someone, oh and don't kill yourself its not worth it
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