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Does any one know any songs that like i could take a phrase and put it in my AIM profile. My dad died and i want to put a song like I WIll remember you- by sarahM. in it but i dont know anymore. Thanks

Here's some of the lyrics to the song I love and used phrases from because my Granny died.
Artist: PUFF DADDY
Album: Westlife
Title: I'll Be Missing you



Life ain't always what it seem to be
Words can't express what you mean to me
Even though you're gone, we still a team
Through your family,
I'll fulfill your dream
In the future, can't wait to see
If you open up the gates for me
Reminisce some time,
the night they took my friend
Try to black it out, but it plays again
When it's real, feelings hard to conceal
Can't imagine all the pain I feel
Give anything to hear half your breath
I know you still living your life, after death
CHORUS:
(Faith Evans:)
Every step I take, every move I make
Every single day, every time I pray
I'll be missing you
Thinkin' of the day, when you went away
What a life to take, what a bond to break
I'll be missing you

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ok what is the most romantic/creative way to get a girl's attention? and i dont want to do roses or jewelry, i want to do the only kinds of things girls dream about. any ideas? i rate high.

Oh! I love this question. My husband does these things for me! If you both have cell phones, text her the most sweestest message ever (leave a offline or e-mail maybe if you dont have cell phones) One message I got was from a country song he had "edited" this was on a night we couldnt see each other because of work. He wrote: Good Morning Beatiful, how was your nite? mine sucked cuz you were'nt by my side and when I opened my eyes, I didn't see your sweet face and it was a bad morningggg ugly day! LOL! When I read it I was like AAWWWW!! um, he takes me to places like a river or beach and walk on the pier and he holds me while we look out at the water and tells me how much I mean to him. Talk to her friends if all else fails to get the low-down on what she likes, no one knows better that a best-friend!

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Ok guys...well you see...I think I might be pregnant....I haven't had my period since like Feb. so I'm pretty sure I am..but my problem is..that I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 19, and I really actually want this baby, because ya know if I was able to lay down and have unprotected sex..then I am able to take care of my baby...but, I'm just afraid that my mom is going to freak out and call the cops on my boyfriend and he is going to get thrown in jail because of the age difference. I'm so confused and I don't want an abortion and my boyfriend (whom I love) to be in jail...so, if any one has any advice..it is GREATLY appreciated!!!!

Go take a pregnancy test! You can go to your local health department and get checked out free of charge and your parent(s) never have to know. They do this for everyone under the age of 18. You might be stressin for no reason, you see what I'm sayin... Anyway Let's say you are prego Do you think your mom would make you have an abortion? If you think she would then wait till your 4 months to drop the bombshell, at that stage in your pregnancy you cant have an abortion. Im telling you all this from my own experience at 17. (My mom found out when I was 2 weeks from being 4 months and made me have a abotion, which is something I still have trouble at almost 24 coping with) next thing is your older boyfriend, there is nothing that is going to change the fact that he is a adult sleeping with a minor. Just because you willingly had sex with him, it does not matter in the court's eyes. Do you think you mom would press charges on him if she found out you were pregnant? Should you be pregnant, it's just something that you and him are going to have to deal with. I know that hurts to say, but its the truth. If you take the test and you find out that you are NOT pregnant, Go get on Birth Control! At 15 you are in no way ready to raise a baby. Sure they seem so innocent and sweet and you love em' to death when there are giggly and smilin' but what about gettin up at 1:00am for feedings, 3:00am for diaper changes, and everything else. They take alot of money and time and that would mean quitting school so you have the time and getting a full time job so you would have the money to raise the child. This leaves you a un-educated 15 year old girl with a baby. I dont mean to sound so harsh or mean in any way, I'm just simply pointing out the facts.

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im having a bit of make up trouble. some people wear tons of makeup, and look really good, and some people just plain over do it. I know i dont over do it. sisnce i only put on:

lip gloss
foundation
concealer

& thats all. but i want to look pretty. without looking like some circus clown. and ideas on what to put on and how to do it? no web sites please :)

Add some eye shadow and mascara to tha' mix and you'll be good to go. Eyes are very important. Some people believe you can see someone's heart, there character in them. So make them look gorgeous! Get a EyeShadow multi pack with 3 different colors in it. Maybelline and Loreal are good ones. The 3 colors they sell in the pack are ment to match together. So to apply the eyeshadow (the shades go from light, medium and dark in the compact) put the medium on first at the bottom of the lid, next right above that do a line of the darkest color in the compact then fade the lightest color up to the brow. Take your finger and rub it on your eye in a side to side motion to blend all the colors together for a more natural look. Hope this helps. I know you said no websites, but if you change your mind, hit me back and ill send you one of what Im telling you to do with the eyeshadow (It shows how it looks when its finished.

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I was raped and It made it so I was kinda loose and not tight. I really want to be able to feel like I have my virginty. It was a really important thing to me.
Is there any excersises I can do to tighten up my vaginal area?

**Kegel Exercises**
Begin by locating your PC muscle. The next time you urinate, see if you can stop and start the flow of urine without moving your legs or squeezing the nerves in your buttocks. Feel a flexing and tightening beneath your bladder? The apparatus that allows you to perform this move is your PC muscle. If you don't know what I'm talking about, don't worry. Try again the next time you pee. You'll eventually find it.

Once you've found your PC muscles, you're ready to start practicing Kegels. Follow these steps:

Contract your PC muscles.
Hold for a count of five.
Relax your PC muscle.
Repeat 10 times.
That's all there is to it.
Practice Makes Perfect
For Kegels to have a real and lasting effect, you'll need to practice them regularly, between eight and ten times per day. That may sound like a lot, but remember that you can perform Kegels just about anywhere, anytime and in almost any position.

Additional, Yes to the person that asked me this, this exercise is what makes you tighter.

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Hey
Does anyone know any good novel books you would recommend reading. I want to read but i want to read something good. Help! I rate 5's.
Can it be for ages 12-16 PLEASE?

thanks again!

I used to love (still do) all book by R.L. Stine, by the time I was 16 I had read every book he had wrote, I could read a book every 2 days. He is a awesome author for young kids and teenagers. R.L.'s books are read all over the world. So far, he has sold over 300 million books, making him one of the best-selling children's authors in history.

http://www.scholastic.com/goosebumps/books/stine/

You can get them at your school library or check em' out at your local library..

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is a pap smear painful? and what exactly does the doctor do?

thanks

The Pap test, also called a Pap smear, checks for changes in the cells of your cervix. The cervix is the lower part of the uterus (womb) that opens into the vagina (birth canal). The Pap test can tell if you have an infection, abnormal (unhealthy) cervical cells, or cervical cancer.

How Long Will It Take? The pelvic exam takes 15-20 minutes; the Pap test portion takes less than 5 minutes.

Will It Hurt? A Pap test is generally painless, although you may feel some pressure or a small cramp when the cervix is wiped to acquire cells for examination.

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is there any way to make your own jeans? do you have any guilds you could show me,or someone who has made them give me any tips?any advice would be helpful! thankyou

*Ripped Jeans* Buy a pair of comfortable loose pants, or use a pair that you already have.
Prepare to cut them either while wearing them or with them off. It's easier if they are on you, but be extra careful to avoid cutting yourself.
Find the way the lines are going and rub the blade of the knife against the lines. For example, if the lines are horizontal, do it vertically (and vice versa).
When you have created a slit, take the pointy end of the knife and rub it against the edges until you see the white strings going in the opposite direction. Keep doing this until you have the desired hole size. Repeat this until you have a good number of holes in the pants.
To cut a knee hole, cut the knee in the desired location as far as you want the hole to extend, then rub the edges with the knife so that they get fuzzy and messy.
When the jeans are finished, throw them in the water with a little bit of bleach to age them a bit. Then dry them. The washing will also fray the cuts and make them look better.
Voila! You have just created your own unique ripped jeans - take that, name brands!

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Hey everyone, I need help - FAST ! Please just read my situation and try to help me I'm in deep trouble I think.

Okay, so after school today my boyfriendwas at baseball practice and he had to get something from his locker, and kissed me goodbye and at the time I was looking in his bookbag for his cellphone. Then he left and I was looking at pictures and then my friend came and was like "You should see his texts they're dirty." So I was like okay so we saw a girl's texts to him, lets call her Ashley. The texts weren't that bad but they were like 'I wanna hump you' and stuff like that. So my friend said "Wouldn't it be funny if we told Ashley off?" I was like "No it's not our phone." So my friend said "yeah okay whatever." She wrote "ur a whore" and then she had to go but I said "Don't you think we should at least delete the message so that he (my bf) doesn't see it ?" She said "No because then we have evidence that he sent it ." At the time I was not thinking at all and thought that it would work . But now I realize that obviously he's going to know that he didn't send it.
Well, here it gets worse. He called my other friend that is a guy, let's call him Trevor. Well my boyfriend called Trevor and told him how he thinks I told Ashley that she is a whore. Then Trevor called me and made me confess that it was my friend and it turns out my boyfriend was on the phone listening to mine and Trevor's conversation. At least my boyfriend knows the truth, but I dont think he believes me because while I was in the shower he sent me an IM that what I did was a bitchy thing to do.

The problem is, I didn't write the text ! I mean I know I probably should have stopped her but I went along with it. Now my boyfriend is PISSED at me. What can I do?

I'll rate 5's for anything

First of all no girl shouldve of been texting your man tellin him she wanted get it on with him in the first place! Why didn't he text her back and tell her no, im seeing someone or something to make her stop texting crap like that. Ask him that the next time he says something about you sending that message, girl flip that shit around and get him at his own game pretty soon he'll be so focused on trying to convince you that he's not a dirt bag for not telling her to stop texting him shit like that, that he'll forget all about what you did-or didnt do.

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The hairstylist cut my bangs crooked and too short. I'm not sure what to do. They look ugly. I can't pin them up because that looks even worse. Do you have any suggestions on making them look half decent?
Thanks in advance XD

Wow have I been in your situation. I went to a hair stylist and told her to trim my dead ends and to NOT touch my bangs (I was in the process of growing them out) they were just long enough to finally put behind my ears, anyway she turned me away from the mirror to cut my hair and when I turned bach around she had cut me bangs, stating that I would look better with them because of my face shape. If you could kill someone by giving them the look of death, she would've died on the spot! lol ok so Here's the different types of bangs you can have, (or re-do) what she messed up.

Wispy- "see through" bangs work well for small foreheads and wide face shapes.

Short bangs- through the center with longer pieces at the sides balance a wide forehead and shorten a long face shape.

Long- over the brow bangs accent eyes and give hairstyles an alluring look and help cover a high or narrow forehead.

Straight Blunt bangs- can add a dramatic look to bobbed and long blunt cut styles

Spiky Uneven bangs- add length to a short forehead and draw attention to eyes

Pixie bangs- balance a small face and small facial features.

Side Swept bangs- off sets and soften angular, sharp and large facial features

With what you've told me, about the fact that they are uneven and short, I suggest you go with either Spiky uneven bangs or side swept bangs.
If you gotta sec, here are some examples of what Im talking about.

http://beauty.about.com/od/photosmediumhairstyles/ss/medium.htm

and this one:

http://beauty.about.com/od/photosmediumhairstyles/ss/medium_10.htm

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Where I can purchase it from?
How much will it cost?
Side effects
Is it sold at CVS?

I need it as a back up contraceptic (sp) for when I have sex tuesday (b-day) I will have condoms but I want to be safe cuz my sis is already preggie n I don't wana b. The thing is, I still wana have sex, ima nympho lol!! But seriously, any help is appreciated!!!!

You would have to get that from a Dr. But if you dont have the time to wait to get a apt and all that god stuff, you can to to Wal-Mart or most grocery stores and on the femine care isle you will see something called Non-Oxyol-9 what it is, is something you put in your vagina a few minutes prior to sex. Should a condom break or whatever the Non-Oxyol-9 kills it on contact.

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I am a 30 year old, married woman with 3 kids. My husband is very great to me and other than the usual bickering & disagreements, we don't have any major problems in our relationship. MY problem is...I keep developing crushes on other men! Whenever I start talking to an attractive guy for a period of time, either from work, my husbands friends or my friends' husbands, I start to "feel" something for them! I just don't understand why I am so prone to doing this. Any input would be greatly appriciated.

You have fell in a "routine" with your husband, even thou Im sure both of you are sexually, emotionally, physically statisfied with each other, over time the "excitement" of what yall had when yall first got together has faded or just completly gone away. There is nothing wrong with you finding other men attractive, it begins to be a problem ONLY when you act on it. Put some spark back into your marriage, like when yall first started dating. Prance around the house in the shortest shorts you can find hehe or incorporate some toys into your sex life, go to that extra step to fix your hair down, makeup, all that stuff that would make him go nuts to get with you.

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What are those white squishy plastic things used for packaging called? I think they're styrofoam. Do they even have a name? I need it for a paper...

Thanks

Bubble Wrap

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Everyone keeps saying for really dry hair you should use olive oil to make it soft and smooth again. Well I did... now it wont come out. lol My hair is an oily mess! I've washed it 7 times already and it's still as oilly as before. HELP!!!!

There's nothing you can do to get it out execpt the obvious that is, which is to repeatly wash it. Next time thou, and I reccomend waiting a few days because of all that "gunk" you just put in it, if your wanting a home rememedy for dry hair... Mix a egg white and mayonaisse together and put it on dry hair, comb thru and let sit for 5-10 minutes (longer the better) and shampoo & condition as usual. It tames frizzes and makes hair smooth and sleek without the 'oily' look.

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who sings that song that goes "Sara beth is scared to death" i dont know the rest...
thanks

Rascall Flatts

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i started my period yesterday. (for the very first time) im in 8th grade. ive been trying to put tampons in for the whole morning i used up 4 already but got madd and threw them away.but the 5th one(haha) i did it and it didnt hurt so i think i did it right. it was just hard to get in. BUT it was very hard to get out.(i took it out right after) is it supposed to have alot of resistance?


-xx

When done correctly it has no resistance at all. Tampons are designed to "soak up" what there supposed to and when you put one in there then take it out soon after, it hasnt done it's job which is why there was resistance or a little pain. Because it was dry. Don't worry about the tampon getting lost up there, I assume thats why you pulled it back out. It is PHYSICALLY IMPOSSIBLE to get lost.

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OHKAY.. does ne1 know a website that can teach me step by step how to make a myspace layout?

I RATE 5'S AND GIVE EXCELLENT FEEDBACK

Go to your myspace page, in another brower open up internet explorer (or whatever you use to search) type in www.freeweblayouts.net look at all the backgrounds they have there, under each background is a code it will look exactly like this:
table, tr, td { background-color:transparent;
but alot longer. ok here's the tricky part. Take your mouse and click in that box with all that writing and hold "Ctrl" on your keyboard and press the "A" key. Then hold "Ctrl" and press "C".
3. On your Myspace account go to "Edit My Profile" then under "About Me" click "Edit".
4. Now hold "Ctrl" and press "V" inside the "About Me" textfield, then finally click "Preview" and afterwards "Submit".

If ya' need anymore help, lemme' know..

*Additional* I'll check into what you left me in my comment box, gimmie a day or two...

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does birth control make you fat..? because they're is a possibility that my doctor may put my on it cause im having female problems.and i heard that it does
thanks for the help ill rate all 5's!!!

It really depend on which birth control you use. All have there consequences some good some bad. Typical weight gain for some birth control is 5-7 lbs. You will not gain weight with every single one. Once you talk to your doctor yall can discuss together which one would be best for you. *Ortho TriCyclen Lo*(pills you take everyday) also clears up acne problems. *Depo* (shot you get every 3 months) stops your periods all together. There's so many different ones I could go on and on. If your mature enough to remember (Im still not at 23 lol) you can take the pill everyday but it has to be took at the EXACT same time everyday Ive been on Ortho and I didnt gain any weight.

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Hello I don't know if this is the right place to ask this question but i find my boyfriends body a little weird and wanted to see if this is rare or if it happens in some men.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. We can only have sex one time a night as my boyfriend says it takes 24 hours for his sperm to build up again. I have been with other guys and this has never been the case with them. If he tries to do it again before the 24 hours and he does come it takes ages and then he feels ill for the rest of theday. Could there be somethng the matter with him and should he get medical advice?

24 hours for the sperm count to build up again? lol! Whats going on wit him is some ppl can only "put out" once a night like no kiddin that's there limit... Nothings wrong wit him. Dont pressure him to give you any more than that yes it can make you feel bad if you try to do it to much.

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Ok so this is kinda of a long story...well i cheated on Scott last night with one of my ex-boyfriends, see Timothy ( the guy i cheated on scott with) and me have known each ohter since we were kids he was my first kiss and my first real boyfriend. We dated a couple of times but were three years apart so we had to sneak around well he moved awhile ago, like far far away and we lost touch with each ohter. Well i saw him yesterday for the first time in maybe like a year or two..and he told me that he's still wating on me and he still loves me and then we kissed not once but alot. And the thing is i don't feel bad about it at all..i don't plan on telling scott what happend i know i probaly should but...i want to be with timothy but i don't know what he wants i was supposed to call him but i am too scared should i call? i am not going to break up with scott unless things work with me and timothy...is that wrong? i am stressing out about this and i dont know what to do please help me...

The story you learned in Kindergarten still goes in affect here, Treat others as you would want to be treated. Would you want to be the safety net for Scott while he was out with another girl and just left you hanging incase things didnt work out between him and the other girl he was with? Find out how you truly feel about both of these guys and let one go - and quick.

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