If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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I might be gay. What should I do? (link)
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If you're gay ,then you should tell your parents.
But just because you have sexual fantasies about other guys,doesn't make you gay. If you enjoy having sex with and are strongly attracted to other men,then you'd be gay. Don't be ashamed if you're gay,it's just how you are. I'm not going to kill you over it. You may get made fun of by some immature people,but screw them.
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this question is for my friend:
my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder. (link)
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He sounds like a saint. As long as he's into you,what do you care? You don't have a problem.
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Hello, i am an 18 yr old grl dating a 28 yr old guy. See i have this thing with me not going to have sex till marriage which is not a bad thing... right? well my b/f knows this and knows my limits.. but see everytime we get alone and stuff he always tries to stick his dick in me. He almost did about hmmmm should i say 5 TIMES!!!!!!
Its not easy to remain abstinent but i tell you what its not FUN EITHER!! Its like your head is telling you go for it and grab the fuckin condoms but yet your heart is like wait a fuckin min. do you really know this guy or is he just using you for sex?? see the 17th is our 5th month anniversay
but yet i knew him for a few months before we started dating. so my question is to you all is what am i supposed to do. He promised me he would never do it again but yet he said that last time. I told him hes lucky b/c usually its like a baseball game 3 strikes your out!! but yet i've given him 5 chances so far and this is the last chance. So what should i do?? let him try and screw me or what?? See I love him to death but as you can tell i am not ready yet! I need help and need it bad! Plz someone help me.. i really need it!!
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Baby,that's a 10 year difference and at our ages,that's way too much. 28 and 18 is a LOT different than 45 and 35. Don't ask me why,it just is. Consider the gap,he's graduated college,have you even started? He should be starting his career,you still need to be enjoying your youth. He's ready for sex,understandably at 28,but you're not at 18. Should you let him "screw you"? Hell no. Don't have sex if you're not ready. He's trying to take advantage of your being young and he wants some young pussy. That's the truth.
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Ok today at school , I met this really hot guy and I was wearing a tank top and a pair of light pair of jeans when I bumped into him and he looked at me and said sorry but before he finished his sentence he looked down my shirt and saw everything , he blush and just asked me out.!! Dose he really like me or what???
Help!! (link)
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That's awesome. How come that cool shit never happens to me? I'd say if you never knew him before that little moment,then no he's not into your personality. He's into your rack baby. He was probably just as embarrassed as you.
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Hey my friend told me about this place so that i would stop asking her for advice.....I went to a new school today and I made some friends and this and that, but when I first laid eyes on this boy that already had a gurlfriend and it was like love at frist site, but we talked and he seemed to like me, but when his gurl came around he wouldn't talk to her or look at her, and I don't want to make her think that Im a slut , but I don't want to hurt her feelings..andwhat do I do?? (link)
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Sweety,there's no such thing as love at first sight. There's lust at first sight. Anyway,if he already has a girl and he's flirting with you,then what makes you think if you went out with him,that he wouldn't pull that shit on you?
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Okay, I'm just kind of curious as to what people will advise me to do about this...
My boyfriend and I have sex - don't get me wrong, he's not bad at it, lol - but I can't seem to orgasm. I mean, we've tried a few interesting positions (lol), and I'll come close and stay there for awhile, but the feeling sort of dies.
I know I'm capable of orgasming, as I can get myself off *cough*, so that's not the problem.
Originally, I thought it was just that I needed to mentally loosen up, but I managed to do that and discovered that wasn't the problem.
I'm sixteen, and a girl, by the way, if that matters. He's the first guy I've had sex with. I don't want to hear "you're too young to be having sex," because age is a state of mind, not being, and I AM old enough for it. Besides, that's not my question.
Anyone have any tips I can give him, or even anything I can do?
Thanks in advance. =) (link)
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He hasn't found your G-Spot yet. It's located about two inches inside of you and can be stimulated just by him doing the come here motion. If he has found it and you still can't orgasm,then he just sucks.
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okay, i am a 17 yr old girl, and the guy i am crazy for is 18, only like 3 or 4 months over tho, and my mom is freaking out over it! she's like, "if you guyz do anything, i will get him for rape" im in a tough situation and i dont really know what to do. i went to my friend and she said "follow your heart" how typical... ;D (luv ya tho sis!!!! if ya see this here! lol) ...anyways. i dont know what to do because i simply adore him, and my mom is okay with us hanging out and holdign ahnds and stuff, but i dont know about dating. help me!!!! cuz i dont wanna lose him (not that i am gonna do anyhting sexual with him anywayz! ) and i dont wanna dissapoint my mom... so either way some oen gets let down, and i really dont know what to do! (link)
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The answer to this question is simple. Go out with him,but don't do anything sexual with him. Ask your mom why she feels she can't trust you. Make sure your mom isn't going to be disappointed in you by not doing anything with this guy. Your mom won't be let down because she sounds like the kind of woman who'll be disappointed no matter what guy you pick. Don't worry about her.
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OK here it goes!...Me n my boyfriend have just started havin sex...n well once he has had it once he has to have it all the time...well sometime i really dont want to...but he will force me into it or beg me to have it until i give in...n i love my boyfriend so much we have been dating now for 4 months...i keep saying no over and over but he keep it going when i finally give in he says baby im sorry for doin that to you...but he still does it anyways he promised me that would be the last time but that wasnt the first time he did it either! What should i do and say to him w/ having to break up with him? Please help me! (link)
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He must not be sorry if he keeps doing the same shit again and again. If he loved you,he'd only want sex from you when you'd enjoy it as much as he would. Tell him "I really don't appreciate when you try this bullshit guilt trip on me everytime I don't let you make love to me. How can you say you care about me when you're always doing this to me?" See what he says to that honeybunch. If it continues,break it off with him.
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I liked this guy kind of and i had a feeling that he liked me..the othe rday he told me that he did like me..but now i'm not really sure if i like him for some reason..but he still thinks i like him..Should i tell him that i don't or just not do any thing about it? (link)
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You need to be honest with the guy. If you like him,it doesn't sound like you do,but if you do tell him. If you don't,just tell him you're not really interested in him. I'd give him a chance though. You never know,you may go out with him and enjoy it. I hate when girls don't give guys a chance just because they're not sure if they like them or not.
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ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me
*~I RATE REALLY GOOD~* (link)
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Baby,I don't mean to be rude,but not everybody wants to see your underwear. Would you want to see my boxers? I think not. A guy is more likely to respect you if he can't see your thong and one will notice you. Don't worry about that.
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Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me (link)
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The bottom line is you can get pregnant anytime semen gets inside of you and if you've started having your period.
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Can someone get pregnant from pre-cum? (link)
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Yes.
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are carrots good 4 u (link)
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Yes.
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i had sex for the first time today...and well my b/f new i was a virgin and everything...it hurt so bad...and i started bleeding really bad...im guessing it was my cherry...but from everyone i have talked to...there isnt that much blood...there was blood all over the condom all over my legs...and everywhere...it was soo nasty...was it just my cherry...or was it sumthin else?? (link)
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It was probably just your cherry popping. If it happens again this bad,it may be a lot more serious.
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What does it mean when u wake up and find clear gel stuff on ur underwear (im a girl) (link)
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Vaginal discharge.
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You see, whenever I fly on airplanes, I usually get airsick, and I begin to throw up. But just a few months ago, I didn't throw up, so I was pretty happy. But last week, I just found out that my bf's mom invited me to Las Vegas, so we're taking a plane. I'm really scared that I'll throw up. AND I don't wanna be ashamed. What should I do to keep me from puiking? It seems so uncool typing this on an advice column but no one knows who I am anyways. (link)
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Air is the safest way to travel and you're more likely to get hurt riding in a car. Just don't watch Final Destination or Castaway or Twilight Zone:The Movie.
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Im a 16 year old girl and i dated this boy for 2 years we broke up severeal times within then because I had trust issues. we finally broke up for i think good 5 months ago but he says he is still in love with me and beleives that me and him will get married and have kids, I do like him but its more just as a friend he is very nice but i have a g/f now i have been going out with for 3 months and i really like her so how do i let my ex b/f know that i dont really want a future with him as more then just a friend without hurting his feelings and losing his friendship? (link)
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Well,you simply tell him straight up that you just don't care about him the same way anymore. He'll get over it. Plus,he may not know about your girlfriend and this your choice to tell him or not.
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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else? (link)
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Hell with what other people say. If you like him,I say give him a shot. If you like him,then he must be pretty cool. They're just jealous you're getting a good guy and they're not.
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omg! im so lost and confused right nowi met this guy ryan a couple days ago and i was asked is i liked him and he was asked if he liked me and he said yea and im cool..so i gave him my number he told me that he was gonna call me he never did so i called him and well i told him what my friend rachel had said and hes like yea ur cool..i wanna get to know u a lil better and see if ur cooler than cool im o ok then afterwards i havent talked to him..so i dunno he has yet to call
please help
Tracy (link)
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What exactly do you want me to do here? He'll either call you or he won't. Bottom line:if he's interested,he'll find a way to call. If he's not,he won't. He sounds like kind of a wimp though. I wanna see if you're cooler than cool? Come on buddy,now we're getting into cold.
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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
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If you feel its right to have sex with him,then I guess you should. I mean,I wouldn't because any number of things could happen,but you know in your heart whether or not you should do it or not. If you don't think you should,don't. Don't feel pressured into making this descision. If he's willing to break up the relationship for sex,then I guess he doesn't really love you after all. I can't tell you what to do,you're 17 and you're gunna do what you want anyway. In my opinion you're old enough to make this choice. But don't do it,just to please him.
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