Im a 16 year old girl and i dated this boy for 2 years we broke up severeal times within then because I had trust issues. we finally broke up for i think good 5 months ago but he says he is still in love with me and beleives that me and him will get married and have kids, I do like him but its more just as a friend he is very nice but i have a g/f now i have been going out with for 3 months and i really like her so how do i let my ex b/f know that i dont really want a future with him as more then just a friend without hurting his feelings and losing his friendship?
Xo_Blondii_oX answered Thursday August 12 2004, 1:22 pm: Tell him that you cant return the same feelings. That you think its better off for you guys to be friends and u dont wanna hurt his feelings but u think its the best. [ Xo_Blondii_oX's advice column | Ask Xo_Blondii_oX A Question ]
LilCutePinkAngel answered Thursday August 12 2004, 1:05 pm: well i think you can say that you found someone new who care about. i think he'll understand.
xo_Meg_ox answered Thursday August 12 2004, 1:04 pm: if you have a girlfriend now, then aren't you a lesbian?? (Or bi??) well, if you are a lesbian just tell him THAT lol that's as good a reason as any...let him kno that you're happy now ~ you can't help who you fall for and he should be able to realize that! [ xo_Meg_ox's advice column | Ask xo_Meg_ox A Question ]
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