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I've got a bit of an annoying problem...
Okay, I'm just kind of curious as to what people will advise me to do about this...
My boyfriend and I have sex - don't get me wrong, he's not bad at it, lol - but I can't seem to orgasm. I mean, we've tried a few interesting positions (lol), and I'll come close and stay there for awhile, but the feeling sort of dies.
I know I'm capable of orgasming, as I can get myself off *cough*, so that's not the problem.
Originally, I thought it was just that I needed to mentally loosen up, but I managed to do that and discovered that wasn't the problem.
I'm sixteen, and a girl, by the way, if that matters. He's the first guy I've had sex with. I don't want to hear "you're too young to be having sex," because age is a state of mind, not being, and I AM old enough for it. Besides, that's not my question.
Anyone have any tips I can give him, or even anything I can do?
Thanks in advance. =)
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He hasn't found your G-Spot yet. It's located about two inches inside of you and can be stimulated just by him doing the come here motion. If he has found it and you still can't orgasm,then he just sucks.
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well, try thinking bout stuff.. or w/e makes you have one when you finger yourself or w/e, just try different things or thinking different things!
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Well now that you're obviously able to orgasm, possibly you can bring up to your boyfriend that he should do something extra just so that you can have your orgasm. Have you tried him giving you oral sex? Cuz usually that gets girls off a lot easier then actual sex cuz with regular sex you have a lot less control and stuff.
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I'll tell you what worked for me.
Vibrators. :]
Sometimes, during sex, not enough attention is paid to the clitoris. We all know how precious the clitoris is.
Try using a bullet or egg the next time you have sex. You can get one for a pretty reasonable price at [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Or if you'd rather not spend the money, maybe try positions where your clitoris is stimulated too. Or ask him to play with it a little during intercourse.
Hope that's helpful. Good luck!
P.S. - I don't let guys give me oral, either. Rock on. :P
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