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NEED LYRICS TO SONG BEST DEFENSE BY EVERY NEW DAY. I need these really bad. If you have the CD or can find them online, in english. Please I really need them (link)
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I dont really want to believe to that thing, but I cant help it due to things that have happened to me. Once I had this dream I just could not wake up from. The dream just kept on going on and on, and it was not a good one either. I knew it was a dream, I knew who I was and I was wondering to myself, what, am I doing here. This is not real then why the fuck cant I wake up.
Anyways, after a while I did wake up. drunk some water got back to bed. Only then, everytime I fell asleep, I got the worst feeling one could ever get.
There I was, trying to fall asleep, when everything around me started colliding, like not just the walls around me, but the hole universe was being destroyed into atoms, as if I was waking up from the Matrix or something. I had no control of my body at that time. Took me a couple of seconds till I obtain control again. It just kept on for the hole night and everytime I did, I just tried to move my fingers. After a while, I could.
Next day I asked not only one but two doctors and none of them new anything about it.I was very concerned about it and I thought I was having some kind of epilepsy seizure during night. Everything turned out normal according to the doctors. Told me that I was nervous or something so they both send me home.
I cant remembered how many times it happend after but then I found this guy who told me about astral projection. I almost cried as he was mentioning all of the effects and symptoms and he informed me that people who have mastered this skillas he called it, can do many things such as see pictures from far far away. Especially when he told me the soul leaves the body part, I totally freaked out. I really did not want it to happen again, only months later, it did. I kind of wanted it to happen, but everytime it started, it scared me and of course I tried to move my finger.
After, a couple of weird stuff started to happen. I had this dream where I was rotaing above my couch for a long long time, above the ground. Dont know, might be a dream, might not, I might be crazy I might be lying I dont want to argue for that. Anyways, if it was a dream, what stupid dream that was. I was there for hours goind in circles I could not control, untill I finally open my eyes and faced my pillow. Anyways, the point is that the hole vibrating, electricity effect did not happen.
This other time, I tried to fall asleep and it started happening. For once I did not care. I was not scared, and while it was happening I though that, now it is time for me to do it, if it can be done. So, how do I travel through real space as a soul, how do I remember them when I wake up, I mean the soul has a different perception from the brain, it uses no eyes, no ears no touch. Suddenly I started thinking of al this stuff while it was there happening. I really did feel like I made a thoudand thoughs in a second, I felt lucid and smart and then decided to go see that friend of mine and then it happened. There I was looking at him from above, he was all dressed up in green, studying, he was bold and I hadn t seen him for a long time. Not really long time, but when I met him he had hair. I woke up.
Later that night I called him and we hanged out. I told him I saw him at the morning. He asked me if I passed by his university where he studies and I told him, well...short of. He WAS bold by the way. And he did admit he was all dressed up in green.
After that I had a couple of really crazy experiences but know it does not happen anymore. I dont really care, I tried to for a while, not really that hard but anyways. I need to ask


Do you people believe in Astral Projection? Can you share any experiences? It does not come against Christianity since Christian religion believes in the existance of soul. I really feel that there is something that I have to do but I just cant remember, do you believe you can communicate with the dead? From what I understand in the movie Butterfly effect with Ashton Cutcher, he could travel through times. Others believe that you can do pretty much anything you want, even be at multiple places at the same time or even be everywhere at the same time, something like god.
I believe that everyone experiences that Astral projection, but few remember since when you wake up in your brain it is hard to translate you soul senses in your brain senses. I believe in spirit-brain way of though, soul-cant define it and body-mostly used. You got 2 types of dreams, brain dreams and soul dreams. Brain dreams are illusion that occur while the brain is shutting off. Soul dreams are what the brain remembers from its lets say adventures in the ...universe or....whatever.
Is this dangerous? Lets say, you might meet other creatures there besides human beings and iguanas travelling through the...universe, whatever...Lets say that maybe, something else might take your place in your body, like a dead person or something even worst.


I never slept over than 7 hours during at night except sometimes, I always remembered my dreams, dreams so long you will not believe them, I have a great memory, I really remember stuff you would not believe me if I told you how far my memory goes and I am not crazy, I know how to distinguish when my mind is fooling me or plays tricks on me. I never was the type of guy who chases the paranormal and I dont believe in many stuff. This just happened and it really is a life changing experience. I do feel as a differnet person after that.
My mother was about to have an operation once. HER mother was passed away long time ago before my mother needed to go in the hospital for some surgery. A couple of night ago while she was sleeping she had this dreamwhere she was in the surgery with all this people around and there was her mother smileying at her. When she did go there in real life, the room was exactly the same, and the doctors to. She knew the doctor who would operate on her but she did not know all of the people that were going to be in the room, and she had seen them before in her dream. It was as if her mother was telling her, that she still exists somewhere. (link)
i believe in astral projection and i am able to do it but it took me almost two years to master it. you are obviosly a natural at it. try researching it at wikipedia.com which is a online encyclopedia. i hope i helped you in some way.


Hi. I'm 13/f
My problem is that My mom is really into christianity and all that stuff, but lately I've been getting into witchcraft.(yes, I know the bible says it's an abomination against God) My mom doesn't know, and so she still takes me to church with her every sunday.but whenever I'm in church, I feel like I'm getting a lecture or something like that. She's so into it, she sent me to private school because of the "Moral Values" of it. the truth is, all the kids there are pretty much the same as they would be in public school. We all cuss, some of us smoke and a few of us drink.I mean, I believe in god, but I also believe in spells. I've seen them work before and have succesfully done some. I'm not really sure what to do. Any help??? (link)
i have been a wiccan for two years and it is the best thing that ever happened to me is discovering it. my mom is very much against it so i have been practicing it in secret because when i asked her if i could practice it she said it was stupid and not real. i am not telling you to just completly rebel against your mom i just believe people no matter how old they are should be aloud to practice whatever religion they choose. hope i helped:)


Okay, I have my right ear cartiledge done.
I love it, but I'm so tired of putting studs in it. I live in middle of nowhere, usa and there is no stores that sell cute earrings. What are some good websites that sell earrings for cartiledge peircings that arn't neccicerially (sp) studs?


Please no Claires or anybody related to them. Thanks in advance! (link)
try bodycandy.com


I asked a girl out and she rejected me cause she said she wasn't ready for a relationship but she still liked me we still talked and were still good friends but about a week after i asked out my friend i started talking to a different girl that i meet through a friend so i told her that i was going to talk to her and she got mad at me and i feel kind of bad was i wrong to start talking to this girl what should i do (link)
first of all it is not bad to be talking to another girl when the other one rejected you so since you are not even going out just do what you want.


im so upset all my boyfriends friends think they can do what ever they want to me my boyfriend always hits me and i cant tell my parents or the cops my boyfriend said he will hit me till i cant walk anymore please someone give me advice (link)
talk to someone about it who you can trust you should break up with him because he could seriously hurt you. hope i helped.


Hey! I'm not shure if this goes in this category but - does anyone know how to get good karma?

Thank yoU! (link)
just be nice to others, even people you don't really like.


ok last night i woke up at about 3:30 because i heard a creaky noise and i flung up and went OMGSH!! i went to say you scared me to who i thought was my moms girlfriend and my dog but the person just turned around and looked at me like i was insane i stared at them as the faded into my door without opening it am i insane.. do i have some special power? this happened when i was like three.. i was in the bathroom potty training [ bear with me here ] && the door was open and all of the sudden a clown came out of the wall [ im not afraid of them ] and i screamed he looked at me and walked out the door and my uncle came running and looked at him or so i thought.. but i dont think he saw him .. whats wrong with me? am i just seeing this stuff and its not there do i have some power i dont know about im only 13 so it could get stronger (link)
alot of people clame to see ghosts and i believe anyone can if they wanted to but it could just come naturaly to you. i'm not sure about the clown but you could read up on it. hope i helped =)


Can giving oral sex cause white sores in the mouth? Are there other things can cause these white sores. What are they? Sorry it's 3 questions but they go together. Rates 5's to all (link)
it is probely herpes but it should be looked at by a doctor.


First off im 15 and my boyfriend is 16.I havnt had my period since end of April. I took a pregnancy test early this morning. It showed up positive. I asked my father to make me a doctor apt. and i have one tomarrow morning. (he knows it was positive) My boyfriend and i no the kind of responsibility it is going to take. We also know we are going to have to work hard for money. My family and his family both knows. Im looking for more advice. Please Help and Thank You (link)
it will be hard but there is always the possibility of adoption because you need to remember that you are only 15 and he is only 16 so you should really make sure you know what you are doing.


okay well i want to give my boyfriend a BJ
but we have no way to get comdoms
and i would rather do it without one
and like we are both virgins. b.c we have known eachother since we were like 11 we are both 14

so with us both being virgins and not having no kinda sex with anyone just you know kissing each other

can i get a mouth infection giving him oral without a comdom? (link)
you can get one with or without because of bacteria but before you do it think about what IT is used for and that it would be going into YOUR mouth.


So im 15/f and i so far have never took any chances! Ive never even kisseda boy for crying out loud becuase i am scared. I think my parentals made me this way. Anyways All my friends ONCE in awhile get together and drink. Now i dont want any rude comments but would it be all that bad to try it once? I am sick of being called the good girl, or princess! I meen i wouldnt get attatched to it would i? Is it as bad as grown ups make it seem? (link)
drinking is not good unless you are 21 or older because you can get drunk and get in a accident or hurt someone else and it could ruin your whole life. my dad is a alchoholic he got into a accident once. just because you don't drink does not mean you can be classified as a good girl or a princess.


does anyone know how to curl the ends of my hair?.... Plus i really want to make my hair wavy but i have no idea how!! (without usin hair curlers or wateva) please help me because im really bored with my style! its always down strate thanx ill rate 5 for any good answers
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you coud try a curling iron to curl the ends and to make your hair wave try getting your hair wet and braiding it in one braid but don't put a hair band in just hold the end and then dry it with a hair dryer.


13/f

I hate myself. I look at myself in the mirror and just want to fricken cut myself, but I won't cut, thats just how I feel. I hate how I look. People are like your perfect weight, but I feel like I won't ever be pretty unless I have a completely flat stomach and muscular theighs. I just can't seam to accept myself. I've been told I'm pretty and stuff. It's just I see all these other girls with perfect hair and skin and I feel ugly! Then, I see these girls w/ all these hot guys, and it makes me feel like I'll never have that. I'm really sad. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. I don't wanna talk to my parents. I only have one friend who I would talk to but he just tells me to go see a therapist or get antidepressants. I just can't seam to feel happy. So my question is, has any girls or guys gone through this and tell me tips on how to feel better. thanks..
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i used to want to cut myself to because i thougt i was just really ugly so i asked my friends what to do and they took me shopping for clothes and makeup that made me feel pretty.


i really just want to commit suicide. i just can't stand my life anymore. i just feel like i would be better in heaven where i would have no worries. someone please help. i can only take so much. i don't know how to cope. i'm just going to end up killing myself. i know i am. i have no reason to live. (link)
suicide is not the way to go it just says that you want to give up on life and then you would be leaving people behind who care about you and then they might want to kill themselves to, i hope that i helped you.


my puppy is adorable but he can get very aggressive and bites a lot. Is there a way to make him stop? (link)
try to pin him to the ground when he acts aggressive, not in a mean way but to just show him that you are in charge.


My cat has been gaging like he's going to puke but then he dosn't and he does it especialy when you pick him up. Also he's breathing out of his mouth. I know for sure that theres nothing stuck in his throat... and the weirdest part is that my other cat is starting to do it now too. Does anyone know what might be causing it. Im really woried and dont have the money to go to the vet. Please Help. (link)
he could have swallowed something or if you live where there are alot of prickly weeds he could have some stuck in his throat.


Hi. I have a kitten (named Shadow) who's 2 months old. She used to be very fluffy, but as of late she's been losing fur. We know it's not shedding for several reasons (we don't see fur all over the place, or have it on us after holding her, etc.) We thought it might have been soap from giving her a flea bath, or maybe something else that got on her. We have five other cats, one of them as young as she, and they're all fine. They eat the same food, drink the same water, and since Shadow is still pretty young, she doesn't go anywhere out of our yard when outside. Does anyone know anything that might be causing her fur to thin, but not spread to the other cats? (link)
she could have a skin condition or she could have a allergic reaction to her food. you should take her to a vet and get her an exam.


im 14/f and my friend is hooking me up with this guy and we've been talking online but no matter how much i try to get off the subject hes always like what will you let me do to you the 1st time we meet will you let me finger you n all that shit
and im like really uncomfertable because i never kiss a guy before and i feel like different
should i meet this guy or is he just using me for head

please help
ill rate 5 no matter what (link)
don't meet him he could be a online sexual predator and he could end up really hurting you so you should probley just stop talking to him.


ok i am 13 years old and my breast are a 38C! they hurt and they hang too. one of my breasts is bigger than the other and it is kind of noticeable. my mom said that when i turn 18 i can get a reduction because by the looks of it now they are going to keep growing. i dont want really small breast i want then to be big but not heavy like they are now. and right now they are triagular shaped insted of round. i want then to be round but not really small. i dont want anything less than a BIG B cup. but no bigger than DD cup. so do you think i should get a reduction when im older or keep them big? (link)
you should get a reduction because if they are that uncomfortable it can lead to back problems.




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