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okay- so heres what I see.

I see all of thse girls, and some guys, asking about Sex. will I get pregnate this way, what about this.

and i always answer saying, you should wait, what if you get pregnate, and a whole bunch of stuff to think about like money parents will he leave you- just to name a few.

then the rest of the questions i see are either:
i think i am pregnat, we used a condom and it broke, i dont want to tell my parents, what should i do.

or

i got pregnat and my boyriend left me.

its so horrible!!

I dont believe in Sex before marrage or abortion!!


anyone follow me and agree with me on this??

anything else- leave on in my inbox!!

-Kels-

i agree!!just let them be it was their stupid decision...your right do do it until after marrige!right on!

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I was having a semi-asthma attack on the phone with my boyfriend, and if you've ever had an asthma attack you aren't able to talk without hurting yourself. My boyfriend was asking over and over if I could breathe, well obviously not? I wouldn't answer because it hurt for me to talk and I finally answered with "No!" Then he takes it all defensivly and was like "Sorry! I was just trying to help, but you keep shutting me out." I wasn't shutting him out was I? I was just trying to be able to breathe... Any Advice?

just tell him that you couldnt breath the next time you see him he will see it was just a misunderstanding and it will work out..trust me...i hope i helped!Good Luck!

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ok my bf of 1 week just said he loves me and wants to marry me but im only 14 and thats way to young to even think about marriage i like him alot but i dont wanna get marreid but i dont wanna hurt his feelings cuse hes such an awesome guy what do i do? o what do i do

umm first off you can get married at 14 you are a minor..and just tell him that and you are not ready his feelings wont be hurt!hope i helped!Good Luck!

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hey ok i have a question for u. my friend at skool like got in trouble the other day for talking and now shes really upset. what should i do

i think you should talk to her and tell her that she needs to not talk..she will be ok.hope i helped!Good Luck!

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hey like i need really cool music for a scool jam..wat is some good stuff?

i highly suggest green day linkin park 50 cent eminem the killers micheal jackson

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hi um do you have a pet?

yes yes i do i have 2 they are kitties!i love them to death!

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ok so like what is 4,652,453 squared?

this is the right answer....21,645,318,917,209! haha lol :P..hope i helped!

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so ive liked this guy forever-since the begining of the year..but he had a girlfriend until recently. hes liked me too but he had a really serious girlfriend (for a year!!) and then when he was single i had a boyfriend. now we are both single and weve been hanging out ALOT. weve kissed and held hands and he is soo sweet. hes always like callin me babe and stuff. and he told me to listen to some songs that remind him of me. hes just so sweet. well he told me he really likes me..but he doesnt want a girlfriend right now so we can be "close friends". what does this mean? hes not using me because hes just not like that..hes soo sweet. and i really like him. and we go to the same school. also, his ex recently started talking to me...and shes soo nice and still likes him...shes like making me feel bad for hangin out with him. but i dont know...what do i do?

i think you hang out with him until he is ready to have a gf..then he already really likes you so he will definatley ask you..just wait..he isnt using you..some guys like to wait awhile b4 another gf....forget the ex gf...you never talked to her b4!hope i helped!Good Luck!

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how can I get a bigger butt and boobs??

you can use padding..but i wouldnt want a big butt...but thats me!you can but the stuff at the langerey(sp?)in foleys or sumthing like that!hope i helped!

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i joined lacrosse and my legs hurt really bad from running.. how can i make it feel better?? and do you have any lacrosse tips?

you can take a really hot bubble bath...and massage them.i dont run so i dont know anything else!hope i helped!

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is it true that chocolate makes you break out??? tell me plz! i dont know if to give up chocolate to look better or not!! -i RaTe HiGh-

i heard that it was just a myth...i mean i guess it could be true but everyone i asked said it was a myth..but dont give it up!lol hope i helped!

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I have a large and painful canker sore in my mouth that won't seem to go away. I've tried salt water and o-zone water (water that has anti-bacterial purposes). Are there any other remedies that'll help that I don't need to go and buy stuff for?

peroxide..ya ya i know its poiseness but just dont swallow it..its not harmful if not swallowed just rinse your mouth after...or you could use listerine!hope i helped!

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ok so theres this guy... we'll call him jeff and then theres this other guy we'll call him michael! um well michael and i were dating in the past and everybody ahs told me that jeff likes me and thinks im "the hottest girl in school" i dunno! jeff is really popular and has already had sex ive heard. he told evrybody he wanted to f*** me... im not shure y?!... in our school i guess people say hes screwed more than one chick... i dunno but hes aka a man slut! lol well okay me and michael were talkin and jeff came up adn was like "hey jeff can i have you hott gf" and jeff said "shes not my gf shes single" well michael said "well can i have my hott gf" well im confused what on earth does that mean?

thats a confusing way to put it..but it sounds that jeff thinks he is a player and does want to fuck you...i would stay away from him..and your bf is probably disgusted with him and wanted him to leave at that moment he was kinda protecting you (i wish my bf did that)but ya dont worry about it dont go with jeff.hope i helped!Good Luck!

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hi i'm 13 and a Christian but i have a bad habit of lying...i know that its really bad like i dont lie big time just like little white lies but they r still bad so do any of u know any bible verses on lying, not lying,how lying is bad and stuff like that? plz help!! ~i rate high~

when jesus died for our sins on the cross,he did it so we would all go to heaven if we believed and since your christian..you are going and little white lies arent that bad depending if they can evolve into something big..i dont have my bible with me right now..sorry..thats the best.hope i helped though!

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my friend likes me (hes a guy)an today my frend (grl) told me that he wants to go out with me. said ok and now changed my mind. i feel like if i go out with him we wouldnt be frends and if i say no hell hate me. it would just be weird to go out with a frend ya know? please please help i need to know by 8:00 tonight.thanks.

if you like him then go out with him its not weird...and it doesnt ruin your relationship..that happend to me.hope i helped!Good Luck!

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is it normal for females to discharge everday?

yes yes it is it justa way to clean your body!hope i helped!

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Well, I'm not exactly sure how to put this, because I doubt this question has been asked on here before. I have this boyfriend, and its a long distance relationship, I live in Oklahoma, and he lives in New York,I've known him for more than a year, and we met online, yes, this sounds unbelievably stupid of me, but trust me, I am not a girl who falls for a guy quickly. So, I've met his parents over the phone, seen his family on web camera, and hes sent lots of pictures. So, after we fell in love, now, to give some background, I've never felt this much in love before, I waited a year to start talking about personal things. We started getting, well, really really close. You know, we started to talk about sex, and whether we were virgins or not, and then, it got farther. It took me a while to get into it, but we started to talk a little dirty over the phone, I felt it was wrong because I'm only 15, but I went through with it because my other 4 sisters had been like this with guys at a young age. Not that I wanted to be like them, the main reason was I really loved him, and it truly felt right. But, lets just say that it went farther, farther than any of my sisters have went on the phone, I know its pathetic to freak out about going far on a phone with a guy, but heres the point. I am thinking that my family knows, which is really bad. My sister had made some rude comment mentioning it, and my mom was talking to me about it. She was saying that it one thing to be talking nasty things on the phone, but any farther than that is to the point where any of me or my sisters should not ever be able to talk that guy again. I love my boyfriend so much, I cry and get horrible chills at night, thinking hes going to be taken away from me, so I made a decision to stop talking this way on the phone. But, I have 2 questions.

1-Do you think people suspect or know?

2- Do you think doing this with him was wrong? And can anyone give me some advice what to do?

Also, I've already told myself that I won't go down the path of having sex at 15, I truly think that this was a better way to express our hormones, and if we met, we would continue expressing it this way until we were old enough. Please make note of that.


Sorry for the length of this question, but ratings are promised to you.



~*Carissa*~

yes i think your parents know...and personaly i dont suggest internet relationships..but if you say that you love him..then i guess so..but anyway how can your parents take him away?i mean what are they going to do fly to new york..and it depends if you just talk dirty then you are acting like most 15 yr olds..o and good decision about the sex thing:Dbut if you went farther i would slow it down a bit..and if they like take your phone away then you still have the internet..but if he is ok then i dont think its wrong for you to talk to a guy dirty just not all the time...and dont go beyond that..cuz he may get ideas..hope i helped!Good Luck!(o and stop worrying and stop talking dirty for a really long time cuz it shows up on the phone bill..thats probably how they know!)

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well i need help really fast! Me and This kid (well call him MaX) well we like each other alot.. but his ex girlffriend still lykes him.. and me and his ex are friends.. no one knows we like each other.. but i am not sure what to do.. stay friends with him.. or go out wit him and possibly loose a friendship ( i think she still likes him 2) ErR.. just helLp really fast (and Him and This girl he went out wit only went out for a weEk)
HELP!
sincerely,
in need of him!

if she is a good friend then she will be cool...and she doesnt know that you know that she might still like him...so i say just ask him out..i mean his ex cant do anything if she didnt know that you know..you know what i mean(sorry kinda cunfuzzling)so ask him out she will be cool if she is a good friend.hope i helped!Good Luck!

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I want to have kind of a spa - afternoon at my house, maybe with 1 friend over. But I was wondering - what should we do?? I have a hot tub ..anyone have any other ideas that we could do to be pampered? Please help!! =) Thank you ..ill rate high and give feedback!

ya...like put bubbles in the hot tub(you have to its so fun! :D) then manicure pedicure hair..then like if you have a parrifin spa..(its a big thing full of wax that you plug in and heatup) then you put your hands and feet in before you paint your toes and nails..then you could have an all night movie fest is she stays the night(if)hope i helped!

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i have liked this guy 4 a year now and the other day he told me how he truely feels about me and then i did the same. and today i asked him if he would every consider havin a realtionship with me and he said ya for shu every body deseves a chance as long as you mean tha lovin part, and am just lookin for a girl tha i can stay with for a long time. and i dont know what to say more to get him to ask me out! he gave me a kiss today and i did the same back but i dont know what to do can someone plz help me and tell me what to tell him more? plz and thank you.

first of all the guy doesnt need to ask you out....if he likes you and kissed you then...you ask him out there is no rule that says a girl cant ask a guy out...so just go ahead and do it before someone else does...he will definatley say yes.hope i helped!Good Luck!

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