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should i go out with him?
my friend likes me (hes a guy)an today my frend (grl) told me that he wants to go out with me. said ok and now changed my mind. i feel like if i go out with him we wouldnt be frends and if i say no hell hate me. it would just be weird to go out with a frend ya know? please please help i need to know by 8:00 tonight.thanks.
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go with your feelings if you don't think you want to than don't if he's really your friend he won't be very mad if you say no. if you think that you do but don't want to because it would ruin your friendship tell him that, he will understand.i am 13 also and i used to think that having a boyfriend would make my life eaiser but it didn't. but it might be different for you. just go with your feelings.
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ok,well if he likes you and u dont like him like that,this is pretty easy. Follow what you feel. If you say no --he will still be ur friend and you and him can still be cool! If you do,then it may be a problem. You dont want to go out with him,maybe you like someone else,its like you cheating him[[ehh maybe?]].Well follow what you think,remember good friends make a good couple though!! well i hope i helped you =) -remember krissy luvs you!!!``
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go out with him but at the end of the date just say nothing is between us and its over
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hey! ive had the same problem..its normal. if he would get mad at you and "hate you" then he's not the right one for you. b/c he should be able to understand how you feel, and when you say no..then explain to him that you think your friendship will get ruined. and if he doesnt understand, then like i said..he's obviously he's not worth it...and you shouldnt feel like you're forced to do anything, and i hope he understands. if he doesnt, then thats his loss = if he does, then great! and maybe later on when you both feel good about going out w/ each other..then go for it! when you truly like someone, you don't even think about ruining a friendship b/c if you really do like them and they like you a lot back...then surely the friendship wont be ruined if you like each other that much!
i hope i helped! good luck =)
~rachel
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ha ive had the same problem....just like go out with him and see how it goes....if it doenst work out..then just try REALLY hard to staay friends....if he doesnt make the effort to stay frriends hes not a good friend then
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if you like him then go out with him its not weird...and it doesnt ruin your relationship..that happend to me.hope i helped!Good Luck!
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You need to talk to your friend, the guy, and tell him what you told us that it would be weird for you dating him, since he is your friend. Tell him that this could ruin your friendship at the end. If you think this relationship would work out, then give it a try but just tell him how you feel. He won't hate you by telling him that you don't want to date him, don't worry.
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