Put them into a folder, and then send it to zip. It will make them all into a .zip folder, which I am guessing will be about 40 Gig or something along those lines. Then, go to AIM and transfer files to yourself on a different computer. When your new computer is installed, put them back onto your computer, and unzip them.
Or, buy a case of CD- RWs, and use them to get it out.
Or, if you have a network, share the files to another computer, and download them there, and then get your computer to share them back.

Next time you ask her, I advise asking her, and when she doesn't answer, say "I'l take that for a yes". And then call your friend.
If you really need to, I'd advise talking to her about it, and ask her why you aren't ever allowed to have anybody over. Then, ask her why she refuses to ever even tell you no. Accuse her of not loving you, because that always hits deep. :)
-Steven

First, you can get it at 14. You can get any form of cancer at any age. The only thing that you cannot get is a gender specific type of cancer if you are the other gender.
I'm male, so I do not have it. However, you DEFINATELY should get it checked out. History and the symptoms are a strong indicator that something may be wrong. And even if it is not cancerous, it may still be a cyst or something else than would need medical exampination.
Tell your mom the full story. Tell her that you were taking a shower, and your breasts hurt. You found a lump, and are a bit concerned over it.
When your mom gets there, ask her if you could speak to her for a few seconds in private, and let her know it is important. That will let her excuse yourself and you will have the privacy you need.

You may very possibly have a virus within your computer. I have not heard of anything that would do this that is an error in the program or anything except for viruses. If you have Norton Anti-Virus, I advise running it NOW. If not, get it, or at least a trial.
If it is not a virus, then you should run on another browser for a short time. Go to microsoft and get IE, since Netscape is horrible. You probably can see videos there, but I don't know.
Is your computer up to date? If not, that may be just it. I had a 95, and it killed things in various ways as time went on.
-Steven

Unfortunately, I find the best way to study is to do about 10 minutes every night for the entire 2nd half of the year, but its a little late to do that. The key is you do not want to stress yourself. Study 1 hour a night, and only 1 hour, I find is the best way. You'll have 5 or 6 hours at the end, but it will not be crammed.
I advise just reading over the stuff once, and then go back to it and add another section on the next night. Trying to memorize it is painful.
-Steven

Anorexia is a disorder, and if she is not on a diet yet, it isn't anorexia. However, she is showing the signs that may put her into a high risk group for being anorexic. Anorexia is defined as habitually not eating, not the desire to stop eating. You should still seek some sort of help for her. Let your aunt and uncle know your concern, and also let her know your concern. Maybe even ask them to find a nutritionist or something for her.

Eating will make your thighs larger, yes, however it is not the kind of large that you want. It is actually a big turn off for guys to see fatty thighs. You would want to do weight lifting for that. Go to the Y or a gym and work on a few machines that say the help your thighs. :)
Also, eating may not go where you want it to go first. Yet, you still need to eat. Not eating is not a good thing.

The metal part goes in first, and the circular part goes down. The metal part should always remain on. DO NOT TOUCH THE FILM THAT THE CIRCULAR PART HOLDS. Sorry for the caps. It stores the data, and it will kill your floppy.

It is not because sometimes you oppose the death sentance because of the possibility of innocence, and you favor war because it destroys the guilty (The government's actions are more concrete). Or, the death penalty will kill someone, losing a life, yet war may actually save lives from a government.

By the way, if this helps, I am opposed to the death penalty AND war.

The truth always is the best policy. Only good things come out of truths, and only bad things out of lies. Besides, he would only ask if he had some small interest in you. :)

If you find yourself having really strong attractions to other girls, such that you would want to go out with them, you are probably lesbian or bi. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. However, the waterpark may just be yourself comparing to others. Girls typically do that. Yet, a good test is that if you find yourself lookig up and down someone 3 times, you are probably in love physically with them.
If you don't find boys attractive, then you are definately not bi. It would be either lesbian or assexual, and I don't believe assexuality exists.

x0lovexyouxkiss0x, maybe?

When you get to a certain age, nothing is too childish. Heck, I've seen 40 year olds playing hide and seek in the dark. Do it, it'll be fun. You also may want to rent a movie to watch, get Twister to play, ad get some music to dance to. You may also want to go out to a restaurant at the start, if you have the money.

Get your sister a gift card to a clothing store, and which one depends on her personality. If she is preppy, go for Ambercrombie. If she is un-preppy, yet has a sense of fashion, go to Kohls. If she is just "Throw anything on me", get one to Barnes and Nobles. :p

You cannot gain weight because your metabolism is faster than the average human's. However, if your doctor says that you are healthy, I would not really worry about seeming too small. Sometimes, it impresses the guys. ;)
However, if you really wish to gain weight, I advise eating healthily (Even someone of small size can get sick because of eating habits), but I would stick to more breads and bready products and less to meat. Your body first burns the carbs, and then it will burn the fats. What is happening is that your body is getting through the carbs at about the same time it gets to the fats. So, meat should be IN your diet (It contains fats), but it also should be a minimal portion of it.
I also would advise eating proteins and doing some form of exercise. Doing this will allow you to gain muscle, and seem less "Little" than you actually are.
Feel free to ask me more questions. Just drop one in or IM me at GMSB543. :)

Since you can be trusted, and sound like an all out decent person, you can make a very compelling case if you wished to. It could almost be like a college application. It'd take a lot of work you shouldn't have to go through, but I think it might work. Write a 250-500 word essay on why you can be trusted, show a list of good things you've done, and ask teachers to write a letter for you saying that you can be trusted. Ask your parents what you ever did that warrents a loss of their trust, and why they want you to not have friends. If that does not work, go to your guidance counselor, and you, she, and your parents will need to have a discussion.
-Steven

I am a democrat, and a liberal democrat at that.

I wold apologize. Your friend, as I am imagining and seeing it, is a very caring individual and recognises that you are not proud of what you did to her recently. You should let her know the full situation, and tell her that you are really sorry about what you said and will say in this post-time period.

If you are male, it generally is a bit of a turnoff to the girl if you do, but it doesn't matter. It grows back within 3 weeks. But females can go either way. I'm male, and I prefer shaved. However, there are other males who prefer unshaved. In the end, you do what is comfortable for you. If you feel uncomfortable shaving down there, then don't. If you want to, go ahead.
As for percents, I believe the male is 75% unshave, and femal is 50%.

Don't. With excuses, it will make it seem too much like you just hate him and need some way out. You should go to him and say "I'm sorry, but I think we need to see other people". Keep it as simple as that. An excuse can only hurt you.

I personally am a fantasy fan, but I love stories that do not concentrate too much on detail but rather have a large and extensive plot. :)

THE PENGUIN RULES ALL! AHAHAHAHAHAHA! *Cough*
Hello! My name is Steven, and I am a mentor. Yes, that does mean that I help other people. I have helped over 1000 people to date, and have helped some individuals for over 1/2 a year. The miracle of my life occurred 17 years ago. I say miracle only because 1/4 babies survive to be born.
I am the first born of 2 children, and I am also the black sheep. I listen to Classical Music, so you can call me a weirdo. :P. I have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, so take no offense if my answers never seem to end.
In school, I get As and Bs. More Bs really. I play trombone, and was the section leader of the trombones at my school. This year, I am the captain of the entire brass section. I am an Eagle Scout, so I guess that says I'm persistant? You make the call. I am a 3 time varsity letter winner, looking for a 4th next winter. I also participate in the musical, where I am a Bass 2. :)
I am straight, and have never had a relationship beyond a friend. However, I have survived the bumps in the road, and can advise you if you wish it. Though, it's not my strength.
I'm here for you, and only you. That means that my advise will not always confort you. Heck, it may even scare you. Yet, I want you to do what is best for your mind. Not what is typically seen as best for you, but what YOU see best for YOU. Heck, if you wanted what was seen as best for you, you would've asked your parents what you should do. They give you what's typically best.
Alright, before I start getting tendinitis from writing that over and over again, I'll just say what I mean. I mean that if you ask me about something, let's say walking 10 miles a day, and I think it's rediculous, yet you are asking for something to do, I am NOT going to say "10 miles is the type of a thing a anorexia athletica would do. Try 5." I'll give you something to do.
Oh, and I'm a L1 moderator, which means I rate questions.

Don't hesitate to IM me, I'm usually on. If I'm not, just drop one in the Inbox!

Oh, by the way, I am liberal in everything. That means that abortion is a woman's RIGHT, and gay marriage should be LEGAL.

Ask away!
-Steven

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