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Q: Okay- Ready?
I am going to make like a powerPoint for my boyfriend!
Like with all of our pictures, and little things offline that say stuff like "I Love You" and things like that. We have been together over a year. Do you guys think that that would be cool? like with all of the memories and stuff??

:)

What do you think?
or anything else i could do to it to make it even more AWESOME!!

*-KeLs-*
Thanks!

Aww that would be so cute!! :)

*Marielle*

Q: hi i didnt no what to put this nder but here goes....

lately i have been feeling really down, i hardly have anything to do on a weekend and all i do is stay in the house or go on the computer!!
ive got lts of friends at school but there always out with there family or something.
has anyone got any ideas on what i could do at a weekend or through the school holidays etc????

Hey, sometimes.. well, actually a lot, I have that same feeling. Just try and make some plans with your friends, or get involved with activities in your neighborhood, thats what I did, and it helped a lot because now I am around more people who I can have fun with, and I'm not just sitting around on the computer all day.

*Hope I helped*

*Marielle*

Q: I have a 36 year old son who is married with one child. For about a year he has slowly sunk into the depths. His wife has kicked him out of the house. He now lives in his truck. She tells me he is drinking heavily and smoking crack/crank. He refuses to get help. My question is: Do you think I should report him to the police before he harms himself or an innocent person driving around like this. Thanks, Christy

I would say, make sure that he is actually smoking and drinking, becuase if you turn him in and he isn't even doing those things it would be a problem. Or you can try talking to him, and asking why he got kicked out, and then try and sneek in the do you smoke or drink?.. But then if he is, you should turn him in because you don't want him to hurt himself or other people around him!

*Hope I helped!*

*Marielle*

Q: Ok so I'm 15/m, and I was at a school function, and some girl that I didn't know danced with me. So after I left she got my AIM screen name from one of my friends and went home and asked me to the prom and and asked if I would go over to her house Friday to have dinner and a movie and all that stuff. Problem is, I really don't like her, and I don't really know her at all either. What should I say?

Say like "I don't really know you, so can we get to know eachother a little bit before I answer?" or something like that!!

*hope i helped a little*

*Marielle*

Q: For english we need 15 fun facs or w.e for the harlem renaissance and i only can find 7 so if anyone can find anyother one's i need help! thanks

Type in Harlem Renaissance In Google, then click the first sight listed!

Q: i feel the need for a girl friend, just to hear the comfort words i love you or sumthing. is that rong or right im like undicided. is it sick or ok???????

No that's perfectly normal!! Don't worry about it, all people want to hear "i love you" every once in awhile!!

Hope i helped

*Marielle*

Q: my boyfriend is pakistani and muslim. i am white and agnostic. i really care about him and he's head over heels for me but his parents wont let him do ANYTHING (were seniors in high school living w/our parents)with me (b/c of my race- wow im a victim of racism for the first time and it sucks!). he lies so much to see me but even then its not a lot. i see him at school and then occasionally after school while his parents are at work. we NEVER EVER go on real dates and it drives me nuts!!! i feel as if i deserve someone who can take me out and see me without lying or sneaking around. the situation just SUCKS. should i break up with him or just settle for seeing him barely ever? (if i broke up with him i'd still be friends with him)i really dont know what to do- i feel bad breaking it off but i'm unhappy in our current situation- its not fair to me.
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If you really like him you should stay with him!! He is doing his best to try and see you! Don't blame it all on him, it's his parents that dont want you to see him, not him who doesn't want to see you.

Q: hey there is this guy that i really really like and he likes me too but we are both afraid to ask each other out. PLease help me !!!

Well if you both like each other, then you shouldn't have to worry about one saying they don't like you. Just get over your fears of asking him out, and go for it!

Hope I helped!

*Marielle*

Q: As my title says, my friends tend to be really mean to me. We had a free Spanish period today because there was a substitute, and they ignored me the whole time. They were making plans to go shopping for bathing suits, and go snowboarding with each other, and didn't ask me to join them. One of my friends just randomly tells me to shut up, and she thinks it's just a joke. They tell each other stuff and don't tell me, and then they talk about it right in front me. Basically, they treat me horribly, and I really don't need it from them. What am I supposed to do??

If you think THOSE are your friends...wow.. you need friends that will respect you and will invite you places!!!! dude.. get some new friends! you dont deserve them, you desever SO much better!!!

Hope i helped!!

*Marielle*

Q: Hey everyone, I was just wondering, I've never really just 'hooked-up' with a guy, meaning the only relationships I've been in, they had something serious part of it. I've never done friends with benefits. I was wondering what are your views on fwb and 'hook-ing/up' like what are the outcomes? benefits? feelings for one another? thanks in advance, i rate well. :--)

If you do friends with benifits, you won't have acutally any feelings for eachother, it's just like for him to use you for sex. If you do that, it doesn't have ANY feelings just for him to use you. Which usually girls what to have a real relationship with feelings and caring.

Q: well i'm 13 and i'm a female and i totally broke out on my forehead and i have a dance coming up!! i need help on how to get rid of it fast!! any advice or suggestions? also, is it because i ate chocolate or like junk foods? (i've heard that the reason people break out...)ThAnkS fOr uR HeLp!!! *i RaTe*

Get this AWESOME working stuff.. its called.. Stridex Day and Night, its 2 in one! and it works sooooo good!!

Hope i helped!!

*Marielle*

Q: Ok, about a month ago I noticed a small lump around my crotch.. I have just noticed it getting bigger.. Its about 5mm long, and 2mm high.. what do you think it is? could it possibly be cancer? if so.. what sort?

17/m

I would say, go to the doctor because they are the experts! :)

hope everything goes alright!!

*Marielle*

Q: I’m 14/f and no one have ever asked me out on a date. I am not ugly in fact I recently learned that the boys from my old school which I left 1 ½ years ago thought I was the prettiest girl in the class. I am extremely shy and I really can’t flirt. Also usually even if I like someone I am very cold to them for a long time, it’s like a protective action. But now I just feel so lonely!

Maybe it's because they like you so much and they dont want to tell you because they think that they will just get turned down because they think that you are too good for them. I would say that *you* should make the first move. It would probably make it a lot better.

Hope I helped a little

*Marielle*

Q: Okay well last night I had my bf over and we got sexual.. Well to get to the point we wern't gonna have sex so we just fooled around.. Well he came(spelling error lol) and he was down there when he did it.. He made me go in the bathroom to check if ne got in but I dont know.. I dont know what to do. and I dont want to tell him I am scared. I am a 14/f

You shouldnt even be having sex at the age of 14!! god.. whats up with people these days?

Q: I have some friends and every time they move out of my class they dont talk to me but when i am in there class im there bff. Why dod they do this?

cause they just want to fit in with other people and look cool.. its what almost any girl wants.. they will do anything just to fit in with *the* group, even if it means losing their other friends. id say if they were really your friends, they would respect you more and be your friends inside and outside of class.

Hope I helped a little

*Marielle*

Q: i've had a "friend with benefits" for almost a year now. we didnt really have feelings for eachother but now i have feelings for him and im the one who got attached. i don't know if i should just continue being fwb or i should stop because of my feelings? Whats the best thing to do?

Get a better guy who doesnt just want to have sex or other shit with you! its better for you! you wont get hurt in a real (well i cant say you wont..) but if you get attached to him.. then if he leaves you will just be hurt knowing that he doesnt like you the same way!! Just say you either want a real relationship or no more *friends with benifits* its just hurting you!!

hope i helped a little

*Marielle*

Q: Is it ok to date a second cousin, through marriage?

sssssiiiiiiiicccccccckkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!!!!!

Q: My friend is thinking of committing suicide what should I do?

Talk to her Dumbass!!! Or buy something she can kill herself with.. and sit back and watch the show!!! :)

Q: my friend is one of those people who is geneticly(frakishly)super skinney. no matter how much she eats or how lazy she gets she stays the same size. she is a great friend but sometimes she can be very inconsiderate of other people's feelings about their weight.she dosnt know how it feels to be fat or to feel fat. and she makes fun of people who look fat or chubby to her. this really makes me mad but being the quiet person i am i never say anything.im afraid if i confront her she will get upset with me because she dosnt understand.how do you think i should talk to her about it?

Just tell her for God's sake!! She isn't going to hate you for doing it!! Maybe she will get a f'in clue!! Just tell her what you feel!!

Q: i've been really doubting Jesus Christ these past few days. i believed in Jesus before and i trust that i'll believe in him once again, i just need some motivation and i need to be reminded again of his grace and glory. please help me turn my life back to God.

Think about every good thing that has happened to you. Maybe that can help you a little. Maybe you can go to church to see other believers there who might be able to motivate you a little more. Or maybe you can read some stories in the Bible or other book about Jesus.

*hope i helped*

*Marielle*

bio

*xo*I tear my heart open.
I sew my self shut.
My weakness is that I care to much.
And our scars remind us that the past is real.
I tear my heart open just to feel.*xo*

O.K. well to start off..
I'm a 13 year old girl, I'm in 8th grade, I have blond hair, blue eyes, 5'6, and 105 lbs.

*WHAT I LIKE TO DO*
-taking pictures
-listning to music
-watch movies
-Hang out w/ my friends
-shopping
-dancing (even tho I suck at it)
-play volleyball
-play softball
-run track (BEST SPORT EVER!!)
-play basketball & soccer even tho I suck at them
-watch football
-snowboard
-water ski
-and mostly.. giving advice!!