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my friends are rude and mean
As my title says, my friends tend to be really mean to me. We had a free Spanish period today because there was a substitute, and they ignored me the whole time. They were making plans to go shopping for bathing suits, and go snowboarding with each other, and didn't ask me to join them. One of my friends just randomly tells me to shut up, and she thinks it's just a joke. They tell each other stuff and don't tell me, and then they talk about it right in front me. Basically, they treat me horribly, and I really don't need it from them. What am I supposed to do??
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If you think THOSE are your friends...wow.. you need friends that will respect you and will invite you places!!!! dude.. get some new friends! you dont deserve them, you desever SO much better!!!
Hope i helped!!
*Marielle*
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I don't think your so-called friends respect you very much. You deserve better than that, especially from people who are supposed to care about you.
You should probably talk to them (preferably individually; I think it would be easier) about how hurtful their behaviour is and ask them to stop. If they don't, then you should probably stop being their friend. You don't need to take their abuse, not even if they say you're friends. Either they stop and prove that they see you as an equal, or they don't and you can ditch them for people who will treat you with respect.
Cheers.
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ok so you apparently didnt understand what i was telling you to do, ditch them, they are only pretendin to be your friends
lets look something up shall we?
My80gighardrive [7:35 PM]: define oxymoron
SmarterChild [7:35 PM]: Definition provided by The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition. Copyright © 2000 by Houghton Mifflin Company. Other important copyright information here.
oxymoron:
Noun
Inflected forms: pl.ox·y·mo·ra or ox·y·mo·rons A rhetorical figure in which incongruous or contradictory terms are combined, as in a deafening silence and a mournful optimist.
Etymology
Greek oxum*ron, from neuter of oxum*ros, pointedly foolish : oxus, sharp ; see oxygen + m*ros, foolish, dull.
Other forms
ox'y·mo·ron'ic adj.ox'y·mo·ron'i·cal·ly adv.
there you have it, these people arent youre friends at all.
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talk 2 them.. and if they dont change.. start hanging out with different people.. and then they will get jealous.. hope i helped! lots of lovee!! ~rachel leigh~
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U need to drop them and fine new friends girl!
Rite back!
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Ask then why they are treating you so badly. You need to ask then why they keep making plans without you especially right in front of your face. Ask them if they are mad at you about something or if they need to get something off their chest.
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I think its time for some new friends. It may seem as a joke to them but really it isnt. Tell them how you feel and just try and hang out with a new crowd. Change is always good.
Always there..
Donna
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YOU KNOW I HAVE HAD THE SAME PROBLEM....my friend was my best friend forever and then 1 day she started too be bff's with some else and now she is starting to ignore mew and 1 day i asked my friend im not going to make you choose but i need to know if you are still friends with me and she said yes its just sometimes its stuff i have 2 do with her too....and she used too wait for me all the time when i went to the bathroom or sumthn at skool but now she pays even more attention 2 her so just ask 1 of them whats going on??:hope i really helped:ask me a nother question just leave it in the inboxxx:signing off GRAPE:
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Well, obviously they really dont care about you and really arent your friends. Try hangin out with people who will like you for you. Then, if your mean friends ask why you dont hang with them anymore or anything, dont be mean back, just tell them what was up and tell them how you feel and that you really dont want to be their friend anymore. OR... you could sit down and talk to them about how you feel first, and that doesnt work, then thats when you know that its time for new friends. Hope I helped. Get back to me and tell me how everything goes if you can. Love, Shorty, Candace
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Awfully, sadly, you should get new friends. If they're going to be so cruel to you, you should ditch them and find some nice people to hang out with. Though, you should tell them what you're feeling before you totally pull away. Just be like, "Are you aware of the fact that you hurt me sometimes when you leave me out, and I don't like it when you tell me to shut up. Maybe you could try to include me more, ok?" and if they don't listen to you, then you should find some new friends. There isn't much else you can do besides try to make them know how you're feeling. If they don't care, they're not your true friends anyway. Sorry, this is a bummer.
-FunnyCide
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start talking to other girls around school and get to know them .. have them hang out with you .. forget about those bitches = ) .. dont take anyones shit .. no ones worth it .. so just make new friends and see how they react .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo
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get new and better friends and see how they take it
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They really do sound snobby. I think that there has to be a group of nice caring people who will let you in their circle of friends. SO..i would make new friends if i were in your position because who wants to feel bad like that? Join a group of nice girls who will appreciate your friendship. Friends come and go..in the case your mean friends need to go. so keep positive and try to think of a group of nice girls..there has to be a couple right? Well ask them a question about w/e in class..maybe make a joke about the teacher..or something..then ask "wanna come to the movies this weekend?' Once you guys hang out once..i bet you'll immidiately click and from there on out..you have new friends who appreciate you :)
-melissa-
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