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I'm a raw and living foodest. For those of you who are unfamiliar with what that is I only eat foods that have not been cooked. I do this because it maintains all of the nutrients and enzymes intact and is much healthier. I'm not here to try to convert anyone. I think you can reach maximum health by eating all kinds of foods fixed all kinds of ways. This is simply my life choice. What I'm here to do is help educate people as to what is happening to thier food. Did you know that the pharmaceutical companies have lobbied to have a law voted on called "Codex Aimentarius" that will take away our freedom to take suppliments? It has already been implemented in Europe. Of course it is still ok for them to put steroids, antiboitics and harmones in our foods. Have you wondered why there is a great influx of people acting aggressively and out of character? I'm here to help guide you through this mess. If you want to eat meat...eat meat...just get chemically free meat. I'm here to help you understand what is happening to you.

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I was talking to my friend about religions and how they relate, and she told me that Islam, Christianity, and Judaism are very similar in their beliefs. The books are very alike, but have different names, according to my friend, and that the belief in Jesus is how Christianity stands out.

But how are Islam and Judaism REALLY different? [I'm not knowledgable at all with religions, so don't accuse me of lieing and stuff cuz this is what my friend told me]. Just because Muslims believe Muhammad was a prophet and Jews don't doesn't seem significant enough to separate the religions. So yeah..how are they different?

I want to correct something that was said on one of the answers. Islam is definitely not idol worshiping. As a matter of fact that is one of their arguments against Christianity. To them, because we have representations of Christ, Mary, the cross, and the Disciples through-out our Churches that this is idle worshiping. The only thing that they do is wear prayers from the Koran in charm form on a necklace. They are very strict about this.


I'll give you a quick history of the religions. 1st there was Judaism and it was started, as the story goes, when Abram (Abraham) was visited by God and told to move to a land that God would give to him and his descendants. He took his family and nephew w/him to this new land. There God promised that his descendants would multiply. Abram's name was changed by God to Abraham. Abraham and his wife Sarah seemed not to be able to have children so Sarah talked Abraham into having children w/ Hagar, their servant/slave (some say servant, some say slave). Hagar bore a son and his name was Ishmael. When Abraham reached 90 God told him that w/in a year Sarah would have a son. Abraham laughed because they were so old he didn't think it was possible for Sarah to bare children at her age, but w/in a year that is exactly what happened and they named him Isaac. When Isaac grew up God wanted to test Abraham and see who he loved more... God or his son Isaac, so God asked Abraham to sacrifice his son upon an alter. Abraham was torn apart over this, but he did as God asked, he prepared to sacrifice Isaac and just as he was about to inflict the mortal blow God intervened. God blessed Isaac and all his descendants and gave to him the inheritance of Israel. Well, Isaac was the 2nd born and according to tradition of those times it should have gone to the first born, Ishmael. This angered Ishmael so much that he left and went into the land of Jordan and started his own community in what is now called Petra. This is where the Arabs come from. To make this easier for you the Jews are decedents of Isaac and the Arabs are decedents of Ishmael. These two races are started from the same father and are cousins. An interesting note...if you rent the first Indiana Jones Movie at the end of the movie where Indiana Jones is in a Temple...that is Petra. It is literally carved out of the most beautiful pink rock you've ever seen and that horseback ride into the area through caverns is real, I've been there, it is an amazing place. Back to the original point...this is where Judaism comes from.


Now Christianity is started w/the belief that Jesus Christ is the Messiah. Christ was never starting a new religion or trying to break away from his Jewish faith. He was simply trying to reform and clean up his religion. People were wondering away from the true word and he was simply trying to bring everyone back. His sacrifice upon the cross was to save those of us that believe in him and to show us his dedication to us and his trust and belief in God. He also sent his disciples out to preach the word and keep his ministry going. You see, anyone can become Jewish, it is really a religion. I don't think they were trying to start a new religion, but that is what happened because the Jewish religion would not incorporate Christ's word into their practices. They still think the Messiah is yet to come. They think of Christ as a great prophet.


Up until Muhammad a lot of Arabs were Christians. Muhammad said that through all of the translations of the Bible that the true word of God had been lost. Muhammad was an illiterate merchant by the way, which makes all that he did that much more spectacular. Remember that Alter that Abraham was going to sacrifice Isaac on? Well, it is a huge rock and Muhammad went there. Angels appeared to him and he was taken up into the heavens from this place and given the Koran the true word of God. The Koran has the same stories that the Bible and Torah has in them but there are also some distinct differences such as the description of the Creation. The Koran's description of the Creation story better describes the big bang theory. The Arab people have been very careful to simply write down exactly what was said and not put their own interpretation into it, which certainly can't be said about the Bible. The Bible has been used for political gain and power for generations. They also only believe that Jesus Christ was a great prophet and not the Son of God. I think they are missing a big point here, but this isn't a theological discussion and would take to long to go into here. Now the rock that Abraham was going to sacrifice his son on and the same rock that Muhammad ascended into the heavens from is now called The Dome of the Rock. This is the site where a great Mosque has been built and is in possession of the Palestinians which has caused much dissention in the Middle East. This is also the site of the first and supposedly true Jewish Synagogue/Temple. There are remnants of the original Temple which is now called the Whaling Wall. Jews go there daily to pray devoutly to this wall. It is their belief that someday they will regain their true Temple. In Christianity it is our belief that if they do it will begin the end of the world as we know it but the beginning of a world that will be ruled for 1000 years by Jesus Christ and all the people who don't believe in Jesus Christ will parish. The Anti Christ is in this part of it as well. There is going to be a great battle between Jesus and the Anti-Christ. So, you can see why there is so much fighting over there!!!! I've included some sites for you below and I hope they will help.





http://homepage.mac.com/jerrypeterson/CHUMSsite/pages/Story%20Abraham.html





http://landru.i-link-2.net/shnyves/abraham.htm




http://www.wsu.edu:8080/~wldciv/world_civ_reader/
world_civ_reader_1/abraham.html





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LULABELLE

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ive been doing a lot of ab excersises lately
so i think the muscle is getting bigger but that layer of fat is not so my stomach is getting bigger...anyone know how to just make my stomach as flat as possible?

The other answers given are good, but there is on thing that they may not have considered. You may need to stretch your psoas muscle and your quadriceps. If you have tight psoas or quad muscles no matter how hard you workout you will always have a pooch. Your psoas will get all of the work and not your abs which will keep your psoas in a state of contraction (one of those vicious circle things. I have put some stretches here for you to do. It is always advisable to do stretches when doing a workout to keep yourself flexible. The Quad stretch in the first site will also work your psoas and the second site the psoas stretch is at the bottom of the site. Do about 3-5 stretches before and after a workout and you will feel and look much better. Make sure you add some stretches for other parts of the body as you feel you need it. Good Luck!



http://www.halhigdon.com/15Ktraining/Stretch.htm



http://www.easyvigour.net.nz/fitness/h_Free_Pilates_Exercises.htm



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LULABELLE


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ok so i have a passion for dancing. i loveee it. i love to be on stage. i love to perform. i've done sports all of my life and i'm about to be a senior and i've never taken a jazz/ballet class. i regret it a lot. i know if i had started dance earlier i could have gone so much further than where i went with sports. i feel so sad ..... like i wasted talent and spent time on things that took me no where.

i started taking hiphop classes....bc that requires no previous dance knowledge....just a little rythym........and a week later they made me a teacher at the studio.

i want to go far and try out for companies and go somewhere.i know i have the stage presence to do it. but every audition, application, or place wants jazz and ballet knowledge. i want to learn jazz and ballet fast and cheap but all of the classes are for 5 year olds and it takes years to learn all i need to know.



does anyone have any advice?!?!?! am i too late!

and if i did learn jazz and ballet where do i go from there?

how do i get noticed?!?! where do i start!?!

That is so unusual that you can't find a beginning ballet or jazz class for adults. I got into a class when I was in my 30's. Keep calling around, I'm sure there is someone in your area that would teach that. You might also suggest to them that if they don't have a class now for adults they might think about it because they could sell it as an excellent workout program for adults to get in shape. I also found a few links below that you can self teach. One is for a video on Amazon and the other is a booklet you can print out with the different ballet moves. For jazz you can do what I just did and put in "How to learn Jazz dance on video" in your search engine and up will come some sites. when you scroll down to the bottom of the booklet I gave on the site for ballet you will see a Jazz book w/tapes if you want it. These sheets look like how they show the dancers how they want them to perform/kind of like reading music, which is probably why they want you to understand ballet and Jazz dance. You have to understand the moves they want you to make by reading them and/or hearing them. Good luck on your mission, I'm sure you will make it and do well.



http://www.amazon.com/gp/search/ref=pd_sl_aw_tops-1_blended_9454007_1/104-0561232-4666306?search-alias=aps&keywords=ballet%20videos



http://www.dancewriting.org/acrobat/ballet/DW_Quick_Reading_Ballet.pdf




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LULABELLE

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this question is for both boys and girls.Let;s say you really like someone, and she/he is single.Would you still go out with them even though they have had two or three girl/boy friends in the past?or do people prefer girls/guys that haven't been attached before?
For instance, I prefer girls who haven't had a boyfriend before to girls who have.

At some point you won't have anyone else to date because everyone will have been w/someone. It's inevitable, but as for me, I go w/my heart. What's good about someone having had a boy/girlfriend before is that you can find out how they were in that relationship. If they treated their other relationships in ways that you don't like, chances are that will be how this person will treat you as well. That could save you a lot of pain and heartache. But, whatever your decision, it is your life path and how you want to live it is fine. You don't want to be with anyone who's had a boyfriend before? Then don't. This is your ride and as long as you don't hurt other people you can live it the way you want to. Enjoy and good luck!



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LULABELLE

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Ok please help me im young and i've had sex seven times and all of them i've been forsed into i just dont know how to say NO! because the one guy i first did it with always hit me and i dont want to be hit again by a guy and im not a slut please help

If you have been forced into having sex you have been raped. Legally you could go to the police right now and press charges especially w/the guy who hit you, that is assault with the intention to do bodily harm. The authorities will help you under these circumstances and you can still press charges against this guy. Statute of limitations has not run out here. You also need to get some therapy. The reason I suggest this is because there is something that is inhibiting you from taking care of yourself. You are not feeling worthy, even though you are a truly worthy individual, you don't seem to feel it. You need someone who is trained to help you work through these issues so that you can identify why you are allowing these things to happen to you. I would like to suggest you try something. From now on, no matter what it is, if it is as simple as a friend asking you to go to the movies and you don't feel like going, start saying NO when you feel it. The more you use NO in different situations the more comfortable you will become with saying no and it will help you when you need really need to. It will become natural for you, as it already should be. People will still like you I promise and the last thing you should worry about is someone who disregards your feelings anyway. Start practicing saying NO more often, but only when you truly mean it. Don't confuse the issue and say it just to say it. Relax and identify what YOU truly want. YOU are the most important thing on this planet to YOU and if YOU don't take care of yourself you may end up without YOU.



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LULABELLE

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This isn't like a real question,its more like just seeing who agrees. I want to give out advice but it's hard giving out advice when I have my own problems. Like I can't go on any type of love, friend, family, or school topics because I'm going through the same things. Have you ever felt wanted but can't give any help because of your own problems, and then you feel even worse? Well thats how I feel... The one place where my opinion matters, I can't help.
~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~

Of course you can give advice. It's because of your adversities that you can give advice. I would never trust advice from someone who had never experienced the same problems that I am having. Also, as you read these questions that are so close to your own problems you may want to bring up a Word document and work it out on the Word document. Really pay attention to what words they are using and what is in their heart as they ask their question. Go with what your intuition tells you. Do your best not to identify emotionally w/the question and just pay attention to what is going on for the individual at hand. Learn to detach yourself; everyone can do it if they want to. This is a great way to work through some of your own difficulties because you will be looking at it in a detached manner and for someone else. One of the biggest reason most people can't work out their problems is because they are too close and too emotionally attached to see the simple answer. Take a chance...you never know...you may find the answers you are looking for.



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LULABELLE

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i thought you had to wait 7 days from the day you start?

If this question is about taking birth control pills than you would be correct. I do believe there is a waiting period depending upon the type of pills you've been prescribed. I apologize for not being more thorough. This is too important a decision for me not to be. I simply didn't understand what you were asking, exactly. Thank you for giving me an opportunity to correct myself.


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LULABELLE

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i started taking birth control pills and i was wondering when its safe for my boyfriend to not use a condom?

It's safe as far as your getting pregnant, but it's not safe w/regards to communicable diseases. Play it safe!


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LULABELLE

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Hi. Im 13/f and I just got a zit on my chin today. I never really use like acne creams because this is one of my firsts. Does anyone know any good creams to get rid of it for sensitive skin? I heard toothpaste works but doesnt that clog your pores? Help, please?

Get some Tea Tree Oil. Put it directly on the breakouts and they will dry right up. Tea Tree Oil is a great item to have around the house because it is an anesthetic and it is active against all three varieties of infectious organisms: Bacteria Fungi and Viruses.


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LULABELLE

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I'm having a beach themed bday party for a friend whos turning 26. I want to make a rum cake and maybe grill some lime chicken w/ rice, and have a fruit tray with pineapples and mangoes and coconuts but I need some more ideas. I don't have a good recipe for a rum cake(neither does my granny). If anybody has any ideas for beach themed food-I need some, the party is in 2 weeks!
Oh, also, if I chose to do the rice pilaf thing, how do I buy it and prepare it for about 10-15 people??? I'm no cook and I'm clueless.

I have a couple of websites below for you. One has several rum cake recipes to choose from. The other has some different recipes that should be fun for you at a party. I have a couple of dips that I have had at parties that people always love.



The first one is a spinach and artichoke dip
2 C parmesan Cheese
2 C Mayonnaise
2 C frozen chopped spinach thawed
2 jars of marinated artichoke hearts



Open the artichoke jars and remove all the hard chewy parts of the artichoke and throw out. Then chop the artichokes into small bite size pieces. Then mix all the other ingredients together, put into a small baking dish and bake at 350 degrees until it browns on top and is bubbly. Serve w/your favorite chips or crackers. I also add garlic sometimes because I love it.



You may want to have enough ingredients on hand to make more because people do love it and it will be gone before you know it. This happens to be the original spinach artichoke dip recipe that now restaurants are copying and making a little different so that it is their own.



Weeping Salad



1 head of lettuce
Mayonnaise
1 sweet onion
sugar
1 carton frozen peas, cooked
Swiss cheese or parmesan cheese
crumbled bacon



In large salad bowl, place layer of lettuce broken into small chunks; spread spoonfuls of mayonnaise over it. Add layer of paper thin slices of onion; sprinkle lightly w/sugar. add layer of peas; then layer of Swiss cheese cut into strips/or cover w/ parmesan cheese, repeat layers until bowl is full. Use no Salt or pepper. Do not toss. Place in refrigerator two hours or over night (this one is great because you can make it a day ahead as long as you make sure the mayo is completely covering everything). The sugar causes the onion to "weep" and this, w/ mayonnaise, makes the dressing. When ready to serve, cover salad w/ crumbled bacon, toss and serve.




Border Buttermilk



1-6 oz. can frozen lemonade concentrate
1 lemonade can tequila



put into a blender filled w/crushed ice and blend at high speed until smooth, frothy and milky looking.



Key Lime Pie



1 can of condensed milk
4-6 limes (Since you can't get Key Limes regular limes will do)
2 eggs separated



Mix the milk limes and egg yolks together in a bowl. Get a gram cracker crust from the store and place the mixture in the crust. Beat the egg whites until stiff, meringue, and spread it over the pie mixture. Pop it in the over and brown the meringue, put in the refrigerator for two hours and it's done. I also make it w/o the eggs and put canned whipped cream around the edges and simply pop it in the refrigerator. This is the original Key Lime Recipe for the Florida Keys. It's the simplest you can't mess it up and it's the best pie you can make.




http://www.cooks.com/rec/search/0,1-00,rum_cake,FF.html



http://www.foodnetwork.com/food/et_parties/article/0,1972,FOOD_9870_1985103,00.html




Have Fun!


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LULABELLE

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Is there anyway to further soundproof a garage for a party from near by neighbors? Our double garage is cement block, with a door and 2 windows on each side. Thanks...

I found a few websites that tell you how to sound proof your garage. Now I know that you are just doing it for a party and my not be looking for a permanent addition. Read these articles and then you can call your local Home Depot or Lowes for supplies. You can purchase what you need and either store will cut it to your specifications if you need it and then tape it in place rather than plaster/drywall it (or however they do it professionally) I have a friend who did that and it didn't really cost all that much.



http://www.drumdojo.com/tech/soundpro.htm



http://www.soundproofing.org/infopages/garage.htm



http://www.soundservice.co.uk/Sound%20Insulating%20a%20Garage.htm



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LULABELLE



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do u get addickted to pot the first time u smoke it

my friend says shes done it 4 times and she gets tired after it or somethin and her eyes are all red

what are the indications that someones been on drugs. any drugs notj ust pot thanksss

No, you don't get physically addicted to pot, but I've known a few people who've gotten addicted emotionally to it. Some people use pot and cocaine to self medicate for conditions like depression and ADD/ADHD. These drugs actually have a soothing effect on these people. If you notice a friend is unusually dependent on these drugs you may want to have a talk w/them and see if they won't go to a doctor who can give them the medication they may need. The signs of someone using drugs is different depending upon what they are taking. Pot, for example, does have the red eyes and calming effect on most people. But, someone can use eye drops and you'd never know. Cocaine, speed or meth, people usually can't sleep, have jerky movements and speech patterns. They loose a lot of weight and can be extremely volatile in behavior unless they have ADD or ADHD. Any speed like drug has a reverse effect on people w/this condition. Heroin, people seem to get really skinny and their teeth rot and fall out, not a pretty sight. I've never been around anyone (that I know of) who was under the influence of heroin so I don't know what to expect here. I have seen documentaries and that's where I get my physical description from. I have included some websites that will give you a more detailed description of signs of drug abuse. Good luck!



http://www.helpguide.org/mental/drug_substance_abuse_addiction_signs_effects_treatment.htm



http://www.drugfree.org/Intervention/Articles/Signs_Someone_Is_Using?gclid=CLPBr6Swq4YCFSp_OAodU0ZDAA



http://parentingteens.about.com/cs/drugsofabuse/a/driug_abuse20.htm




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LULABELLE

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well my mom and my brother both smoke marijuana my brother is 22 and i was wondering how iligal is it is it unuff to go to jail and when your high how do you act im just a little scard

Marijuana is illegal w/the exception of certain individuals who are prescribed by a doctor the use of marijuana for medical conditions such as glaucoma or AIDS. Other than this it is illegal. Now if someone is high, but is not in possession of marijuana, they will not be arrested. It is when someone is in possession of marijuana that they will be arrested. Sometimes the police won't arrest someone for that if they have small amounts on them, but then again they can arrest them if they want to. It is the officers choice. Also, if someone is busted in their home for marijuana or any other drugs their home can be taken away from them if the court decides to do so. They can even be renting from someone and the owner's rental property can be taken from them. The government looks at it like the owner should know what is going on in their properties. I personally don't think marijuana is as dangerous as drinking alcohol and if it were up to me I'd legalize marijuana and make alcohol illegal (since they want to make something illegal). Accidents are caused by alcohol not marijuana, though, the news media and police try to infer marijuana is responsible, but if you look you will see that alcohol or some other drug like meth, or heroin is involved and believe me these drugs are always the factor when involved in an accident if they've been used. Marijuana just makes you lazy, stupid, hungry, and laid back. Personally I think people should refrain from all drugs and alcohol but I think it should be their choice, not governmentally forced. We are criminalizing people for making a personal choice albeit not a very wise choice. As long as people don't hurt others I think they should be left alone to do whatever damage they choose to themselves. I, for one, am tired of the government thinking they know what is best for us and it is up to them to take care of us. I'm an adult and know what is best for me and my body. I think w/legalization and truthful education you will have less people using marijuana than you do now. The government is against that because some covert branches of the government support their operations through the distribution of marijuana and other drugs. That gets into a whole other discussion so that is all I will say about that. Your brother and mother really should quit for their health if anything. One joint is like smoking a whole pack of cigarettes and we know the dangers there. I feel for you and I wish I had the answer that would help you. I will say that I don't think it is appropriate for your mother to be smoking w/her son or in front of you. You could go to a councilor or children's services and get them involved, but when they get involved they could take you away from your family until they think your mother is in recovery. There are all kinds of avenues they could go down that you may not like. You could also go to other family members like your grandparents, your mother's brother or sister, your father, and let them know what is going on. They could get involved and do an intervention w/your mother. This could be the least invasive route for you to go. Whatever route you take it will be painful and a lot of work for you and your family. Good luck!




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LULABELLE

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Well, a rumor got spread about me at school last year that was completely untrue, and someone who was one of my absolute best friends believed it. He's a boy, and I'm a girl, and I guess it was just very dissapointing to have him believe it..I wouldn't have expected it out of him. (and the rumor didnt have anything to do with another guy, or him, or anything) Well, after he heard about it he stopped talking to me. Just completely ignored me, etc, so I did the same back. And it was hard, because we were very good friends, but hey, I didn't want to be friends with someone who would think I'd sink that low.

Anyway, two nights ago he called me and just out of the blue asked ME why I stopped talking to him. I explained the whole situation & he sounded very sorry. He told me if I ever have a problem to come to him about it. He said he hated when we weren't talking, hanging out, etc.

My problem is, I just don't know if I can believe it. He is a VERY sincere person, that's why I was so shocked when he just believed the rumor about me, and wouldn't come to ME to ask me about it. But idk, we talked for an hour on the phone and he said he hated that I didn't talk to him, etc, and that we basically weren't friends. I think I'm just confused, and wondering if I should believe that he didn't talk behind my back and stuff the whole time he believed the rumor?

I would expect that he has talked about you behind your back. How could he hear and believe a rumor if there wasn't some sort of verbal exchange. What you have to do is decide if you want to forgive him for not coming to you and talking to you about what he heard before making a decision about what may or may not have happened. What I think you should consider when you are making this decision is that everyone makes errors in judgment. He's young and trying to learn how to interact w/others as well as discern what is real and not real. If you stop being friends w/everyone who makes an error in judgment than you will end up w/no friends. Think of it this way. How would it be if every time you made an error in judgment your family wouldn't have anything more to do w/you. Yes, you have every right to be mad at him. Yes, you should share your anger and disappointment in his behavior w/him. He needs to know how thoughtless his behavior was and how hurtful it was to your friendship. Let him know that you are hesitant to be his friend again if he could so easily believe something w/o talking to you first. You deserve to be able to do this, but don't eliminate him from your life. If he's proven to you in the past to be a solid friend, than he deserves a second chance. Good luck!



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LULABELLE

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I absoloutley love parties and everything about them. I'm constantly throwing them for everyone and every holiday. I plan everything, from the invites, the decoration, the food/drinks, even music compilations. I love it. So, I thought, this is something I love to do, so why couldn't I do it for a living? Plenty of people are self-taught in things like this, right? Start their own businesses and what not. If I wanted to move forward with this, how could I get the word out about me? How could I get started? I have experience, but you know, its family and friends. Should I make some sort of portfolio? Videos? What? Are there any classes I should take as far as the business side goes?
Thanks!

Putting together a portfolio w/still pictures as well as videos is an excellent idea. You can even make a slide show/video and copy them onto a DVD to hand out to your more serious prospects. Give them out to your friends who can show them to people they hear are looking to throw a party. You can develop a website which you publish on all of your material/business cards, that people can access. There are a lot of free websites that you can use and you can keep updating it w/your most resent parties. My internet service, for example, is Comcast. They give you 5 free websites that you can put together for free and it's included w/ your service. You can use them for business or personal websites. You need to come up w/menu plans and party themes that your clients can choose from but be open to whatever they come up with. You want to developed a report w/local churches, museums, restaurants, movie theaters, local drama theaters, bars (sports bars), parks, the zoo, etc., that would host parties for people who don't want to have the parties inside their homes. These can also be listed on your brochures or as you can call them your "basic party planners" to give people who don't want to think about it choices and those who do want to be creative an idea about what you can do. Always be open to a clients party themes and be willing to take on any themes not listed (you may want to have this stated in your literature) and be open to working on acquiring any location they have in mind (though you can't guarantee this, timing issues and limitations set by the location). You may want to round up a few caterers or even work exclusively w/one. They will refer you when they are working a party and they hear of someone looking for a party planner and you will use them when you are planning a party. So, it would work best for you to have more than one on hand because there may be a conflict of interest during busy seasons and people have different tastes. Also, you want to have a cosure (sp) caterer on hand to help you w/jewish parties. What's great about caterers is that you can arrange for clients to taste test some of the foods. There may be a slight fee involved depending upon the foods, amounts, and the caterer. You can call around and find the ones that would fit in w/how you want to work. If you have special recipes that you want served at a party, caterers are open to preparing them for you. One of the most important things you want to get is your business license and a tax id #. Once you are licensed and have a tax id # you will be able to have access to all kinds of things at wholesale prices that you will be able to resale at retail prices to your client in your party package. An example of this is the flowers for the party. Every town has a local florist district where you can purchase or order flowers and other decorative items at wholesale prices. Though there are times you will want to use a professional florist there will be other times when you will want to p/u items like live little Christmas trees, mistletoe, ribbons, balloons, greenery, garland, and a myriad of decorative items for all seasons. The license and tax number will also get you into your local merchandise marts where only buyers of stores can get in. You can p/u linens, serving platters, and again a myriad of decorative items that you can use to signature your parties. Plus you can just buy stuff for yourself too (lol). As far as education is concerned, all you need are some business courses that you can p/u at your local college because getting a handle on financial matters is very important in maintaining a business. There are some websites below that will assist you in your party planning and set you in the right direction. Whenever you see home accessory classes take them. Your local buying market will have them when they are at market. If you get accessorizing the home down, it is very close to accessorizing a party. It helps to get those creative juices going. I've also included a website that gives you a free website if your internet provider does not. I hope this helps you on the road to your dreams. I wish you the best of luck in your venture.



http://www.fabulousfoods.com/holidays/cktlparty/cocktailparty.html




http://www.linkup-parents.com/party.htm




http://www.party411.com/




http://www.freedomain.co.nr/





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LULABELLE

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Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and I think my 13 year old cousin tiffany might have anorexia and iam really worried.my cousin tiffany weighs 100lbs and is only 5 foot tall and thinks she's fat all of her family including myself try to tell her she's not fat,but she dosn't listen right now she's going on a diet in which she only eats one meal a day and iam really worried is this crash dieting and these meals are mabey like a bowl of soup or something is she anorexic?please help me.my cousin and I are like sisters even if she is only 13 and iam 17 age dosn't matter how do I get her help?

It sounds like she's on the road to anorexia. What I suggest you do is talk w/the family about what you've observed. You need to get your cousin involved in a eating disorder support group. There are lots of them out there and I'm sure there is one near you. If you put anorexia in your search engine you will find a plethora of information that can help guide you. Your cousin needs to be reprogrammed, so to speak. She has programmed herself to believe she is fat when she is not. I am real familiar w/this disorder because I've experienced it myself. I'm 5'5" and at one point I weighed 95 lbs. I tell you this because I want you to see that I have actual experience w/this. She's not going to believe anything that her family has to say. That's why you have to get her involved in some kind of outside therapy. You have to get it quickly. If you don't address this issue right away she could be on the road of no return. Do not hesitate. As a family unit, do not give her a choice in this (though this disorder is about control). Good luck and my prayers will be with you.




Namaste!



LULABELLE

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ive been a christian my entire life up until now, jsut before my whole life i gew up in the church, and thats how i was taught. now that im older i started to look into spirituality a little deeping and ive found that what i belive isnt really christianity. im going on a mexico missions trip with my youth group in a few weeks, we're goign to tijuana to build houses and work with teh kids. i've been twice, and its always a erally spiritual experience, i guess im kind of scared that i will fall back into how i was before, just because of all the pressure from everyone else, how do i stay clear from this, without not going on the trip?

That shouldn't be too hard. I was raised a Christian too. One thing that I have figured out is that Christ was not starting a new religion. He was trying to reform Judaism. He was a devout Jew and saw his people wandering from their faith and disrespecting their traditions. He was also one of the first women's libbists. He believed that women should be treated equally. So to get to your question; I'm sure that what you and your fellow Christians do believe is that there IS a higher power. There is a Creator of this magnificent life experience we have been granted. In every spiritual belief on this planet that is the core belief. Each religion, in my opinion, was inspired by God to reach each culture and speak to each culture. If you look at all of them they have the same basic core truths. Since Christianity has the same basic core truth as everyone else then it will be no problem to participate and enjoy their views while you are among them, just like it would not be a problem to enjoy and practice Judaism, Muslim, or Hindi if you were visiting w/them. There is a book you might want to p/u sometime called "The Lost Years of Jesus". It tells of Christ traveling to India and studying in a monastery there. They even have record of it. This is a fact that most Christians don't want to acknowledge. Remember, he disappeared when he was 12 after he went to temple and asked questions of his Rabbi there. He reappears when he goes to John the Baptist and is Baptized. My point here is there is a lot to learn from everyone. Something else that you can learn here is that the Mexicans have a beautiful and devout interpretation to Christianity. This is a really excellent opportunity for you to see Christianity from another cultures view. Now that you've investigated other beliefs and learned, you can carry what you learn with you and observe the similarities rather than the differences between Christianity and other roads to God including the Mexicans views. Relax and have fun.




Namaste!



LULABELLE

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Okay so heres my question and sorry if its a long one.

I'm a rather active 14 year old female. i eat healthy most of the time and try my best to take care of my body. lately i have been experiencing pains and aches in my bones and joints. i also get muscle aches but that is very rarely.
I have let my mom know and she claims that it is because i dont drink enough milk.
i do admit that i dont drink alot of milk but i do eat other things that have calcium in them.
but i think theres also a chance that it might be growing pain. considering that i havent really grown in three years.

So my question is do you have any idea why i may be experiencing pain?

Kait♥

There could be a very simple explanation for what is happening to you. You could be experiencing what is called growing pains. Usually it hits children between the ages of 8 and 12, but I remember I experienced them when I was 13 or 14 years old and everybody is different. No one knows what causes it but there are some theories. It could be that youâ??re under a lot of stress, you are working out too hard, flat feet, or even simply being overactive. The symptoms are pains in the thigh or behind the knees (which can feel like it's the joints) and on rare occasions it will be in the arms. It usually affect both legs (mostly legs) or both arms (rarely arms), not just one appendage. If you aren't experiencing fever or red swollen joints than most likely it is growing pains. IF you are experiencing fever or red swollen joints or both, you need to get to a doctor. It could be something like juvenile arthritis, but it doesn't sound like that to me since you didn't mention it. The best way to take care of these pains is to massage the area, put hot packs on the area, or take ibuprofen. Some natural remedies are MSM (biological sulfur), glucosamen, calcium and magnesium. As far as Milk is concerned...The milk that is sold commercially is hazardous to your health. It has been proven to be a contributing cause in juvenile diabetes. It has also been proven to cause iron deficiencies in babies. Commercial milk has been processed to the point that the enzymes and natural vitamins are no longer in it. They fortify it w/synthetic vitamins that the body cannot absorb. Definitely not worth the effort. If you're going to drink milk it needs to be the raw variety. A growing number of people in this country are only purchasing raw milk for their families. The difference is amazing including the taste. Raw milk not only provides you w/essential vitamins and minerals but it also has enzymes and antibodies that will help you w/your joint issues. I have included some websites below to help you understand the issues at hand. Bottom line, your right w/regards to commercial milk. It will do you more harm than good.


http://www.westonaprice.org/splash_2.htm



http://www.raw-milk-facts.com/calcium_refs.html



http://www.raw-milk-facts.com/Raw_Milk_FAQ.html



http://www.all-creatures.org/gcm/articles-pcrm-milk.html



http://articles.animalconcerns.org/ar-voices/archive/milk_problems.html



http://www.torturedcows.com/dairy/30/Milk:_No_Longer_Recommended_or_Required_(PCRM).htm




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LULABELLE

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ok my boyfriend has high blood pressure and is at a high risk for heart attacks and strokes. Twice this week he has like held his heart and started breathing slow and stuff and he was in pain during those, and everytime i ask him whats wrong he says nothing and for me not to worry about it. Does anyone know what this could be. im just really worried.
thanks.

JUST SO YOU KNOW, I AM NOT MAKING A DIAGNOSIS. I AM SIMPLY EXPLAINING THE SYMPTOMS AS I HAVE EXPERIENCED THEM. I'M NOT SAYING HE HAS, I'M SAYING IT SOUNDS LIKE HE HAS...I ALSO HAVE HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE. I ASSUMED THAT HE IS ALREADY UNDER A DOCTORS CARE SINCE HE HAS HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, AT RISK OF A HEART ATTACH, AND HE IS NOT WORRIED ABOUT THESE PAINFUL SYMPTOMS. I FIGURED HE MUST ALREADY KNOW WHAT THIS PROBLEM IS BUT DOESN'T WANT TO ALERT YOU. THIS IS WHY HE SAYS FOR YOU NOT TO WORRY. MY FOLLOWING EXPLANATION IS HELPING YOU TO UNDERSTAND THE POSSIBILITY OF WHAT IS HAPPENING TO YOUR BOYFRIEND. ALSO, I'VE GOTTEN RID OF MY HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE THROUGH DIET. SOMETHING MOST TRADITIONAL DOCTORS AND MEDICAL PRACTITIONERS ARE AMAZED ABOUT AND YET DON'T WANT TO ACKNOWLEDGE. IT WOULD MEAN THAT PEOPLE WOULD BE ON LESS MEDICATION, MAKE LESS VISITS TO THE DOCTORS OFFICE AND THAT IS LESS MONEY FOR THEM. WHILE I WOULD NEVER ADVOCATE SOMEONE TAKING THEMSELVES OFF OF THEIR MEDICATION W/O A DOCTOR'S GUIDANCE, I CAN SUGGEST SOME THINGS THAT MIGHT HELP YOUR BOYFRIEND BECOME HEALTHY ENOUGH FOR HIS DOCTOR TO WANT TO TAKE HIM OFF MEDICATION. IF YOU'RE INTERESTED FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME AND I'LL BE HAPPY TO SHARE MY INFORMATION W/YOU.




Yes, it sounds like he has a heart murmur. That's when one of his heart valves is not working right. Your valves are suppose to let the blood flow in only one direction, but his is letting a little come back in the opposite direction. I have one too. When I was in high school it would do the same exact thing. What it feels like is that his heart is twisting around and it does really hurt. The good news is that he will grow out of it, at least, most people do. It quit doing that to me when I was around 25 years old. I was never under doctors care while this was going on for me. I never told anyone about it. I didn't find out until I was in my 30s and a doctor asked me if this had accrued when I was younger. I said yes and he explained what had happened. Why my doctors at the time didn't know, I can't tell you, but they didn't. So, what I'm telling you is, as long as he's under doctors care he should be just fine. The only thing he should really worry about is when he goes to the dentist he needs to take antibiotics beforehand. Good luck to you both.



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LULABELLE

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Okay I was with the guy for over a year. On and off. And this is our third try. I'm pretty sure he liked some other chick.. but couldn't get with her and then asked me out. I feel stupid and yeah.. I don't know what to do.. because he doesn't really call me. He talks to his other friends on the phone and puts me on hold. :\ And he doesn't really show or tell me that he likes me or that he's happy with me.. or anything like that. So i really don't know what's going on. It's just.. "BYE" and I feel like he likes the other girl...and not me anymore. I don't know what to do because I'm not really sure I'm right.

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but I think you should break it off w/him. He isn't treating w/respect and you deserve better than this. I'm not telling you to close yourself off completely w/him, but he, right now, is taking you for granted. You have to take a stand on how you want to be treated in a relationship or a guy will always do what he's always done. He will think it is acceptable to you. If you break it off w/him it will be a total shock to him. He thinks he has you where he wants you that you are his lap dog, so to speak. There's a well known secret that women don't want to follow when they like someone and that's MEN LIKE TO DO THE CHASING. Men like the thrill of the chase and the tougher it is for them the more they want it. That is probably what is going on more w/this other girl than a true emotional attachment. He can't have her so of course he wants her. So, breaking up w/him may give him a little of that interaction w/you. Start seeing other guys right away. You never know, you may find someone who will admire you and treat you the way you deserve. Dating is the arena where you go out w/people to determine what kind of person you can life the rest of your life with. You need to get out there and see what else is out there for you. In your present situation you are setting yourself up to being accepting of this type of behavior for a lifetime. You have to ask yourself; "Do I want my partner in life to treat me this way?" If your present boyfriend truly wants to be w/you, let him chase you for a little. Let him put forth a little effort in getting you back. If he has to work for you, I've found, he appreciates you more and is thankful for having you in his life. This is what you deserve. I don't suggest talking to him first because that may end up w/him doing that to you and wouldn't you rather be the one in control? It rarely happens, when they break up w/you, that they see what they are loosing. If they do the breaking up they think, "thank God I'm out of that. I should have done that a long time ago." But if you do it they go, "what just happened. I thought we had something....". I know this is a tough situation to be in and I feel for you. I've been there too. Whatever you choose to do I hope that all your dreams come true.



Namaste,



LULABELLE

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