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hey well i'm 14 and i'm girly girl and a bit jock like it werid but w/e lol. I mplay football rugby,soccer. I'm pretty mature and i love having in depth conversations. I'm not afraid to speak my mind but over all i'm a really kind and caring person and i love to give whatever advice i can. Hope you have a good day:)
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Alright well i want my bellybutton pierced soooo badly.
...But my parents are dead set against it.
My cousin, who is a year younger than me, recently got it done.
I want it so badly.
I'm 14..
...What can I do!?
Well i got mine done about 6 mnonths ago and i'm 15. My ma came wityh me and honestly it made it such less of a burden. If they are so dead set against it u don't wanna sneak out and do it. maybe try to convince them though it may be hard. Tell them you wanna be safe and maybe make a deal with them. Tell them you won't do anything else and you want to have them there to do it right. If they don't do it i would wait till you can get it done without there permission and then decide if yo really wan to.
good luck hun!
P.S don't worry it dosen't hurt that bad ;)
im 17 and my life use to be excellant, i was always happy, and now im so depressed, my grades are dropping, and me and my bestfriends arnt close anymore. i have had a few bfs, and it didnt work out with any of them. i have been dating this one guy for about a week, and i have liked him so much, now i dont want to hang out with him or see him, but yet i still like him. i cry alot and i feel so upset all the time now. what should i do
I think your just going through a part of life. Your changing to how you want to be. I had this entire year where i thought i was completely depressed. Turned out i was changing for the better. I needed new friends. I needed a new look and i need to feel better about myself. I started concentrating on everything but my friends/boyfriends for awhile. You should concentrate on all the good things in your life and look at some stuff you think you might want to improve about yourself. Tehn once your happy withouth yourself everything else will come to you. Like your grades will start to get better and others will start looking to be friends with you. Just keep up faith. Talk to your new guy he migt be able to help.
I hope you feel Better darlin.
Luv becs
so basically. im 15/f. well my mom is putting me on birth control because my period is wayyy irregular and because she thinks ima have sexx and get pregnant. [[virgin. ugh]] so i said ill do it. but i heard that u gain a lot of weight but it goes strait to your boobs. and that interested me fo sho. haha. but im not sure if thats true. does anyone know if that is. because i really need sum extra boobage. haha if that makes sence. plz help. thankss :]]
Well yes it true it will but birth control messes with your hormone production and some bad things could come of it. You may not get your period at all. This haooened to my aunt. She lost all her hair. But in small doseage yes it will make your boobs bigger and some people use it for treating acne.
Hope i helped,
Becs
This is such an overrated question on the site, but I was wondering what are some good exercises for toning your tummy, thighs, and arms? I know wall sits, leg lifts, push-ups and crunches, but is there anything else that I might be able to do?
Sadly enough haha the best thing for toning in those spots is running/jogging on an olyptical trainer or just in the street. I also have a thighmaster that works really well for me. Anyway hope i helped,
~Becs
when i use the makeover station, and try to offer a makeover to someone, nothing happens. they talk to the person but they don't give them a makeover. when i do free makeover though, it works. I have a cash register, i had a person as the stylist and one as the cashier, but it wouldn't work. do you need a certain talent badge or something? or is it a glitch or what i am doing wrong? thanks
No you don't need a bade what you need is to go up to the person looking at the chair and clikc the sell option. It'll say easy sell or somthing like that. One that little thing on top of their head is ful a star will shott up and they'll ask for a makeover. I would get sombody with a high sales talent badge because somtimes they get really mad haha.
Hope i helped!
~Becs
i dunno what is wrong with guys my age (14-15) all of them are nasty, immature, or way into sports. is this just a phase because im am really sick of hearin nasty jokes on my bus or guys being rude to other people.
hah wow i'm soo with you on this one. I just turned 15 ya it's a phase. There all just trying to look "cool" in fron tof the buds it'll all change once they read 16-17 they get more mature and way better. For now just meet some older guys haha thats what I do.
Hope i helped!
~Becs
13/f
what are some signs that you are about to have your period???
(I'm not talking about your very 1st period. just any regular period)
Well alot of the time your boobs will start to hurt you might get a little bloated some people get sick to their stomach and i think thats about all!
Hope i helped,
My parents don't beleive in piercing any part of the human body besides ears.
I have my ears pierced twice and I want to pierce my bell-button by myself.
I'm only 14, so I can't get it done professionaly without my parents' consent.
SO I need tips on how to do it.
Honestly sweety doing it yourself is kinda stupid. I got it done professionaly 2 days ago and i couldn't imagine the amount of pain i would have been in if i did it myself. But if i can't change your mind then your gunna need a thick needle thoughly sterolized, a clamp and alot of nerve. But please don't this girl a while ago got hers infected, the infection got into her blood stream and she died. If i were you i'd wait but hey if u really want to just make sure there amazingly clean needles and you already have the ring/barbell. Tell me if you need any more help.
good luck hun,
The one I have currently was given to me by a friend, and it's getting dull so I need to buy a new one but I have no idea which brand I should get. Note, I'm a female and I shave my leg hair and armpit hair. Are there any razors that are suitable for both?
Thanks!
Go Venus Divine all the way they last a really long time (disposable or not) and have a moisture strip. The head moves so it's really good for not cutting yourself. Combine it with Satin Care Shave Gel and you will feel sooo smoothe it's awesome.
Hope I helped,
My boyfriend went to a party and did body shots with another girl. This was the first time he drank any alcohol, and he got really drunk and said he would'nt have done it otherwise. He was the one who told me as soon as it happened. Should I be mad at him or should I forgive him?
I would forgive him if he admits it was a mistake and told you right away that shows that he was being truthful and he said he wouldn't have done it if he wasn't drunk so just take it as a one time mistkae and give him another chance.
Hope I helped
my hair is very dry, and kind of thick. im sure there are a lot of people with the same problem. but i was wondering, what do you think is the best shampoo for me to use? like, to hydrate my hair and actually repair it, instead of causing it more damage. thanks =)
Try Sunsilk hydra tlc it's a pink bottle it really works and theres a whole bunch of others that might work depending on other problem you might have. go to www.gethairapy.com they have tips and a bunch of information.
Hope i helped!
I was taking a shower a few hours ago and when I got out, I went to turn the heater off because it felt like it was getting a little too warm in the bathroom I was in. When I got out of the shower and went to turn it off, I all of a sudden got extremely dizzy, and from the corners of my peripheral vision started seeing fuzzy, green optical illusions until I couldn't see anything, which was terrifying...my head started to hurt really badly, and when I could see again, the bathroom light was off. I was still standing in the same position and everything but I couldn't remember turning the light off. What could have possibly happened? What could have caused this? Please help?
I've acctually had that happen before you probly got over heated in the shower and started blacking out. If the pain continues go see a doctor but if it was just a one time thing don't worry it was just the heat of the shower. Have you ever gotten a head rush and you see spots and go a little dizzy it's like that. Just be careful nott to let it get to hot next time.
hope i helped!
Well I've been waking up hungry lately,
and I normally dont, so does that mean my metabolism is working faster?
Is there anyway to increase it?
I hear drinking alot of water rwith raise your metabolism and eating breakfast is really important. Hope it works!!
-becs
Im going to florida in march and i wanna loose wieght because i will be in a bathing suit. I have a tred mil, so if i ate right and ran on the tred mill lets say 4-5 days a week (cause i have school work and a social life i dont think i could do it everyday) Would that help me loose weight? I want to loose like 15-20 lbs.
what else can i do?
ya i deffinately think that will help you. I lost about 20 pounds recently and how i did it was eating really well make sure you eat breakffast thats really imprtant to loosing weight. Also concentrate on doin things like sit ups and cruches anything concentrating soles on your abs and probly thighs i'm guessing. Try squats there really good 2. try doing about 50 sit ups then run on the tredmill for about 5 min then 20 squats and back on the tredmill for another 5 min for as long as you decide you want to. Be careful and drink lots of water. GOODLUCK!!
-Becs
to put it simple:
i do almost every thing with my right hand, except i type with them both. i write, catch things, throw things, etc.
if i practice all those things regularly on my left hand will i beable to write good and easier with my left, and cath and throw things as i do with my right?
It is very possible to make yourself ambidextrious.(that means both handed) Just work hard at it and remeber to swap back and forth between the 2 hands.
Hope i helped,
Becs
Okay so i have this friend lets call him jack. well i think that jack cuts himself. because i asked him and he said dont worry about it. and he kept saying that. and yeah. so i think he cuts because if he didnt he would just say no right?
any ideas what i should do about it?
thanks in advance :)
Well i had a friend who addmitatly cut herself. This was after about 3 month of say "DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT"! I think he probly does sweety. The best thing for you to do is find out what caused him to start and get him to admit he has a problem. And just be there for him.
Hope i helped,
Becs
are brad and angie married?
and are brad and jennifer togetther again?
No Brad and angie arn't married. Angie said they would get married when everybody else can (meaning gay marriage). And no sadly brad and jen arn't together he's still happy with angie and will eventually get married i'm guessing.
:D
What's the difference between a hotel, a motel, and an inn?
Wow you have no idea how many times i asked my dad the same question haha. Supposedly a motel is acceced from the outside(you can see all the doors) Motels are generaly cheaper and more made for short stays like 1 nighters. Hotels can only be accesed from the inside thus meaning better security and made for longer stays. I think inns and hotels are the exact same. Hotels are generaly more expensive and a little cleaner and better kept. If i find out any more i'll try to let you know haha.
Hope i helped a bit!!
Becs
I was just wondering about 2 things. First off, I have noticed alot of people look in your eyes when they talk to you & I tend to look at someones mouth more when we are talking. What is the difference & what does it mean? Also, how can you "read" someones eyes? All I see is a glassy eyeball. How can you tell how they are feeling by looking into their eyes? Thanks!
Good question in my opinion.
The way i see it when yo stare into someones eyes it means your really listening to what there saying and takeing it in. When you look at peoples lips your sort of just hearing what there saying and see what there saying. Hope that makes scence.:)
Reading peoples eyes is pretty easy. Look at the shape there makeing with there eyes. You can tell if there really interested in what your saying or not even listening. Or even if someone is into you. Watch there eye lids and kinda if the eye is moving. If the eyes are just staring blankly and are kinda wide it usually means there thinking about somthing completely different.
Say sombody was sad there eyes will be kinda droopy and the'll probly look down alot. Angry they might be staring aand eyes kinda squinted.
If a guy/girl is into you they might be staring at you intently or looking around nervously. Just look closely and you'll get it.
Hope i made some scence and i helped.!!
Becs
What's a good energy fixer-upper besides coffee and things like that??
[[ thanks ]]
it might sound really weird but what i do is excersize! it's tireing at first but it realeses endorfins and gives your energy. Endorfins also make you happy haha.