|
Shots
My boyfriend went to a party and did body shots with another girl. This was the first time he drank any alcohol, and he got really drunk and said he would'nt have done it otherwise. He was the one who told me as soon as it happened. Should I be mad at him or should I forgive him?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
i would forgive him..but let it know you werent happy about it. ive seen so many good relationships get messed up because one person drinks..i dont want you to sound controlling but maybe you should talk to him about making a promise to not drink..or not drink too much, especially when you two arent together. this way trouble like this is avoided
]
I would have been upset if I were you, mainly because he did body shots on another girl when he has a girlfriend. However, you should forgive him because he actually told you as soon as it happened. Obviously he cares about you or he wouldn't have bothered telling you in the first place. Just explain to him that this did infact hurt you, but you'll forgive him.
]
act a little upset for a while, just to make sure he won't do it again.... but don't be upset for too long. i personally don't think its that bad considering he told you right away and he was very drunk at the time. hope this helps!
]
i think you should lik not forget him that easy, cause then if it happens he will think of something like "anyway she forgive me that easy " meaning that wasnt THAT important what he did and i think it is ...aslo i been there i gotten really drunk and trust me you remember and at least a little consious well unless your totally unconsious and faint or anything make him understand that it isn't easy to forget ..even though you already did ..don't tell him lol let him wait and regret it so he sees what can happend with your relationship if he does anything similar again
good luck
diane
]
I would forgive him if he admits it was a mistake and told you right away that shows that he was being truthful and he said he wouldn't have done it if he wasn't drunk so just take it as a one time mistkae and give him another chance.
Hope I helped
<3Becs
]
He wasn't really doing anything wrong its just body shots and considering that was his first time drinking any little amount of alcohol could have screwed him up. So i'd say forgive him! but if he does it as routine kind of thing from now on then you should be worried.
]
Hey,
Well, since he was drunk and wasn't thinking right, then you could forgive him. I would. But just warn him that if he does it again, then it's over between you two.
As long as he told you, you're fine-he seems like an honest kid. :)
Hope I Helped!
-Jam
]
Well if he was drunk while he was doing it then I suppose you can forgive him. Although I'd probably advize him not to drink again because after all you never know what'll happen when he gets drunk. I mean, look what happend, and it was only his first time. Plus, drinking isn't good for you in the first place.
-BlackBatman-
]
More Questions: |