i would describe myself as a really fun girl to be around. i am the type of girl who loves to make people smile. if anyone needed somebody i would always be there for them no matter what!
Gender: Female
Location: mississippi
Occupation: waitress
Age: 15
Member Since: September 13, 2005
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There's this boy I've liked for a long time, since Bush won his 2nd term (I'm 13/f, by the way). Over that time, we've become pretty good friends. Yesterday, he asked me who I liked and I wouldn't tell, because I didn't want him to know. Especially considering the fact that he just got a girlfriend (he's also 13). Then he kept begging and nagging and kept saying that he wouldn't tell anyone and that he keeps secrets well (I know that for a fact, but still I didn't want him to know). After a while, I decided to tell him, because if he kept it up, he'd find out eventually because if it seemed that I sincerely didn't want him to know (even though I've trusted him with other stuff), the truth would be very plain. So I told him, and I said I was sorry. He's really really nice, but I'm really worried that he thinks I'm an asshole. I don't know what to do! I've never liked anyone in my whole life. Do 13-year-old boys usually think their friends are assholes in this kind of situation? How can I stay friends with him? CAN I still stay friends with him? This is long and will most likely get rated down, but I don't have anywhere else to get help! And I know that problems of a 13-year-old aren't as important as questions asked by older people, but this IS an advice site, and the site IS open to 13-year-olds. (link)
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13 year old boys are very hard to read but when you finally get the hang of them you get used to it. i think you should tell him how you feel.if he thinks that you are an asshole just for that reason then he really isnt a good friend.obviously he thinks you are something special if he wants to know who you are going out with or who you like.pick your favorite day of the week and wear the cutest thing that you have and just walk up to him and start a conversation.sooner or later you will talk about something really personal.when that time comes you will all of a sudden fell comfortable telling him.trust me i am 15 years old and i went through the same thing you are going through.{exept my experience was worse}
all i can say is good luck and go get him!!!
sincerely,
sexybabe13
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Im 15 and my boyfriend is 18. weve been together for almost a year. He was really sweet the first 5 months, but now he has gotten so jealous that we get in fights all the time over it. He doesnt like me talking to guys or even looking at them. He doesnt like me wearing slutty clothes. (he considers skirts slutty) We both work at the same place and when our manager tells me i have to work the drive thru with a boy, he gets so mad at me like i can help it. Ive broken up with him several times hoping that he will change, but everytime i get back with him, an hour later hes right back at it again. Each time i break up he calls me up or comes over telling me how much he loves me and i always take him back. He tells me often that i will NEVER find anyone who will treat me better, and that im lucky to have him!! I told him i dont want to live like this, but he doesnt seem to get it. If i accidentally piss him off he'll go and start flirting or talking to other girls to piss me off. He was like this with his first girlfriend, but it didnt seem to cause problems in their relationship like it has ours. Shes basically the same age as he is, so i dont know if that has anything to do with it. He was very sensitive to her needs, and would hold her if she got upset or mad, but i feel he doesnt care when i get mad. I do know that i dont want to be controlled! Any advice would be greatly appreciated!! (link)
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ok dont let him bring you down like that.if he loved you the way he said he did, then he shouldnt care what you wear or who you talk to.love is all about trust.if the relationship doesnt have trust then it isnt a healthy and strong relationship. but whenever you two get into fights dont throw his ex girlfriend in his face.i think that is what makes them mad the most.i think that you should spend a couple of days away from each other.maybe he will clear his mind.one more piece of advice,if you love him, never let go and never stop trying!
good luck with your relationship,
sexybabe13
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