If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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my mom caught me mastubating and watching porn and now i'm crying and i'm mad and i don't know what to do.... i feel awful... i cant stop crying i think i'm gonna cut myself... dammit i dont know what else to do!!! please help me i'm not some emo kid but im considering killing myself... (link)
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Hey whoa, I watch porn and beat it all the time. There's nothing wrong with it. Don't cut yourself over it. And don't kill yourself over porn. Porn is good. In fact, porn is great. Don't feel guilty you watch it. Everybody likes it.
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ok....this is hard to talk about but im going to try to get it out best i can.im in college, and i really like this guy( ill call him rob) for a while. we never hooked up or anything, but talked dont the phone here and there.sometimes he use to joke around about things he wanted to do with me sexually,but i always just thought he was kidding because we were kinda friends.so this one day, i was really drunk and he called me to come over to his apartment. i was so excite because i really like him and he alwasy told me what a great girl i was and how he liked me alot. i thought one day he was really gunna get serious with me. Anyway, i went there and he told me he wanted me to listen to some song in his room, i went in and when i did his roomate was in ther and i kind aheard him tell him to leave, then he left rob locked the door. i started to get nervous because i wasnt really expeting to hook up with im or have sex, but i just went with it because i was so drunk. we end up starting to hook up and then it just got bad. we started to have sex, which was ok with me because i thought he really like me and it was going to be so great.it ended up be the most hurtful thing i have ever gone through, pyshcially and emotionally. he was having sex with me really rough, and it hurt really bad, i was very drunk but i managed to say your hurting me, so he would stop, but then he would just do the same thing again. he was throwing me around the bed like a rag doll, and i was crying inside.i said stop it hurts, but he took that as "stop for a sec then start again" this went on for a good 20 mintues till i fianlly made up some excuse to leave.when i left i cried the entire way home. i got home and i had bruises bewtween my legs already.i was so hurt because i though he like me and he treated me so terribly....but what i always wanted to know was...is that considered rape or something close to it???sorry so long, i just pushed it out of my mind for song long becauseit really screwed me up in the head to the point i cant trust guys anymore and talk of sex with a guy totally scares me...advice please what do you think??im i blowing this out of poportion? because i didnt exactly say or scream stop like i was being raped....i dunno please advice (link)
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Hey, I'm answering this way way after everybody else, but yes this is rape. It is illegal to have sex with a drunk person and the fact that you told him to stop furthers proof that it was indeed rape. It's not your fault, that's what women tell themselves a lot, and that simply isn't true. It's his fault, he raped you. You didn't put up more of a fight probably b/c you were scared he'd hurt you if you did. Tell a friend, counselor, hell anybody you trust. He probably won't be convicted b/c there is no more proof. Sorry, but it's the truth. It's a he said/she said type deal. However, it's not too late to tell somebody and thats what you should do.
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Hey. Do any of you guys know what "SOL" means, because a tee-shirt says " Ur SOL pal" (from Hollister). Thanks! (link)
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I don't think Hollister would print a shirt that said "Shit out of luck" so on that shirt it probably means something stupid like Soulmate or some gay bullshit. But SOL usually means shit out of luck.
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So there's this guy at work (we're both 17) that I really like. When ever we work together, I always talk to him, sit with him on my break and stuff. My other 2 friends that work with him in his department keep joking around that we should hook up, which makes me wonder if he talks about me or has told them something. I also don't want it to get out that I like him because he's a good friend of mine and i don't want it to be weird at work if i did make a move or if he knew I liked him. I gave him my e-mail address 30 days ago, so like a month ago, and he never did anything with it. no e-mails or anything. so i don't know if he does actually like me like that and i would prefer not to have to tell anyone about it 'cause i don't want him to find out......
What should I do??¿?? (link)
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Hey, ask him out. Be clear that it's a date. And that way even if he says no, it didn't get weird between yall. Nothing happened except you didnt go out. Guys usually call or email if they care about you, but I don't like talking on the phone or shit like that, so that doesn't mean anything. Give it a try. He seems like he's not a complete loser.
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if i slept with a bra on would that make my boobs stop growing?! and if it doesnt would that at least make my boobs rounder (link)
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No.
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I've caught my dad in porn and sex chat rooms so many times. Everytime he talks to me its not the same anymore, we used to be sooo close and now i cant even look him straight in the eye anymore. Hes always out of the house, and my mom works at nightt. I went to his work one day he wasnt there, and then a lot of people called the house asking for him. When he got home I asked him where he was at, he said golfing in the morning with the hugest smerk ever it disgusted me and i wanted to just cry. Then i was like what about later he said he was at work. But those people that called me at like 5pm said he wasnt there. Then he always locks his computer, and one day i caught him using a web cam, then i found lub. and a vibrator. He gets home so late on the nights my mom works. What i want to know is what should i do, cause for all i know he's just a guy looking at porn. (link)
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You do nothing. Your father isn't sick in the head, unless he's looking at animals or kiddie porn. It's normal to look at it and it doesn't mean he hates you or your mother. It doesn't mean he's a killer.
I'm sure your mom knows(I mean he probably doesn't use the vibrator). And even if she doesn't, it isn't your place to say anything.
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I'm 18 he's 21. We are thinking about getting married after 1 year together. He has a lot of sexual fantasies of being with other girls but says he can try to forget about having sex with more people and settle down. Is he REALLY ready for marrige? (link)
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In a word, no.
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What are the odds somebody gets pregnant if you use a condom and shes on birth control? (link)
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Low, but still possible.
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I'm going to be going to Hawaii in a week and it's a 5-8 hour flight. I'm TERRIFIED of planes...I have this phobia that they will crash in the middle of the ocean and I'll die. I would really like some advice about things I can do on the plane to take my mind off how scared I'm going to be and some techniques I can use to help me not be so scared. I own a laptop and I'm 13. (link)
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Well, statistics say you're safer in the air than in the sky. I know people who have flown to Hawaii and returned safely. Plane crashes happen so little that they make news when they do. How many flights across the country take off each day and how many crash annually? I don't have the numbers but it's pretty low. Have fun on the trip.
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ok so here's my problem, I can't stop thinking about like death and when the world is going to end. Like, I always thinnk about what happens when you die..I mean like, do you become a ghost and stay a ghost forever and ever and ever, is your spirit just gone and like what happens? your just gone away and never return?!! and like the world ending. because like of the tsunami and then 9/11 and hurricane katrina. All those things were in the bible, and they happened!!I HATE IT! I always get scared when I think about it but I can't stop! Please someone tell me how to stop thinking like this!! Is it normal? Does it mean I'm crazy?! I want to stop!! (link)
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There have been natural disasters since the beginning of time. 9/11 wasn't a natural disaster of course, but the other two were. B/c hurricanes, earthquakes, and tsunamis from earthquakes have all happened since way before the dinosaurs and will continue to happen long after humans, I'm not worried. 9/11 was a terroist act that caught us by suprise and won't happen again. Hurricane Katrina didn't damage New Orleans, the levees breaking and letting the lake into the city damaged New Orleans. They were poorly built and not meant for a storm like that, although we were told they were. I live in Louisiana, so that's all we heard about. I dunno what happens when you die, I've never been dead. But I'm optomistic.
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My dad is watching porn right now. He does every night because we have lots of channels and at night theres porn. I know for SURE because Ive walked in on him before. And I can see from here. He thinks hes hiding it but hes not. Should I tell my mom my dad watches porn?! what do i do. Ive never told anyone, because its awkward and i dont want my friends to not want to come over my house because they feel weird around my dad. hes a really nice dad/man! I WONT confront him about it, so if you say do that Ill give you a 1..sorry. (link)
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Men like porn, I'm just gunna come right out and say it. If it's kiddie porn or animal porn, then you have a problem and your mom needs to be told. But if it's just straight or hot lesbian style, don't worry about it. Almost all men watch it. Nice men watch porn and asshole guys watch it. It's not your place to tell your mom and it would likely hurt her feelings.
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My sister just had a baby and he husband's last name is Wood. Well, my sister has always wanted to name her daughter "Holly". So we just need a few HONEST opinions here.
Do you find it tacky to have a girl named "Holly Wood?" (link)
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She's asking for a lifetime of ridicule if she even considers this. It's like why would you name your kid, Apple?
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How old is way too young to have sex? my bf wants to with me but were only 15!! is that too young please help... if that is too young what should i say to him..
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If you're not ready to deal with the possibility of being a parent, then you are too young. It's just that simple.
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ok so i asked a question a long time ago about my boyfriends best friend kinda took advantage of me well to day i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone and he said that we needed to talk so i called him and he said i've been acting kinda shy and he said whats wrong?
and then it was quiet and he said again Your mostly shy when my buddy comes around Did he do something to you? Luckly my mom called and i had to go so i told him i'd talk to him about it later. What should i tell him or What should i do Please help me ASAP!
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Tell your boyfriend that no matter what he's about to hear that he's not about to go do something stupid, like kill his friend. Then tell him. Tell him in person. Then tell your mother.
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I was making out with this guy on my couch the other day and within like 2 min. he well, got a hard on. Isn't that a little weird? I mean, if you were just making out with a girl you wouldn't pop it within 2 min, right? He's 17. (link)
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It's not that uncommon. It just meant that you REALLY turned him on.
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I`m 15/f and im inlove with a 19 year old. It`s not that much of a difference but some people think it is. My parents wont let me see him because of his criminal record / past with drugs. What should I do? How can i find ways to be able to see him?
Ive never felt so special in my life and im so happy when im with him. sometimes when im in the car with my parents I start crying cause they dont understand how much i love him and they dont care.
how can i sneak around and find ways to see him please help me! (link)
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Ok, pay close attention here. Put yourself in your parent's shoes. They love you. They've known you since you were a baby girl. Cute, pretty, dance recitals, blah blah blah. Now you're 15, you think you're grown up, and you like,not love, this guy that has a criminal record and a past with drugs. Would you let your daughter go out with this guy? At 15, your emotions and hormones are at a high. And it only gets worse later. Rate me a 1, but this guy's a loser. You like him b/c he's got that badass factor. Besides that he's 19, you're 15, he doesn't want you for your mind. He wants to sleep with you, honey. Listen to your parents, they've been around the block longer than you, they truly do care for you, unlike the druggie.
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Hey, um I was wondering, do guys like, uh more " hands on " type flirting. Say if we were just friends at an amusment park, and I got scared and grabbed his hand, would that creep him out? Also, do guys like it if I touch theirs arms when I say hey and stuff? Plus, if I hugged my guy friend goodbye, would that be okay? I'm trying to get us at the next level, your advice is appreciated. =] (link)
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Guys are really pretty easy to figure out. We like to be shown interest. I don't think he'd freak out if you touched his arm when you said hey, in fact I think he'd like it. He's not gunna say "Let go of my hand" when you're at the park because he wants to be viewed as your protector. You're scared and you turn to him, he's gunna like that. It's fine to hug guys. I get hugged some, but it doesn't always mean they're interested. I mean if you're ugly, the guy is much less likely to be interested in you. Sorry, but that's the ugly truth.
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My friend is going to kill herself next Friday.
She seems happy about it.
I've tried to change her mind, but that didn't work.
She doesn't eat, she's an insomniac, and she is very stressed.
She's been to shrinks but she says that they were a waste of her time.
She hates her parents because she can never talk to them, I guess.
I don't know what to do. (link)
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I don't really know how I can be anymore clearer: DO WHATEVER IT TAKES. Call the cops, suicide hotlines, whatever you have to. Tell her parents, tell the fuckin New York Times, but do whatever you have to.
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So..there's this gurl & i guess we're " best friends" well like 1 min. she'll be fine w/ you and then the next she goes crazy and talks behind ur back and says all this crap about you that's not true!
I don't know what to do because i thought we were friends...?
Confused. (link)
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That's obviouly not a friend and I'm really not sure why you're hanging out with her. A best friend doesn't do stuff like that. You need to just be like "Hey look, I know you've been talkin shit about me behind my back and that's not gunna cut it with me. Fuck off" Don't be emotional about it, be kinda angry, but just be like it's no big deal and tell her where to get off.
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well, I lost my virginity to someone that I knew I wasn't going to have a relationship with yet we were friends and I care about him. Yet he's older than me and doesn't think its a big deal... Anyway to cope with the hurt?
btw.. I'm 15---the guy is 18. (link)
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You're young, you made a mistake and that's part of life. Guys just don't view sex as as big of a deal as girls do. It doesn't really matter how old you are, guys do that at all ages. But as long as you learn from it, it may help you in the long run.
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