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My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 11 months. We are together almost everyday. My problem is, I hate when we aren't together. When he can't hang out, I get really upset and I like, minupulate him to come see me. I don't know what is wrong with me! I can never give him space. I feel bad and I try to change but I can't. How should I stop? Does anyone else have this problem? By the way- I would hang out with my friends but they are gone away for the summer. (link)
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Wow, i thought i was the only person like that. I have your exact same problem, except me and my bf have been dating for almost 2 years. I would say try to make new friends. I lost a lot of my friends because of my behavior. My friends ignored me because I was always around him. Just distance yourself. Get a summer job or something so you can't see him. You should stay away from him as much as possible.. Once you find something to distance yourself from him, get used to it, or just end the relationship. I've been thinking about that lately. If you need to talk more, leave me a message in my inbox. Hope i helped.
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ok sorry if this may seem gross but this is it:
when ever my frinds make me laugh they make me laugh hard. i laugh so hard...... i pee in my pants,what should i do is this normal?do not ask me to talk to a doctor or my mom either (personal reason). (link)
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i had the same problem. before i did that, i would go run to the bathroom.. there's not much you can really do. just control it before you do it...
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I really dont like aim triton and i cant find a place to download a different version of aim any help? I want a good version. (link)
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http://www.oldversion.com/program.php?n=aim
pick your old version of AIM!
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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself. (link)
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amen to ThAT!
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i went to a tanning bed..the second i got off my skin was red. so i figure "well im just hot" nope..this is a BAD burn. what do i do? its going to hurt so bad and have that deep itch. i want to cry! (link)
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aloe vera always works - i have fair skin too and i tan often. once you tan on a normal basis, you're skin will become more prone to it! don't worry, it's normal to burn a lot. i always burn under my butt cheeks and on my back. it's common but it'll go away soon :o)
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well im going on vacation very soon to a place very warm where we'll be swimming and such. around that time my period is due..i dont use tampons..what should i do?thanks (link)
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you should start to use tampons. don't worry - they don't hurt. they might a little bit after you start, but you get used to it. just make sure you do it right! you can't swim with a pad or a pantiliner, so unless you swim without any period protection, then you're kind of stuck. hope i helped :o)
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I've never had vaginal intercourse, but about 6 years ago I fooled around with my first and only bf. I performed oral sex on him and also let him perform anal on me without using a condom.
I tell everyone that I'm still a virgin and saving myslef for my husband. No one knows about what I did with my ex bf.
Should I get tested for any STD's? Just to be on the safe side? I know it was 6 years ago. Also, what are the chances that I could have caught something? (link)
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To be safe, I would get tested. Someone already said this below me, but some STD's do show no side affects. I'm sure the chances of an STD are sort of slim if you know he doesn't have an STD. Next time, use a condom while doing anal :o)
hope i helped!
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jamziix16
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Ok, I'm about to have sex for the first time. I've been waiting for ages and I am prepared now. My boyfriend has had sex before a few times so I need a little help on stuff:
a. Is there going to be a lot of blood?
b. Is it going to hurt? (My friend told me it hurt like a mother- through the whole thing on her first time)
c. Is there anything I should know? I know I'm not going to be that great but I don't want to look stupid.
d. What should I do once it's over? (link)
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a) no blood at all. that shouldn't be a problem
b) it might hurt at first but once you start it won't be as bad.. it will start to feel good
c) just be sure that you know birth control might prevent pregnancy, but not STDs.
d) when you're done, you should just take it easy.. after all, you might be tired ;o) hope i helped!
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jamziix16
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me and my bf had sex for the first time the other night. it was great... but.... when he finished he pulled out and i dont know if the condom was too small or what. but "it" got all over... we were so scared. i wont get my period until the end of the month. do you think there can be a bad outcome. ps. i cant go to a gynocologist cuz my mom thinks im a virgin. well sorta. i was raped. adn she knows that. but not about this. what can i do. and is there a chance of anything bad happenign. please help. ill rate hella high. (link)
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i'm sorry to tell you, but there's always a chance of something bad happening. did the condom break? if "it" wasn't inside of you, normally it dies in air so you might not have much to worry about. however, if it got inside you - you might have a problem. but whatever you do, DO NOT FREAK OUT. stress can make it late.. because that's what happened to me. i got really stressed and i was 6 days late because of it. hope i helped :o)
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im not sure how do i tell im realy not sure im confused if i am well... it soo goes against my religin help will give 5s for good answers (link)
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yes, i went through the same thing at one point. if you find yourself having an attraction for a girl, then you are bi-curious. god will forgive you for all sins. if you have another bi friend, why don't you test yourself to see how you really feel. that might be the only way to tell if you really are or not. that's how i found out, and i knew i was just bi-curious, which a lot of people are. hope i helped :o)
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im confused about what to do with my ex cody, its like i get the hot and cold responses from him, so to speak. sometimes he's extrememly nice and we flirt and get along GREAT and others he seems completely shy and doesnt talk to me.
i have liked him since august (it now being january) and in august when i told him that he said he liked me too. so he kind of dragged his feet .. not sure what he wanted .. didnt know waht to do . the usual guy thing. and when i'd finally given up hope on him and me he left me a message at midnight on october 10th like three months later sayin he wanted to give us a try. only to dump me 10 days late b/c he he liked someone else .. then he told me a couple weeks later that he wouldn't have dumped me for her if she hadn't had a boyfriend ..
so that was like november .. now its january and the guy is still all i think of. i try so hard to get over him .. but like around every other corner hes either makin me fall for him again or his friends are being COMPLTELY honest and telling me stuff he says.
like shawn told me that they talk about me all the time (he wouldnt say what but he said the stuff worked in my favor) and that in our study hall (me him and cody have it together) he cant wait for me to come out and talk to them .. and i asked him to stop jokin around w/ me and he went off sayin how honest and truthful he was being ..
then new years cody called. he came and got me on his snowmobile. me and his brother and friend hung out from 9 to 3. we hung out. watched fireworks in the barn by ourselves. hung out around the bon fire. laughed constantly and flirted. i thought it went great .. i had like good hopes you know .. we fell asleep on the couch then they brought me home. he said he'd call. yeah a week and half later .. no call. we talk at school . nothing big hey and how are u kinda stuff ..
i know its probably worthless to waste my time .. and you can be completley honest in tellin me so. but like even though my head knows that .. i cant let go .. 5 months later .. jesus look at me .. in so far i cant even get out .. i've never fallen for anyone like i've fallen for cody. he tells me he can see us dating in the future but doesnt do anything about it .. i just dont know what he wants .. its like this i guess to explain it well ..
It's like a routine.
I fall for him on Monday.
I like him from Tuesday to Thursday.
He make me mad on Friday.
I think I'm over him over the weekend.
But the SECOND I see him on Monday morning
I fall for him again and again
i just dont know what to do ..
so now that i've finished my freakin book .. im sorry its soo long. i just want all the details in it .. sorry sorry sorry.
alyssa05x@aol.com .. if you need more info or something doens't make sense.
i really appreciate it and im sorry about the length .. thanks in advance (link)
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hey, it's no problem.. good thing i can speed-read, eh? lol..
okay, so i totally understand where you're coming from, because i was the same way with my boyfriend. we'd always break up and he'd find someone else, but i couldn't forget about it, yet we finally ended up getting back together.
first things first - you need to figure out how he feels about you.. boys can be really dumb sometimes and just stand you up. but, you need to talk to him and honestly find out how he feels about you. considering he screwed you over one time, you need to pay attention to the way he says all these things to figure out if he's lying to you. the last thing you want is to get broken up with 10 days later. it would be a bad thing. if he does say he likes you and wants to go out with you.. then think about whether you want to do it or not. make sure you decide what's best for you. if he tells you he just wants to be friends, it's going to be a really hard grieving process. go around school and meet new boys or become better friends with your aquatiances.. but the important thing is, communication is the key. talking to him will help you with this problem.
if he does tell you he wants to be just friends, it's not the end of the world - there's always better and hotter boys out there! :o) i hope i helped you! you can come to me for advice anytime either here or email me at hurleyroxygirli@aol.com
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My friend is mad at me. The details don't really matter but my main problem is I think she's going to tell my social studies teacher that I didn't help with other project. That is not true but she can be a real bitch sometimes and it's not under her to do something like that. I helped her find most of the information and pick out different things for our project I just couldn't put it together. How can I keep her from telling my teacher that I didn't help? Oh I don't really care if she's mad at me because she's a bad friend anyway. (link)
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Yeah, i know how you feel. I had a Drivers Ed project and we had to make a video and I didn't go to make it - but I did make something to contribute to the grade. Explain the situation to the teacher before the other chick does. Tell him/her that you organized the project and stuff like that, or you can just add something to it. Hope i helped :o)
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Alright so a few nights ago I got really, really drunk. Like, I can't even remember anything besides taking the shots.
But the thing is
I got drunk and this guy fingered me+I gave him head. I'm a virgin so really the only thing that's 'been in me' was his finger...
and I'm pretty sore
But the thingis...
I don't know If he actually put his dick inside of me. He might've, but he doesn't remember either.
I got my period the next morning, so I'm wondering if there's any possibility at all that I may be pregnant.
thankyou (link)
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You are a lucky one. Considering you got your period, you're not pregnant. You can't get it and be pregnant. Hope i helped :o)
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I find myself caring way too much about what other people say, especially when it comes to my family. Last night I cried myself to sleep because two of them had said something nasty about my boyfriend -- which I should be used to, since they've loathed my boyfriend from the day I met him four years ago and they've made no secret of it. I really can't go on like this, getting upset every time they say something nasty to me (not just about my boyfriend, anything). What are little tricks you can play with yourself so you don't care quite so much about what other people say? (link)
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my parents are somewhat the same way with my boyfriend. they don't like him because he's hurt me a few times.. you don't really need any tricks to not care as much. all you need to do is just ignore them - or just talk to them and tell them to stop saying stuff to you about him, because it really makes you upset. i stood up for myself and told my parents to stop saying things to me about him - and they did. hope i helped :o)
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im 15f. im falling for my best friend; weve known each other for 4 years; hes 16m
i dont knoe if he feels the same way about me n im to scared to let him no how i feel
lately hes been saying really sexual things 2 me and he wants to have sex with me; i told him maybe but im not sure
we never hang out n person becuas im always busy so we only talk on comp
do you think he just wants 2 be friends with benefits and thats all nothing more? n do you think i shuld jus give in n have sex with him if thats all hes lookin 4? (link)
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Okay. D0NT GiVE iN T0 THE SEX THiNG! because boys are dumb and they think that if you have sex with them once, then you'll always do it with him. friends with benefits is really dumb anyways, because it's like someone to go to when your sexually frustrated. if you like him, and he likes you - then go out with him. don't have sex yet.. but you need to find out how he really feels about you by talking to him :o) hope i helped!
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my girlfriend is unhappy and i don't know what to do. i've tried comforting her and asking her what's wrong but she won't tell me.
she did tell me her "friend" said she was stupid and she sucked at life. she actually listens to her, since she's apparently "always almost right".
and my gf doesn't like me mentioningher and saying bad things about her.
what to do?
she also seems to be avoiding me.. i'm assuming she wants to break up. i don't know.
it's like i tell her i love her, i care about her, and or i want to see her...then she gets sad and says she sucks.
she's not even explaining anything. i'm confused. (link)
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wow. i'm going through the EXACT same thing. i'm neglecting my boyfriend right now - but he's too clingy to me. but anyways, you really need to talk to her. ask her if she's losing interest in you [if u think she's avoiding you and she wants to break up] and ask her if she wants to take a break. if she doesn't want to open up to you, just simply tell her you'll be there for her at all times, and she can talk to you at anytimes. hope i helped a little bit :o)
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ok. me and my best friend use to be completely in love with each other. then we kinda just ended it cause he got a girlfiend. but now he dumped her. and i think im falling for him again. what should i do? (link)
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Try to talk to him about it. Tell him up front your starting to fall for him again. Maybe, if you're lucky - he'll come out and say the same thing :o) Hope i helped!
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Hi, i was wondering if it it possible to miss a period? Ive been very active in sports this month and im a week late on my period. Thanks (link)
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Oh yeah.. I played volleyball, and I was six days late. It's a huge possibility to miss it due to sports.. hope i helped :)
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Today I decided to completley put my faith and trust into God, I really took him into my life today. However, I just started going to church last year so I was never baptised and never confirmed. Can I still expect to go to Heaven? What exactly does being confirmed or baptised mean? (link)
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Being confirmed [at least in a Catholic church] means you're becoming a adult in the catholic world. You are responsible for your own actions. You can expect to go to heaven, because although you didn't get baptised or confirmed - there's no sins that are unforgiveable. I'm 15 - i'm not confirmed yet. Hope I helped :)
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Does anyone know any good books for teenage girls about
a.) real drama
b.) pressures
c.) relashionships ( i dont mind if their homosexual relashionships either)
d.) abuse/rape
When you put a title, could you put the letter (A through D) that it applies to?
easy 5's people! (link)
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gossip girls.. its got relationships and real drama.. and i guess pressures.. it's a really good series.. you get clung to it really fast!
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