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I am only 10going on 11and I have the worries and stress of an average teen! First off we are NOT poor! My mom is a doctor and my dad is a pharmacist. They don't have to pay for childcare cause my dad works when my is off.i have literally clothes that would be considered " babyish" for a 7 year old. I have very little clothes. Please don't think I'm a spoiled brat who is complaining when she doesn't get what she wants. In 2nd grade rumors were going around because if my clothes.everybody expet for my 2 friends looked at me like a was a monster. This has been going on scince then, but I try to ignore it. I am willing to pay for it from my own $but my mom says I have enough clothes. Am I crazy for wanting more clothes??am I ungrateful? According to my mom I am. HELP??? (link)
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Don't let the people around you change your mind about the way you dress. But if you really want new clothes, just make the excuse that your old clothes don't fit you anymore and you are beginning to grow in to a new style.
Styles are always constantly changing and we all want new clothes to look nice in public. Since school is starting soon, you could also make the excuse that you want a new back-to-school outfit to look like a new, fresh person.
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I'm13 years old so I can't use tampons yet, and whenever I use a pad, it always leaks after like five minutes. What other methods are there. Also, what is the best way toget blood stains out of my underwear? Thank you! (link)
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Ehh, you probably have a really heavy flow OR you aren't using the correct size for a pad. You should get a pad that is more suitable for heavy flows.
If you have a heavy flow, you should schedule an appointment with your doctor to discuss it because you would be losing a lot of blood for an age like 13.
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So i like this guy and he might like me back. We have held hands etc. But i think that i might have been friend zoned. How to i get him to date me. What makes it worse is that i use to date his friend. (link)
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You can't say that you are friendzoned until you actually understand the meaning of being friendzoned. He might be taking it slow, so you should just be patient. Maybe he does like you but he will take his time because, honestly, it can be pretty pressurizing for the guy to ask a girl out. Eh if you really aren't sure, you should just straight up ask him if he likes you or not. It never hurts to ask.
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Hi. Soo I Need To Get My Mind Off Something (Annoying Subject) And I Can't Seem To. Any Suggestions.? Thanks.! (link)
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Haha yeah I know how you feel, it's super annoying when you can't get your mind off something. Don't just sit at home because that's just gonna bunch your thoughts up together. Go outside, have some fresh air, and I would suggest going out on a run. Running is a pretty good thought/stress reliever. Or you can go and hangout with friends because who doesn't like being happy? :D
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Hi.. Well this might be not a question you would hear everyday.. I dont think my other question posted.. But anyway.. I have cut/Self Harm for a year now.. I really want to stop.. Its just hurting my family and friends too much.. :( can i get some tips to stop? Please dont judge. (link)
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Go on to google and type in "butterfly project"
I had plenty of classmates who cut and I had no idea what they were going through. But they managed to stay strong and quit their cutting. The people around you love you okay? You are beautiful and you are loved. If I knew you, I would give you a big hug and physically help you.
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ive been with my boyfriend for 10 months now and he isn't a virgin but i am. and i wanted to know that he really loves me and he didn't just want to get in my pants so i decided not to give it up to him in the beginning. now we're at 10 months and i feel like sometimes i wanna give it up to him and sometimes i don't because im scared that im gonna regret it. my real problem is that im scared that he's gonna leave me or have sex with someone else because hes waited so long without having sex (link)
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Being in a relationship isn't about the sex. You don't have to have sex if you don't want to. If you that type who wants to keep the v-card until "the one" that's totally fine too. If he's stubborn enough to take it to the next base when you don't want to, I would probably leave him.
So, if you don't wanna lose it to him, just tell him no. No means no! If he really loves you, he would respect you, your body, and your decisions.
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Im 16 a girl i love porn :/ n i love to masturbate is it bad a girl my age to masturbate (link)
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It is our human nature to masturbate. There's nothing wrong with it because we all have our needs. Don't feel so guilty about it. Normally, girls aren't as open about it because they feel embarrassed but it's nothing bad. There are people way younger than you who have been on porn sites and masturbated too.
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so found out a guy is about to ask me out and i sorta like him but im not quite there yet. But my sister has been texting him and told him that i like him, which is sorta true. But i also feel bad for him because he is from a broken home. I am 14 and a girl from C.A. (link)
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So, I don't think that you having pity for him is really relevant to your possible soon-to-be-relationship.
As a teenager myself, I know your position. You probably feel like it's necessity to have a boyfriend and it can be kind of exciting when you find out a guy you like likes you back. If you don't think that you are ready for a relationship, I think you should either tell him that you aren't ready yet, OR you could just go for it but take it slow. Like reeeeally slow...
And about the broken home part, when a kid's parents get divorced, their world kind of just starts falling apart and they will lack love in their life. That's when they start looking for love outside of their home, like flings and relationships.
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What is a easy way to kill yourself with no pain or anything (link)
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Drugs...
Even though I find it wrong to self-harm
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I am 13 and have a problem with asking this guy out because i really like him.But he already has a
girlfriend! I don't know how to solve this problem
P.S THANKS FOR YOUR HELP
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You are kinda young...but I know the feeling.
Don't interfere with his relationship with him and his girl. No matter how tempted you are, it's just wrong to do that. I hope you get over him soon because you will meet someone even better in your life!
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frinds i just wanna share something with you all hope may some one help me out.
im n love since two years, but unfortunatly she never try to understand me :/
thats true she love me and i trust her as well
but she dont :/ honestly i love her since im with her i never even think about someone
she always need a time i give her as i can bec i work and some time cant pull time for her but every night i talk with her on cell
she need 3 to 4 hours but i cant as im so far :( she alawys give me hard time like u did not msg bhal bhal bhal i explian her many time after all my try she dont understand me she always give me alot of tens what i doooooooooooooooooo ? please some one help me out thx regards (link)
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Maybe it's just not working out for you guys then. Relationships do consume a lot of time and when a guy doesn't spend enough time with a girl, the girl may get ticked off sometimes. You could try working something out with her, like find a time when both of you can have alone bonding time. Relationships are a lot of work and it requires sacrifice. During work hours, you could try sparing at least 3-5 minutes talking to her and then get back to work so it's more efficient. I'm sure you have some break time in between, yeah? It's best not to be a workaholic because it's bad for your health. But if she continues to push you around like that (which you don't deserve), I think you should put it to an end.
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How do you make your feet smaller? (link)
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Uh, you can use the old Asian method of feet binding but I'm pretty sure that wouldn't sound appealing to you. There is nothing wrong with having big feet though. Everyone is different and you should be proud of who you are. We all have flaws that we aren't always proud of but learn to embrace it.
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Gosh. She's such a bitch. I'm a 16 year old college student. They say "forgive those who wrong you and be nice to them.". Well yes, that's what I did. End result? Loads of insults and mockery. I try to be nice to her and she doesn't appreciate. I wasn't in the wrong in the first place, but it was her who thought everything she did was right and that everyone has to do things her way. She's getting on my nerves and I don't know what to do. She keeps judging me and stealing my friends away.>:( Oh dear. Help. Thanksss. (link)
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Pretend to like that girl. From what I have learned, it's best to "kill your enemies with kindness." I know you are trying to be nice to her but hey, you don't want to be on the same low level as her. You know that you are better than her and she's probably just jealous of you. You'll be out of college soon and probably will never see her again. Just don't show your anger towards her because that will tempt her to keep bullying you. Ignore her, keep your distance from her, and enjoy your life in college. Everyone has haters but it's best to ignore it.
I have a friend who was in that exact situation and she was also a 16 year old in college, and she handled the situation like how I explained it up there and that person leaves her alone now.
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Do you think being a vet would be depressing, seeing sick animals every day? (link)
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No, being a vet is awesome. It shows that you have a caring nature towards animals. True, it's depressing to see animals be sick but they need cure and if you heal them, they will be happy again, and that will bring joy to you too.
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My friend Hannah smokes ALOT of pot and it is so concerning. Im 18 and she is 20. Yes, she is old enough to make her own decisions, but at the same time, I don't want to hang out with someone thats on the benefit (gets money from the government), sits at home with her boyfriend in bed all day, every day and just smokes pot. Me and my friend had to literally go and get her from her house just to get her out of the house. I have tried talking to her 10000000 times about it and it just turns into an argument. Im just at the point like 'this is useless' and give up. What do I do!!!! (link)
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She's 20...therefore she can do anything she wants. You shouldn't judge her just because she likes something and you shouldn't be there to control her. You can tell her to smoke less of it, but don't tell her to stop because that's her own choice.
It's either you can tolerate it or you can't. I suggest you hang with other people who don't smoke weed then and stay a farther distance from those who do smoke weed.
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im 13 years old and my boyfriend is 18 years old (im thinking should i have sex with him its cause i feel hes to big for me and shit im steel virgin) what should i do should i have sex with him? (link)
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Okay, honestly, you are only 13, therefore you are only a minor. With him at this age having sex with a minor like you will label him as a sex offender under the laws of rape.
I find it wrong for you to have sex now, even if he convinces you that he will use protection or something. Stay abstinent please!
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i am 13 yrs old,i am a girl. i am in bombay and i have a friend his name was ranjith we are just a frirnd. but one day he proposed me. since i liked him acepted it.once he gave me a gift inside there was condom.he asked me shall we have a sex.i am intrested to have sex with him.but i don't know what are the effect of having sex in 13. so i am confused.i need advise (link)
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That would be considered rape, based on the law. You are a minor and he's probably a minor too (but you didn't state his age so this is just an assumption).
Please stay abstinent. Trust me, you will regret later and you don't want to disappoint your parents.
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It's been almost two weeks and the suspense is killing me!!!.... I'm pretty young and I am not able to go get a pregnancy test... So I'm here wondering if their is a home thing that I can do without my parents finding out????... I really need this so I can get it officially off my mind (link)
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Um...isn't this considered rape?
But, unfortunately, there is nothing you can do about it aside from buying a pregnancy test. Unless you are comfortable with talking to your pediatrician about it. Your pediatrician can help you and he/she doesn't have the right to tell your parents unless you give he/she permission to. He/she can help you from there.
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ive been seeing this guy for 6 months now. we are both really happy. he is friends with this other girl on the other side of the country (they talk like everyday)she has a boyfriend, but apparently the boyfriend is jealous of max (the guy im seeing). This morning max told me, that at the beginning of the previous year he had promised this girl a visit for a week and he asked if id be alright with that.
i trust him, he is really relgious and i know he would never cheat. i just think its weird to travel the country to see another girl and when she has a bf!.
am i being to jealous? or am i right in thinking its a tad off?
any suggestions on how to approach it with him without starting an argument. (link)
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It is good that you trust him. Having a strong trust is always important. I think you should trust him because HEY! AT LEAST HE TOLD YOU, RIGHT? I mean, it's not like he's hiding what he's doing behind your back. He asked for your permission so I think you should trust him.
It's okay to have a little jealousy because it shows that you care.
I'm sure you guys won't start in an argument unless you let this situation get to you. Maybe you should keep in contact with him at least once a day or something. Have him call you or you call him to make sure that both of you are okay.
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My boyfriend and I are in 8th grade. We've been dating for 9 months. He gets upset because we can't find anything to talk about and its really getting on my nerves. I tried to make conversation with him but he said he didn't want to ask me anything :( I think of what to say when I'm not with him but when I'm with him I forget what I was gonna say. I feel like we're going to break up because we don't know what to talk about. What does a 14 year old boy like talking about with a 13 year old girl? (link)
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COMMUNICATION IS KEYY! If it's that awkward between you guys, I have to say that you guys aren't meant for each other. I mean, it's been 9 months already so you guys should already know each other well and be comfortable with telling each other anything.
I believe that middle school relationships don't last but I'm not saying that yours won't last. Maybe find some common interests that you guys have. I think starting off with music is good. Or ask him why does he like you, because almost any girl would be curious to find out why a guy likes them.
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