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what does a 14 year old boy like talking about with a 13 year old girl?
My boyfriend and I are in 8th grade. We've been dating for 9 months. He gets upset because we can't find anything to talk about and its really getting on my nerves. I tried to make conversation with him but he said he didn't want to ask me anything :( I think of what to say when I'm not with him but when I'm with him I forget what I was gonna say. I feel like we're going to break up because we don't know what to talk about. What does a 14 year old boy like talking about with a 13 year old girl?
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COMMUNICATION IS KEYY! If it's that awkward between you guys, I have to say that you guys aren't meant for each other. I mean, it's been 9 months already so you guys should already know each other well and be comfortable with telling each other anything.
I believe that middle school relationships don't last but I'm not saying that yours won't last. Maybe find some common interests that you guys have. I think starting off with music is good. Or ask him why does he like you, because almost any girl would be curious to find out why a guy likes them.
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You know what the problem is? You guys are wasting too much damn time thinking of what to say than just relaxing and being yourselves. Be in the moment and just let things flow like you would talking to anyone else.
Both of you need to do that. Just let things go loose and whatever comes to mind spontaneously will. However, if you talk about mutual interests, movies, games or whatever you are in to that could help. I think you are both a little nervous and scared and need to relax a little and see that the less thinking about what to say rather than just talking in the moment about anything at all will make this easier as you go along. No need to breakup. You just have to learn how to communicate.
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The key to a long lasting relationship is to be able to communicate with one another. Enjoy spending time with one another. Do date night once s week where you both do something fun together. See a movie, Do dinner together or if you got snow why not go sledding?
I am 27, My husband and I do just about anything. In fact yesterday we both went outside and had a snowball fight (lol) there is no limits. Just have fun and enjoy his company. One thing that kills communicating though is if you text 24.7...you are not leaving any room for conversation nor are you allowing the spark to continue.
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Well, firstly congrats for lasting 9 months! And second, you can talk about anything! You guys have been together for a long time so you guys have trust. Now if you are really struggling why dont you start talking about his day or something he likes. For example, if he likes sports or he is in a sports team ask him " hey babe how is your team doing?" or "babe can we play this sport one day?" if that doesnt work try anything else trust me just by starting of something small and simple can lead into LOTS of talking. And dont think you guys are going to break up because that is negative. you been together for a while so something small like this wont cause a break up. I hope this help. If anything im here for you GOOD LUCK!!!!!
Love, Penguin
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