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sex for the first time at 19. Will he enjoy it? What should I wear? How do I keep my cool? Will I get pregnant?
its my first time nd im nervous like what am i suppose to wear or what to also whats goin to happen will he enjoy it? also im scared how to i keep my cool? wats the chances of me getting pregnant? im 19 and im a female!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
First pregnancy: You are 19 and adult under the law. As such you are old enough to see any doctor you choose and ask for birth control medication. Birth Control pills are 99% effective in preventing pregnancy according to most of the information available. Condoms are only 85% effective when worn correctly. Even when the women is on birth control the male should still use a condom for two reason. First together the are far more effective in preventing pregnancy than just the one. Second; Condoms do prevent the transmission of many STDS and HIV.
As to your other questions. Below is a link to a website I found when answering similar questions for other young ladies. I suggest you read this before you and your boyfriend have intercourse.
What is most important for your enjoyment are these. That he find a comfortable place for you two to make love. One that is safe and secure that you will feel comfortable and know you won't be intruded upon so you can relax. Sex is the greatest when both partners agree on something. If either one say no to something it is no , not maybe or try it anyway. Also stop means STOP IMMEDIATLEY and no means NO. Make sure he understands this.
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Enjoy your first time and get on birth control. Make sure to ask the doctor how long before the pills are fully protecting you. Taking the worry out of getting pregnant puts the enjoyment into sex.
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You've got a bag full of questions here mate! Well, us blokes like 'eye-candy' and girls generally enjoy looking good and feel more confident when they do. Maybe try a pretty, silky and quite revealing nightie. Pretty undies and a lacy bra? Basically, what do YOU feel sexy wearing? That's how to dress for the start of the occasion. He'll enjoy it...bloke usually does. There's many a nervous request from girls on this sight about the 'losing your cherry' aspect. Impossible to predict how it'll feel for you. Generally, the more relaxed and mentally and emotionally 'ready' you are to commit to a sexual relationship the more comfortable and enjoyable it will be. And bear in mind it's a natural and unavoidable event all sexually active women have been through, not a traumatic or in any way 'damaging' experience. Do make sure he's got you fully aroused physically before he attempts to penetrate you though, no rushing into it. What happens? Well, it sounds a bit dry in words but you enjoy arousing and stimulating each other until you're both dying to 'do it'. Then he enters you and thrusts rhythmically until he 'comes'. He'll almost certainly be pressing quite firmly and rapidly against you as he approaches climax...us blokes do that. Don't worry too much about keeping your cool. In fact, during sex it's nice to 'let go' and enjoy it. Most of us guys like to know our partner is enjoying it too and will find the sight of you excited and aroused a VERY nice sight indeed! You won't look 'stupid' or 'funny' when the heat's on...really you won't.
Condoms, used properly are a highly effective means of birth control. But obviously if they split or slip off the effectivenes drops to zero percent. Obviously he puts it on before any sort of penetration. Leave a sort of 'pouch' at the end for his semen, but make sure there's no air trapped, making it look like a balloon. That's the most common cause of one popping and breaking. It should be rolled right down to the base of his erect penis. After he's 'come' and he's withdrawing, he should hold the base to stop the full condom slipping off. If one pops, STOP and put on a new one straight away. Millions use condoms every day, without any problems or accidents. The odds are VERY much in your favour. Keep your expectations real, it takes time and practice to get everything in synch and get tuned-in sexually to ANY new partner, and even more so when it's your first sexual partner as well. I'm sure you'll be fine. 19 is by no means too early an age to start enjoying sex. Your outlook should be quite adult enough to avoid most of the emotional problems and mistakes that arise from starting sex much too young. The main thing is to be be safe regarding pregnancy. The rest...learning about each others likes and dislikes, how to pleasure each other best etc is a major part of the fun. Good luck.
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I will answer the pregnancy part
The chances pretty much depend on how smart you both are when it comes to protecting yourself. I highly advise you to use a condom every time. Do not let you talk otherwise
No glove no love! Remember you are the one who carries it for 9 months. Be smart and be safe
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hello.
Dont be nervous sex in my opinion is beautiful. I consider sex art of love. You dont need to wear anything sweetie because you will have to take off your clothes. Im not sure if he is a virgin or not but since you are he will enjoy it because your tight. Its ok to be a little scaried tho everyone always is. Just relax and if you truely love eachother he will care on how you feel. Tell him your nervous because he will be gentle. Now you wont get pregnant BUT YOU MUST WEAR A CONDOM!!!!! hope this helped
Love, Penguin
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