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This girl is getting on my serious nerves.
Gosh. She's such a bitch. I'm a 16 year old college student. They say "forgive those who wrong you and be nice to them.". Well yes, that's what I did. End result? Loads of insults and mockery. I try to be nice to her and she doesn't appreciate. I wasn't in the wrong in the first place, but it was her who thought everything she did was right and that everyone has to do things her way. She's getting on my nerves and I don't know what to do. She keeps judging me and stealing my friends away.>:( Oh dear. Help. Thanksss.
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Pretend to like that girl. From what I have learned, it's best to "kill your enemies with kindness." I know you are trying to be nice to her but hey, you don't want to be on the same low level as her. You know that you are better than her and she's probably just jealous of you. You'll be out of college soon and probably will never see her again. Just don't show your anger towards her because that will tempt her to keep bullying you. Ignore her, keep your distance from her, and enjoy your life in college. Everyone has haters but it's best to ignore it.
I have a friend who was in that exact situation and she was also a 16 year old in college, and she handled the situation like how I explained it up there and that person leaves her alone now.
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just ignore her as best as possible, and if she keeps trying to bug you then you need to stand up for yourself and try something else. ask your parents or other authority figures for help, maybe even a friend. they can help you and will know what to do
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I would say that you should try not to have this girl too involved in your life. Sit far away from her in class, don't hang out with the same people and as the last person said avoid her. College campuses are big places I'm sure it won't be too difficult. But when she does start talking to you and being abusive even after this, just tell her to leave you alone. You don't have to be mean or stoop down to her level at all. Just say, "I don't appreciate the way you are treating me right now because it's rude so please just don't talk to me." And then walk away if you can or just ignore her. Chances are she could either be embarrassed at how mature you handled the situation and how she came off or she will continue her attacks. If she chooses the latter just simply move to a different seat. If your proffessor says anything just say you were moving to a seat where you wouldn't be distracted from their lesson. Hope this helps! Good luck :)
-Ali
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Your going to have people like this all through out college, its horrible, i know. Its just something most teenagers, girls especially, go through. There will be alot of drama. Try and stay away from her and do not say anything at all to her, because if you say something to her then it just gives her a reason to be rude and horrible. Also, she acts like this because she has a lot of problems in her life that she herself can not deal with and therefore takes it out on other people. Try and ignore her as much as you can, and your friends wont let her take them away if they value your friendship.
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