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i am 13 yrs old,i am a girl. i am in bombay and i have a friend his name was ranjith we are just a frirnd. but one day he proposed me. since i liked him acepted it.once he gave me a gift inside there was condom.he asked me shall we have a sex.i am intrested to have sex with him.but i don't know what are the effect of having sex in 13. so i am confused.i need advise
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That would be considered rape, based on the law. You are a minor and he's probably a minor too (but you didn't state his age so this is just an assumption).
Please stay abstinent. Trust me, you will regret later and you don't want to disappoint your parents.
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You are 13,Too young to be saying yes too a proposal.
Also, if you are asking us what too do then you are clearly not ready for sex. Wait a few years
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Every culture is different but one thing is not different between cultures. At 13 your body is not ready for sex. Yes your body may have taken on the form of a women but you still need time to mature both physically and mentally.
The fact that you are confused says you are not ready for sex and probably not ready for marriage either, though as I said every culture is different.
Bombay is a more modern part of India. While certain cultural and religious beliefs may exist in Bombay as well as the more rural parts of the country. My advice would be not to accept this boys proposal or at the very least not to marry until you body is old enough to perform marital duties which will be at least 3 to 4 more years.
You need to mature mentally as well. While you may have the beginnings of a womanly body at 13 you still posses many child like qualities that need to mature. So you need to wait a few more years before thinking about having sex.
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Hello there . I may be only three years older than you , but here's my advise . First off , exterminate the confusion in your mind and think of the best choice for your own sake . Either you want to have sex with him or you don't , the choice is yours so decide what's best . You're still 13 sweetie , don't you wanna keep the virginity for a special man who truly deserves it in the future ? It's worth the wait :) How would your parents feel if they know that their loved daughter has had sex with the fact that she is still too young for one ? Think about it .
For now , i really , really suggest you to turn down his 'request' nicely and pursue other matters in life because there's still so much more to it . You may be interested in having an intercourse with him , but you also need to realise that life's not about mere trying . There are some things that you can try , but there are also other things which you can't try just yet . Like i said , you're 13 , and I'm not trying to say that you're too young for everything , but this is the age for you to gain as much knowledge as you can and ensure a bright future ahead . This is your golden age , and the virginity you've now is your pearl , or like some of others say , your dignity . Sorry for saying this , but you need to think of this also which is , what if you and Ranjith get addicted to sex ? How'll both of you react to it ? Teen sex may take emotional toll you see . The thing is , let Ranjith know that he has to wait and if he's really in love with you , he'll respect your decision and wait for you . At this moment , think of the best for both of you and think wisely :))
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If i were you i would say no because having sex at this very young age will cause some sex related problems.After all just ask him to wait for 3 to 4 years if he is really in to you and love you he will accept it don't rush and don't risk your life and happiness as your life has long way to go.
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hey.. m from kolkata.. Girl u are just 13.. what is the rush ?? having sex at 13 is not really a very good idea.. if you get pregnant your parents will create a huge issue.. So think before doing anything.. But if you really wanna have it then please use proper protection.. Use the condom wisely.. Still i would advice you 2 wait.. All the best :)
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