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Location: FT. Lauderdale / MIA
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i have a lot of best friends but sometimes i feel like some of them really aren't my friends and r just acting like it. but how do i no if they are or not and how do i no to trust them???? please help me b/c its makin my brain hurt.

If you question then they are not true freinds!!

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Everytime i talk on the phine with my boyfriend and we discuss sexual stuff, like maybe taking our relationship to the next step, i start to shake and i shake like i'm really cold, but i'm not..and even hours afterwards i keep shaking. What's going on?

Theres somthing wrong up in your head!! Talk to a counseler

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what should i say during an akward or scilent moment

Gettign a life helps take those away lol no just playn with you i have those moments to.... im just like so.....yeah...any ways whats up.....

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how do i create my own website for free so that i can u know go www.whatever.com or org well u no what i mean please help me i really want to know how thanks alot i rate high

You need to buy a domain name! unless you go to like a site like goecites they give you frre web space! say you do buy a domain name make sure you know HTML because you cant have a site wihtout unless you have a web editor!

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Some of my friends tell me that I shop at expensive places. I pretty much shop at Abercrombie, American Eagle, and sometimes at Express. But there's more expensive stuff that I could get. And they say that I'm ubsessed with Abercrombie because I have lots of stuff from there. Is this true??

Wow my friends tell me the same thing i dont really care what they have to say i buy the clouths becaseu they look ill spend 200 on jeans if they look nice!

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I always study for test really hard. But all the time when I get the test back I made an F. I just get nervios and mess up. How can I get over it? I dont want to study all the time like I do and all I get is an F. It will really help me if yall tell me how to get over the freakking out on the test.THanks


I rate high (4&5)

Let me guess your parents pressure you into getting good grades!! I finally got over the fear of failing and ever since i have been doing better in school!! School is easy is you just treat it like any thign else..

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i really love my boyfriend, but he hasnt even kissed me yet and i dont wanna wait anymore. He is like to shy. I also like this other guy any way who would probably kiss me. The other boy is a bad boy so yeah.
What do i do?
I wanna break up but yet i dont want anyone to get hurt
???????

Grow Up!!! Stop dateing kids like that...come on what are you 11 you have your entire life ahead of you dont let somthing stupid like this stop you!!

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lately ive been getting annoyed at my friends. They are great friends but sometimes..they get on my nerves. Like within our circle we have like 3 ppl who gossip..and i hate it. Then we have a couple people who never contribute in driving us anywhere..and its always me and a couple others driving. Its these little things that have been accumulating and now im getting angry. I feel like i want to find a new circle ..and my other friend agrees...she wants to also. But reality is..there isnt another circle and we do have good friends..what should i do? is this normal?

Just slowly kinda in simple terms kick them out of the group!! Like stop inviteing them places and if they do come make them pay gas money..thats how me and my freinds do it who ever drives its 3-5 dollars from every one!! and slowly stop hanging out wiht them...you know

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how do u become popular and have alot of friends

You try not to be that person!! lol may sound stupid let me guess your in middle school!!?? Its not goign to matter when you get to high school theres no such thing as popular in hgih school!

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my kid hates me what do i do they are turnin rebelous help!

Come on your at least 18!! Be an adult and stop letting your kids run you!! Lay dwon the law and dont take s*** from them!!

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right now at my school we are going through a 'war'. it is split half and half. i dont like the people on the other side but there is one girl that i like over there. i will lose my reputation as a jock if i talk 2 her. do i talk 2 her and lose my rep. or do i keep my rep. and lose my chance with her

Sorry ut you sound like you 10!! F*** the est of the kids talk to them! who cares what other people thinhk im like that im every ones freind thats how you popular and people like you your freinds right now are back stabbers and you'll see that soon or later there are very few real good friends!! If they were your real freinds and if you really had a good rep!! they wouldnt care!! Im the prep in my school i dont really give a damn about what other people have to think about me. Just thihnk about it!! If you want to be some one your not go ahead and be that person thats your choice but thats like so uncool where im from!!

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i am beginning to do crazy with all of this rain i have gotten in my area.

i need ideas on things to do at home by myself. i have gone through every board game, read every book, and am out of ideas. any websites i can go to? any other ideas? because with every drop of rain the runs off of my window, a piece of my sanity goes with it!

Wow that really sucks Down load music. Music always makes me feel better and takes up time!! Or go play in the rain thats always fun. although i live in florida where its nice and hto and you can do that hope you dont live up north!!lol

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i have had the worsest day EVER my boy friend that got me preg(im about 9months)....was cheating on me and it was liek one of my bestest friends....and today is the day my dad died....and my mom is really mad at me..i dont no why tho...and when i found out that my b.f was cheating on me i told him that its over i have better things to do instead of crying and he hit me in my stomach...i dont no if my babies o0k im going to the doctors 2marow to check and my my ex said that he dont wnat to be the father of my child and that umm he dont wnat to marry me no more...i didnt want to marry that loser anways but umm....now this guy friend i met hes my brothers friend and he has liek me for a LONG TIME and i tihnk hes only 21 and i am 19 adn he has been helping me out alot now i mean he got me a car (hes rich to cause he is rich cause his parents are dead and hes an only child and they left everything to them and his dad was a Arectect nad his my was a phycologist how every you spell them and i liek him alot and stuff but he has a g.f and she is realyl sweet and i dont no if she nows that her b.f helps me out.... and he bout me alot of stuff for me and my child....and i want to go out with him and i want him to be my baby's daddi not some loser and i dont wnat to have this baby no more...but i kinda do cause i always wanted to be a mother.....and i dont no what to do help me please...
i rate i high to...
x0x0-----ilu!

Sorry about all the things you have been going through. Just never talk to those people who hurt you again!! Hopefully your brothers frind will see that you like him! Best of luck to you.

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ok im 13/f and my bf always asks me do u wanna make out and hell yea i do but i dont know how how? i mean idk.i really like my bf but i am kinda prude and i wanna atleast make out so this is kinda a stupid question but how do u make out with sum1?
ok i need advice asap bc my bf is starting to get annoyed bc i keep saying not right now not right now...any1 have any ideas? im afraid he may break up with me?

Its like completely natural once you start you'll under stand theres nothing to be afraid of its all kool. its good to do things wiht your bf/gf its a way of showing effection

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OK i just got a mini iPod and when i put in the installation CD it said that i need windows 2000 with sevice pack 4 or windows XP...i have windows 2000 so im guessing i need the sevice pack 4...does anyone know what this is?...thanks!!

Its a patch you need to go to the microsoft wed site and download the updates

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I don't understand this. I've been studying Psycology for years, yet I don't get why I can't fall asleep. I was diagnosed with Insomnia when I was 8. This isn't Insomnia. When I lay down to goto sleep, I get scared. As if something is in the room with me. Last night I went to sleep and I felt something behind me. I've been having this problem for 3 months. My doctor said it's normal, that it's just Anxiety, but I CAN'T goto sleep. What should I do?

Well.... studing phycology and hearing all kinds of stories and events can really start to get to you its all up in your head. sleeping pills might. Also if you live alone you might feel that there is no one to protect you!

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I am interested in purchasing a new computer for the purpose of gaming. Games im intersted in are half life 2 and Everquest 2. Id like to spend the minimum amount of money required, but id like to buy a system that is able to support these games and run them smoothly, reliably, and in good graphics. does anyone have any advice on a good cheap set up?

You can get a lot more for your money if you build it your self or get a freind to build it for you. Get a nice unit asus mother board 512or more of ram a nice 3.0-3.4 GHz processor!! um.. a good internet bandwith is important half life likes the 3Mb a sec for your internet! 128-256 Mb video card! nice monitor. If you do it right i build on about 3 months ago with all that for 1500 dollars and i did i speed test and it came out awsome!!

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is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance!

I dont think so!!

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okay..theres this 1 spot on my head thats hurting like really badly!! its swollen and hurts whenever i touch it just like when my hair hits it, it starts to hurt. Any 1 have any idea what it might be??And should i ask my mom to take me to the doctor? thanx
--Alexa--

You shoudl go to the DOCTOR right away!! There could be fluid building up!! it could be somthign very serious tell your mom to take you!!

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my bf just told me he was a pothead...and hes been doing it for almost a year. and we've been going out for more than a year, i dont know what to do. hes lied to me for so long. i told him if he did it i'd dump him but he did it anyway. i only said that so maybe he wouldnt do that but it didnt work. idk what to do. im so confused and idk. please help. and dont tell me to dump him because i cant. i love him too much to do that. no matter what he does.

Ok..well first of all how long has he been smoke some guys start over the weekend trying it and then stop a week lata!!ask him and tell him how you feel

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