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i ♥ giving advise .. ANYKIND! so dont be afraid to ask me. i love this site and im on it all the time so your questions will get answered pretty quickly. Some things about me .. my name is candace and i live in georiga. I love hangin out with my friends and doing stupid stuff. My favorite color is green!! green rocks! my favorite places to shop at are 1) american eagle 2) abercrombie 3) hollister 4) aeropostale 5) old navy ... these are the places i shop at the most but i do go other places sometimes! my favorite animal is deffinatly a monkey! they are soo cool. i have monkeys all in my room (fake ones of course!). well if you want to know anyhting else, just ask!

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One of my best friends just told me that she liked me today. She asked me if i had any feelings about it and i said not yet. The problem is that i don't really know if i like her as more than a friend. I used to like her like about a month ago, but i stopped. This may not make any sense but i want to like her as more than a friend because she is one of the nicest people i know, but i just don't think i see her that way. Is that possible? I don't want to hurt her and tell her that i'm not interested but i don't want to go out with her either. What should i do?

If your not sure if you like her like that or not, dont go out wiht her. It will only hurt both of yall in the end. Just tell her how you feel and say you think yall are better as good friends instead. Hope this helped.

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anyone have ideas on what to put in my buddyprofile besides the "about myself" or shoutouts part. i got that already.
thank you

you can put quotes on there, or shout outs. Also you can put your favorite song lyrics. Alot of people put funny things said in movies too. Hope this helped.

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Hey, I'm 13/F and I just got my period in January. I had it for 6 days. I haven't gotten it since!! It's the end of March now which means I skipped two months?? I know I'm not pregnant (I have no idea how to spell it)
Is something wrong with me???

its perfectly fine. If it was the first time you had it, then it mostly will skip a few months then come back again. Its not on a permenent track yet so it wont come every month until after you have it a couple of times.

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me and my boyfriend broke up and i think he wants me back. what should i do!!!!???? he flirts with me and he is so sweet to me. should we go out again? plus he said he loved me

I think that he still likes you, and i can tell you like him, so i say GO FOR IT!!

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Hey, i have had this girl as my girlfriend for a month and 3 1/2 weeks. But, we have not kissed yet, the main reason is, because we both have braces, i am affraid of all the roumours of linked braces that are going around. I get my braces off in June or July, and i am having her over tonight with a few friends for a movie night, should i got ahead and kiss her, or should i wait til i get my braces off and play it safe?

Im pretty sure nothing is going to happen, so i would say go for it and kiss her!! good luck

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I'm really into fashion and stuff but i don't know what stores have the hottest clothes!! Fill me in!!

i mostly shop at american eagle, abercrombie, aeropostale, hollister, wet seal, & goody's and i was voted best dressed at school so i think they are good places. hope this helped!!

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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two months now and the guy hasnt even tried to kiss me. Like im sorry if i sound bad for saying this but i have needs! So I was wondering what are some ways i can turn my boyfriend on so that he'll wanna make out with me, or at least kiss me?

i used to be in that situation. Turns out, the guy didnt think i was ready, and he was waiting for me to kiss him first. So maybe you should make the first move .. hope it helped!

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ok well i have a boyfriend and i like him a lot we talk on line and sometimes on the phone (i always call him he never calls me) and at school we don't talk at all. i am his first girl friend he has ever had but i can't stand not talking to him. i want to talk to him at school but i'm shy and hes shy not good not good at all. i was just wondering what i should do? i rate high

i used to be the same way .. but its ok. I mean, yall do go out so just walk up and talk to him!! It might be hard, but i know you can do it. Once you do it, you'll be glad you did. hope it helped!

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okay, for all you iditos who anwser questions with rude anwsers..go away now..because you arent wanted..
this one i would probaly like a girl to anwser..but hey, i dont care

okay, im 6th grade(girl of course)..corny but hey, and i like this guy..everyone says that we would look really good together, and i know him well. this is my 3rd year of being in the same class as him, we hang out together sometimes, and we basically sit next to eachother. well, his gf just broke up with him, althogh it wasnt a real relashonship..they never really liked eachother..well, i don't know if he likes me or not..we get along great and all..and well, i really want him to ask me out! he is so nice and funny, caring also..i always said that i would never have a bf until like 7th or 8th grade..cuz the relashonships are never real..but how can i clue him to like ask me out? or how can i get clues as to if he likes me or not? i really need help on this one..sorry for the length
signed..
need help!

first off .. finding out if he likes you, just od what i did. I had one of my friends ask this guy if he liked me. so ask one of your friends to ask him. Then giving clues, just flirt alot and give him hints that you like him. hope this helped.

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im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help!

most guys go for the personality and not the looks. So thats probly why your friend has boyfriedns and you dont. I htink it is rude for you to say that about your friend too. If you want to change all that, then flirt with guys more and talk to them more and let alot of guys get to know you, and then maybe someone will ask you out soon. hope this helped.

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My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!!

i think you need to wait. The bible says you need to wait until you are married. Its not right to have sex before you are married, but most people do. Sorry if this is not much, hope it helped.

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Anyone know were/how I can make a *FREE* website on my own..Like I can have links to other pages like one link could be my pictures (but on the same site not linked to a site where they are) and another link could be ramblings..its not exactly a journal but idk exactly what it is either..can someone please help me! I love making sites taht have already been made for me,but I want to make my own! ** I rate high **

www.xanga.com .. you can do one on there. thats just like what you are talkin about. www.myspace.com is sorta like that too. hope i helped.

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sorry if this is long, but there is this guy that i like and we used to go out. he now has a girlfriend but i dont care, i still like him. This one girl likes him, so someone asked if he would ever go out with her and he said no. but then this girl asked if he would ever go back out with me and he smiled nad said "umm .. i gotta get to class" so the next day the girl asked again and so he was like "umm .. i gotta girlfriend" so he didnt say yes or no. Do you htink i still have a chance?

i definatley think you have a chance. I mean ,he said no to hte other girl but didnt say yes or no for you. Just wait for him and his other girlfriend to break up and then see if he likes you. Hope this helped.

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hey ok heres my problem. my boyfriend thinks im too shy too kiss or do anything!!! im not evenshy in the least bit! is there anyway i can tell him im not too shy to do that kind of stuff without sounding slutty?

i dont think you should say anyhting, i think you should show him! just next time your with him, kiss him. Or wait until he says your too shy again and then kiss him!! hope this helped. keep me updated if u can!

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ok..i really like this guy ...he is perfect..but the only problem is that he is in 7th grade and im in 8th should that stop me from liking him?
-confused

noo .. that should not matter. i am in the eigth grade and have went out with a seventh grader before. Alot of eigth graders i know go out with seventh graders. hope it helped

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ok....i like this guy ALOT and he likes another girl....my best friend is trying to hook us up...i find out that he might end up liking me but he doesnt know me well enough....now i am really embaressed to see him in person...am i being too pushy?
- confused

i think you and him should go somewhere and talk! This happened to me, this guy name josh, i told him i liked him, but he said he didnt know me that well, so he took me out one day, and we got to know each other more, and started going out the next day!! hope this helped.

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ok well theres this kid who confessed his love for me and well i dont feel the same and so i figured its better to tell him the truth and not lead him on but he dosent seem to get the hint he follows me around hes like my fucking stolker and i dont want to be his close friend b/c i cant trust him and well i see how he is and i dont kno how to make it clearer w/out hurting him normally i wouldnt care but since i ko how it feels to love somebody and not be loved in return so help pleaze he dosnt get the freaking clue

i know this might not be what you want to hear, but if he is really bugging you and you want it to stop, there is nothign you can do but tell him that you dont want to be his girlfriend or even friend and that you want him to leave you alone. It mgiht be mean, but he will more than likely leave you alone then. Hope this helped

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I am a thirteen year old girl and I have a close male friend. We usually get on quite well and we are always talking and hugging. We used to be attracted to each other and he on/off still is to me but I don't feel that way about him. Everyone says we act like we're a couple and that we should get together but I honestly don't want to. We are very close but are we too close? I admit I hug him more than my other friends but I don't have any feelings for him. So is it wrong to be this close to him if we're not in a relationship?

no .. not at all! most of my friends are guys and i hug them all hte time. Most people say that me adn this guy name murphy flirt all the time and they think we go out. But hes just a really close friend. So i think it is just fine to hug him and be close to him. And if you dont like him as a boyfriend, then dont get pressured into going out with him! hope this helped. lemme know how it goes

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like i am so confused i really want a bf now but like its wired cuz i like guys and i want a bf and everythings like pressure like my bff is my crushes gf and plz give me advice !

ok ..girl calm down! haha. Its ok if you odnt have a boyfriend right now, just go on and live up your life! about your bff and your crush .. talk to your bff and see if her and your crush is really serious. And if they are, just move on .. guys arent that important right now .. right now life is just about having fun! hope this helped!

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