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Hi I'm Kirsten! I am 14 years old and, even though it's tough to give myself advice, I love giving it out to others and (not t be a bragger lol) but I'm pretty good at it! Ask me about just about anything. I'm especially good at relationship problems, friendship troubles, and what to wear lol. Not much you cant ask me about...so just let ur problems loose! I can usually help.

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My hair is gets all this static in it and it's driving me crazy! It's like when you rub a balloon to your hair and it just sucks! Does anyone know of any hair products that would help with my problem??
♥ Mee! (=

FrizzEase by John Frieda works absolutely AWESOME. So does BioSilk. If you don't have access to these or they're too expensive, regular old body lotion does the trick. Just take a little dime-sized drop in the palm of your hand, spread onto both hands, and smooth over your scalp. The extra weight should weigh down your staticky ends.

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I ave this "condition" called lumbar lordosis where your lower back curves out so your butt really sticks out. I went to physical therapy and got kick butt abs to control it and now its a lot better. You can barely tell. But I have trouble fitting into jeans (i have to get a few sizes larger), skirts (the sideseam curves), and shorts and capris. I'm skinny and i know i have a good body to fit into this stuff, but it's the back-curving-out-slightly problem that won't let me wear anything but long shorts and huge jeans. Can i have some help or stores where i can get some good clothes?? 13/f SHOULD wear size 16 slim

You should probaby try going to a 1 or 3 in juniors. They are made to be curvier in the...ahem, derrier and still look pretty good. As for skirts, I personally like the A-line. it sort of bells out and will comoflage the whole "sticking out" thing. Good luck!

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Okay, well I am in 6th grade. Me and my best friend have been soo close through elementary school and are families are so close and we even own a beach house togehter. Well, see Through out this month we have started to grow apart. She is trying to be like her older sister (preppiesh) and like that but before she started wanting to be like her older sister she hated the way preps were and that they were retarted and stuff. Well, now she has become a prep and is being someone she isn't. She used to hate this one prep and now she is like trying to be her closet friend. I hate the way she is being. I am hopeing it is just a phase but if it isn't I think we will be spilt up and stuff. I wish I could tell her this but since we are growing apart I don't know what to do. I used do everything to be her best friend because she wanted to end the friendship but now it's different I don't know if I would really care to not be her best friend. I have a boyfriend and since this one night I haven't told her really much about him. I don't know why I want to but then there is something stopping me. I need help. She thinks I don't trust her anymore but I don't know if that is true or not?? Please help!

You need to sit her down and have a serious talk. Maybe something else is bothering her to make her want to change who she is. Does she get made fun of for not being a "prep"? (P.S. i hate labels...) Even so, you need to explain to her that you love her for who she is and that's all that should matter. In a perfect world, no one would care how anyone else dressed. OK, so it's not perfect world, but you shouldn't be split just because of that. Let her know you're worried that you two will not be friends anymore because of how you're growing apart. If she snubs you or acts like she doesn't know what you're talking about or blames the whole thing on you, she's not worth it.

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ok me and my boyfriend hve been together a while. and we hve done most everything but, sex. alot of my friends hve already had sex. i know some people might say im too young but me and my boyfriend love each other and i know we are both physically and emotionally ready. well he comes over often but everytime im on my period [ kinda wierd? ] but we both hve tlked about this.. and sometimes i want to and others im jus like idk.. but i think i am ready but im so scared i might get pregnant but most people i know of hve had sex and used a condom and hve not got pregnant. seriously what are the chances. do you think im ready? and how would i let him know while we are together that i want to..? PLEASE DONT SAY IM NASTY OR NETHING IM REALLY NOT! please answer asap

Don't do it. The chances of getting pregnant may be low, but it is still possible. Plus, you may THINK you are ready, but many feel like they gave it up too early after having sex. My advice is to wait until you're married. Works everytime;-)

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