i ♥ giving advise .. ANYKIND! so dont be afraid to ask me. i love this site and im on it all the time so your questions will get answered pretty quickly. Some things about me .. my name is candace and i live in georiga. I love hangin out with my friends and doing stupid stuff. My favorite color is green!! green rocks! my favorite places to shop at are 1) american eagle 2) abercrombie 3) hollister 4) aeropostale 5) old navy ... these are the places i shop at the most but i do go other places sometimes! my favorite animal is deffinatly a monkey! they are soo cool. i have monkeys all in my room (fake ones of course!). well if you want to know anyhting else, just ask!


okay i want a guys opinion or answer since its about a guy. how can a gurl tell if a guys likes them. like my ex boyfreind said we broke up b/c he thinks of me more as a bestfreind than a gurlfriend and he like is always looking at me and like teasing me and stuff like that but he has a g.f. and i have another freind that i likie but i cant tell if he likes me..there r 2. like a games and stuff we joke around and he puts his arm around me and stuff. HELP! i rate 5z for good answers!!!

me adn my ex boyfriend are just like that but we are just good friends. But your situation might be differnt, i think you should just ask him!!


There's this guy named Jeff and sometimes, he is soo nice and funny to me..but other times, he always tells me that I'm ugly..he says it in a "just kidding" voice but idk if he is being serious or if he really is just kidding. It hurts my feelings. What can I do?

make fun of him back. i know its not alot, but things will change after you do that a while!


I am a 13 year old girl and I have a really close male friend. We hug all the time and a lot of people think we are a couple. I love him to bits as a friend but I don't like him as more than that. Recently I have started to 'like' this guy. I think I might have a small chance with him but there is a problem. My male friend has a crush on me and as we all hang out together it would make things really uncomfortable. I don't want to lose my friendship with him but if I got together with this other guy then we wouldn't be as close and I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?

wow have i heard this before! this guy name murphy liked me and i liked his friend josh, well we all hung out and all. i decided to go ut with josh, and ever since then things have not been the same with me and murphy((even after me adn josh broke up)). i would say not go out with the other guy. You will probly break up and then your friendship with your really close guy friend will never be the same, trust me. I know its hard trying not to like someone more than a friend, but if you want to keep your good friendship with that guy, i would say get over the other guy!! hope it helped. bye!! ohh please lemme know how everything goes!!!


ok well i started to like my best friend, and i was talking to him one day, and he asked me who i liked and i couldnt lie so i said it was him. acctaully, i asked him who he thought it was and he said he thought it was him, so i said it was. ever since then we've still talked and stuff, and things only feel a little different. today, i told him i didnt like him anymore. he asked me why and asked if it was because i liked someone else.. while in my head i was thinking aww i imed him back and said no, its because its screwing everything up between us. then i got booted off. but i dont know what to do, i wanna stop liking him but i cant!

It seems like he likes you, so i would say dont stop liking him, GO FOR IT! but if you think its hurting your relationship, then you might want to try to stop liking him. Its really hard to tell your head not to like someone, when your heart is saying something else. So i would say .. follow your heart!


Im 13, and im in 8th grade. Theres this girl, her name is Ashley. She is VERY annoying and she constantly follows me and thinks im her best friend. Shes not my best friend! I have 3 best friends and she is tearing us apart becasuse whenever I leave her for them, she gets mad, and I can't even talk to them without her there! I don't know how to get rid of her because I really want me and my best friends to hang out again without her! I know it's mean but I dont have a choice and shes very geeky and nobody really likes her! Please don't tell me to tell her to go away because everyone is telling me to do that and I don't have the heart to. What should I do?


i would think that is the easyest way to do it .. (telling her the truth) but say it in a nice way. and if you dont wanna do that .. ignore her. She will ge thte picture when you walk off and dont say anything to her. Or you can tell her that you dont want her around 24/7 and that you need time to be with your friends sometimes without her. i know its all hard to do because it sounds so mean, but you will be thankful after you do it!!


I am a thirteen year old girl and I have a close male friend. We usually get on quite well and we are always talking and hugging. We used to be attracted to each other and he on/off still is to me but I don't feel that way about him. Everyone says we act like we're a couple and that we should get together but I honestly don't want to. We are very close but are we too close? I admit I hug him more than my other friends but I don't have any feelings for him. So is it wrong to be this close to him if we're not in a relationship?

no .. not at all! most of my friends are guys and i hug them all hte time. Most people say that me adn this guy name murphy flirt all the time and they think we go out. But hes just a really close friend. So i think it is just fine to hug him and be close to him. And if you dont like him as a boyfriend, then dont get pressured into going out with him! hope this helped. lemme know how it goes


My 'friend' is ruining my life!!!!!!! She talks crap on me and ALL of my other good friends all the time! She spreads rumors that arent true! She is a SLUT and she is pround of it! You just can't stop her she is like this bug you just can't kill and I don't know what to do! What can I do to make her stop doing this?!?! She has new friends now, and I know she is going to ruin their lives as well. I dont want them going through the pain I went through because of her. THey say they don't like her at all, but they still are nice to her and hang around her. I know if they keep making her think that they are freinds that she will go around and screw them over jsut like she did to me and my other good friend. What can I say/do to make it stop before it happens? Thanks! I RATE HIGH! :)

i think you should tell your 'friend' that she is ruining your life nad you want her to stop. Talk to her new friends and tell them everything she did to you and maybe tehy wont hang out wtih her no more either. If she keeps on goin after you talk to her, i would do the same thing to her! i mean spread rumors and all. You might think its wrong, but it will help. lemme know how it goes.


Hey, I like this guy alot, but he always wants me to do stuff with him more than kissing. Im 14 and I dont really want to b/c Im a Christian and I dont like to do stuff like that ..but I like him ALOT HELP ME!

just tell him you are not doing anyhting like that. Tell him you like him alot, but you dont want to do all of that. And see how he feels. hope i helped!


i asked Frank to the prom, but he said he didn't know because he said he can't dance. i asked him again and he back with the reply "dances aren't for me". what should i do?! i really want him to go because the 2 of us will have a fun time.

tell him that alot of people cant dance, they just go to have fun and thats what you want yall to do!! (have fun) and if he still says they arent for him, tell him that you can teach him to dance! and se ehow that goes. hope this helped.


could you guys give me some cute quotes about love, friendship, life...really anything it doesnt matter...thanks!

Hes the type that can make tha worst day evrt be the
best with oNe simple hug....Tha way he wraps his arms
around you...Tha way the taste of his lips
lingers oN yours
The way he smiles aNd makesz u feel like yoUr tha onllii
person in the world..aNd most of all tha way He says
_____________________[ i lOve yOu

theres aLways that 1 peRson who
will aLways have your heArt.. x33

forget all the reasons why something may not work
all you need is one good reason [ why it wiill ]

i want --» to fall in your arms
when nothinqs goinq my way *
and i want you to hold me...and
tell me *' e v e r y t h ii n q`s
qonna be okay `'* _________x3

» in every girls life there will .
always be `*' those 3 guys... `'
[ the one she loves ] // [ the one '
she hates ] + [ the one she can`t
Get enough Of ] .... & in the end '
Their all the s . a . m . e guy«`

a best friend is someone who
can make you have the best`*
day of your life* even if y o u*
are having t h e* w o r s t x33

·´¯`-» sometimes i wOnder* where would i be
i f i d i d n t kno y O u & you d i d n t know me*
who would i laugh «--and cry with a t the end
? where w0uld i be without my best * friends

Always pullin me throuqh _ when my lifes a mess
my Life_my world the very |[ b e s t ]|

.. hope this helped!! if you need more, drop it in my inbox, i have PLENTY more!! haha


i used to have this friend named stephanie and she thinks she's all that so i stop being her friend.i told her that im not her friend but she can still talk to us but she asked if i can stop talking behind back but like i mean we arent friends anymore so i was like why?!?!then she said because it's not nice!i was like your not that nice either so and she said she didnt talk behind my back but i bet she did a million times and i really wAnt her to leave me alone but i dont know how im afraid i might make her cry!wat do i do?

dont talk behind her back because thats just mean. Maybe if you stop talkin about her, then she will leave you alone, because it seems like she is talkin to you because she wants to know why you are tlakin about her. Tell her if she stays away from you, you wont talk about her behind her back anymore! hope this helped.


hey guess what? i talked to my guy friend and everythings completley cool. now just to conquer my best friends.
good luck with josh, he is so LUCKY to have a girl who gives such good advice liking him!

thats good! i knew things would be good for you! If you talk to tasha and christina and they still have problems, then dont worry about them, cuz you didnt do anyhting and after you talk to them, you will have tried to be friends again, and if they dont want to be your friend still, then you dont need them! awww... ur so sweet. thanks and he should feel lucky. haha. lemme know how things go with the friends!


you rock!! and i think your hott. you could do much better than that stupid ass josh. im not saying this to make you feel better, (Even tho its a plus!) im sayin this because i know you can! there are alot of guys who like you, but you still want josh after all he has put you through. I think he still likes you, but i think you should move on because he might do the same thing to you again as what he did last time. If he asks you back out, are you gonna say yes?

aww .. ur so sweet. but who is this? I really dont know about anything with me and him rihgt now. i still like him so much, but you are right, he might do the same thing to me again. You think he still likes me? has he said anything to you? If he asks me back out .. i will probly say yes because i truely do love him. What do you think i should do? .. who is this?


yeah you helped make me feel like this isnt a big of a deal as i thought.. i can im you and show you the conversation about it if you want.. i know if i was the one giving the advice i would want to see it.

sure! my aim is angelinluv6767 .. i hope you and the guy stay good friends! how old are you btw?


no i dont like him at all! hes more like a brother to me, alot of people think we like eachother tho, because we talk all the time.
the story was about why she supposedly hates me, but its like the stupidest thing ever. that i only wanted to spend the night with her one night in a weekend instead of two. and it happened to be that one of those nights we were supposed to hang out with him and i said for her not to spend the night that night, but only because the next night we were having alot of ppl over.

that is a very stupid reason to hate you! if she was your true friend, she wouldnt be acting this way. so just forget about her! and him .. tell him the truth. Say "i dont like you like that, i just like you as a GOOD friend. and i dont want things to change between us just because of her." and stuff like that. I hope things work out. Did i help at all? if you need anything else .. just ask! lemme know how things go.


okay there's this new boy in my town and one of my friends like him but she don't come to the same school as me and he's really cute. what should i do, should i go up to himand.... but i don't want to hurt my closet friend please help me!!!!

i would talk to your friend and tell her that you and him go to the same school and you will see him more than her and you probly like him more, and see what happens. Just tell her you think it would work out better if you went out with him. hope i helped.


My best friend dated my ex. It was a tough thing for me to see.They are totally over and you would think everything is fine. Wrong. I still like him. At least I think I still like him. I even have a boyfriend who I love very much. But then I read a note from my ex that was about me that was to my best friend when they were together, and now I feel sad. He liked her a lot. And I feel like a bitch. I need to know what is going on! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!

What was written in the note about you? After you tell me that .. i can help you with the advise! thnxz


My best friend and I got into a fight because she lied to me about why my boyfriend broke up with me. She actually told him she was in love with him and stuff like that.. since she KNEW he also liked her. And the reason she did that was to get him to break up with me.. all because of jealousy! Well.. she finally told me the truth.. AFTER she knew 2 other people told me. She thinks im mad at her for causing him to break up with me.. but im mad because she lied.. I tried to tell her that.. and she got really defensive and blocked me. Everytime i try to talk to her at school, she walks away from me.

She and I have been friends for a few years now. I hate for our friendship to end like hers and her other best friend's did. How can I talk to her? I tried appologizing and all she said was .. "Mhm Im sure you are". How can I make her realize we are both better off with each other?

first off, you dont need to appologize to her, you did nothing wrong. She should be appologizing to you. If she wont talk to you and always blocks you out, i dont think she is a true best friend. Maybe you should try to talk to her again and if she does the same thing, then just try to find some more friends to hang out wtih and maybe later on, she will come back and appologize adn things will be different. hope this helped!


hi...my name is anna. i like this guy who is a year older than me. hes really sweet, quiet, hillarious........and to my knoweledge hasnt have any-very many g/fs. everytime i see him i cant speak or anything. i saw him the other day and i ran. how stupid am i. I RAN!!! i couldve done anythingelse but no....i ran. i was wondering...like what do i do? i met some girls who sit with him at lunch. they know him so well. and i dont. im sooo jealous. i cant stand the madness of having a b/f but i think hes rite for me and im so clueless. thank you soooooooooooo much!

i think that it would be a good idea to talk to the guy. There is this guy that i used to go out with and we quit talkin when we broke up, and i still like him alot but im scared to talk to him. So im just gonna get up the courage and talk to him. I think you should do the same. Just get to know him some more. Hope this helped! lemme know how things go!


My best friend in the entire world is going out with a guy that I liked..At one point in time I liked him and he liked me..but I never went out with him because my best friend liked him.. I dont know whether or not I should tell her this because, well they look really cute together, but the thing is, is that I think I still like him..
Clueless here..I dont know what to do..

If i was you, i would just let the guy go because my best friend means more to me than some guy, and i would think your best friend means the same to you. so would you rather have you best friend or a guy? i would choose my best friend. hope this helps you!


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