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what should i do
ok well theres this kid who confessed his love for me and well i dont feel the same and so i figured its better to tell him the truth and not lead him on but he dosent seem to get the hint he follows me around hes like my fucking stolker and i dont want to be his close friend b/c i cant trust him and well i see how he is and i dont kno how to make it clearer w/out hurting him normally i wouldnt care but since i ko how it feels to love somebody and not be loved in return so help pleaze he dosnt get the freaking clue
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maybe write him a note.. the phase "its not you, its me" might come in handy
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Tell him that he is a very nice boy. Tell him that you like your relationship wayy better as just friends. If you don't want to make him feel THAT BAd then maybe invite him out with a bunch of other friends and not just you. Whatever you do, get the message across that you do NOT like him and that you just want to be friends. Inviting him out with lots of other people will help, or get a boyfriend and make sure he finds out then he will know you don't like him. HOpe i helped and Good luck! -RiLeY
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i know this might not be what you want to hear, but if he is really bugging you and you want it to stop, there is nothign you can do but tell him that you dont want to be his girlfriend or even friend and that you want him to leave you alone. It mgiht be mean, but he will more than likely leave you alone then. Hope this helped
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If he's really bugging you you'll just have to get rude and tell him to get lost.It may not work but give it a try anyway, he doesn't seem to listen when you try to be nice about it.
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Seeing that you know how it feels to love someone and not be loved back in return you should know that with time the pain goes away. tell this kid that you dont like him and you dont wish to have any kind of relationship. With him not knowing how you feel youll only be hurting him more in the long run.
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You seem like you're doing everything right, but maybe in a way..it seems as if you are still leading him on? If you were straightforward and upfront and honest with him, I still don't see why he still follows you around. I suggest you write him a note clearly stating your feelings toward his behavior towards you, just remember to write in it that you're not interested and that you'd appreciate if he was to leave you alone. Make sure you use his name in it several times to assure that it is personal. If he really is a stalker and won't leave you alone, you may want to go to a responsible person, or even the authorities to get him as far as possible from you! =)
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It seems like you're right, he doesn't get the picture. Basically the only way to solve this problem is to confront him again. Let him know exactly how you feel about your relationship with him. Most likely he will evetually stop following you as this is probably just a major crush for him. Try not to sweat it too much unless it progresses in to full on stalking. Friendly advice from Caleb.
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tell him to stop following you and tell him that you dont like! keep on saying it untel he gets the point! good luck! =) x0x
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Just tell him. Thats how he'll get the clue. I know it may be a little mean saying like 'Dude go away, I dont like you" but how esle are you going to stop it? If you say it directly to him, he'll know.
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