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Ok well I just started high school and i met this dude and we hang out at lunch and everything and we talk alot and all and everyone keeps tellin me he likes me and one day at lunch a boi came up and asked me if we were goin out n i wus like no n he said well he likes u n i asked him if it wus tru n he said my gf wouldnt like that very much n my frind was there n so l8r she asked him if he liked me n he said yeh dont tell nobody cuz my gf will kill me and then my other frind asked him n he said wtf started that rumor i rlly rlly like him !! how do i find out if he rlly likes me and how do i git him 2 dump his gf 4 me? i mean he says all this stuff like shes annoyin n all so i guess he doesnt like her PLEASE HELP!!! [[SoRRy So DaRn LoooooNg]] (link)
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It's not right to try to get him to break up with his girlfriend. Don't you think he'd be going out with you if he liked you more? He might dump her soon for you, but ya never know. Just wait.'N also, think about this...if he's going out with this other girl, 'n he says he likes you, then if he starts to go out with you..then don't you think he might say he likes some other girl while going out with you? Think about it ^^ Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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ok, my boyfriend of 3 years wants to go into the army for about 4 or 5 years. i was just wondering, is there any chance of him getting hurt,dying,etc? b/c if there is..i cant let him go. please help me. ill rate high. (link)
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Yeah...unfortunately..there are chances that he can get hurt..or die.(let's not think that though)Well, it is his choice if he wants to go into the army or not. Just let him go, 'n let him know that you love him, 'n support his decision.It's hard I know...just spend as much time as you can with him before he really decides to leave. Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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theres this kidd i was friends w/ for like 6 months i have sooo many memories w/ him n i think i was starting to like him n now he told this girl that were ex best friends wtf is that so i imed him about it n he was like were to different i dont think we should tlak anymore n i cried soo much over him n i just cant get over him everything reminds me of him please give me a way to talk to him get him backk!! i need him there for mee (link)
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Maybe he's going through something hard to get over...? Give him some time, 'n then go up to him 'n tell him how you feel about him.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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HI THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR READING THIS IF YOU DO..ANYWAY HERE IS MY STORY..............OK THERE IS THIS BOY I LIKE AND WE GO OUT RIGHT AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 24DAYS AND WE KISSED LIKE 5 TIMES AND WE ARE FRESHMENS. WE BOTH TALK EVERYTIME WE GET THE CHANCE TO SEE EACH OTHER AND EVERYTIME I SEE HIM I JUST SMILE ALOT, AND TRY TO MAKE CONVERSATION..AND WE ALWAYS TALK BUT THE THING IS, I LIKE HIM ALOT, AND I WAS WONDERING LIKE WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO LIKE TO MAKE HIM WANT TO HOLD ME AND STUFF BECAUSE LIKE I ALWAYS JUST LIKE STAND INFRONT OF HIM AND TALK AND STUFF..LIKE WHEN WE KISS WE ARE ALL OVER EACH OTHER BUT HOW DO I MAKE HIM JUST WANT TO HUG ON ME AND STUFF. LIKE TODAY I DID IT WHERE I HUGGED HIM FOR LIKE 2 MINUTED STRIGHT BECAUSE IT WAS COLD AND RAINING..WHITCH WAS REALLY CUTE, BUT ANYWAY IS THIS SO MUCH WRONG THAT WE DONT ALWAYS LIKE ALL ON EACH OTHER IN THE HALLWAYS AND STUFF AND I ONLY SEE HIM AFTER SCHOOL, DURING LUNCH, AND IN GYM, AND BETWEEN CLASSES...AND I LOVE HIM TO DEATH AND TODAY I TOLD HIM THAT I WHISPERED IN HIS EAR THAT I LOVED HIM AND I REALLY MET IT..SO WHAT I WANT TO KNOW IS HOW LONG DOES IT USUALLY TAKE FOR SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU AND WHAT ARE SOME WAYS TO MAKE HIM JUST WANT TO SNUGGLE AND HUG INFRONT OF POEPLE CAUSE HE SAYS HE ISNT SHY BUT WHEN WE ARE TOGETHER INFRONT OF ALOT OF PEOPLE IT SEEMS LIKE ARE BOTH SHY WHITCH I UNDERSTAND..THANKX SO MUCH FOR READING THIS..PLEASE HELP ME AND ILL RATE YOU! (link)
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Well, I can't tell you how long it usually takes for someone to love you, cause it all comes in time. Hey~!!! Guys aren't the only ones that have to make the first move! Girl you make the first move by hugging him, he'll probably get used to it, 'n start hugging you hold you 'n stuff.So... yeah~ lol, Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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my best friend flirts with my boyfriend all the time and I think hes flirting back..She has a boyfrined tho..she flirts with everyone but its really bothering me..I dont wanna be like "I dont wanna fight but I've notice your flirting with my boyfriend" becuase shes like one of my best friends..what should I do? I dont wanna talk to her bout it but I want it to stop...what do I do..? =(
I'll rate high.. (link)
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Well, first things first, you won't be anywhere your problem if you don't talk to your friend about it. Ask her if she likes your boyfriend 'n tell her that it seems like she likes/flirts with your boyfriend.However...she's not the only you need to talk to...sounds like ya need to have a word with your boyfriend too. Tell him it's kinda hurting you because it seems like he's flirting with your friend. If they're really close people to you, then they should understand you! Good Luck 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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Ok well my boy friends B-day is this next sat (25th) and i have no idea what to get him!!!!! I feel really bad about it two, he said that it didnt matter what i got him cause it would be from me and he loves me too much to hurt muh feelings. But i still feel like i may get him something crappy, some ppl say to get him a CD well i wanted to get something a lil more special but i dont kno what, HELP!
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He's your boyfriend! Think about the things he likes. Go ahead 'n get him a CD, 'n you said you wanted to get him something a little more special, so you can get him a CD 'n more stuff. Ya know, you don't have to give him one thing for his birthday. It can be a ton of stuff. I got my boyfriend a CD of his favorite singers/bands, chocolate (ya gotta have the chocolate) lol, and last but not least, lol, I gave him a kiss! ^^ Hey, but remember, these gifts should come from your heart! Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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Ok well about 2 weeks ago i got a injury from volleyball my favorite sport, but because on my injury i can't play for a while, the docotors said that if my arm (witch is what i injurd) is still hurting by the end of this week that i will have to get surgury and i wont be able to play volleyball for the rest of my life. Should i tell the doctors even tho its hurting that it isnt? i really love playing volleyball its my favorite thing to do, i cant give it up but im scared of risking further injury. (link)
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Don't make a stupid decision with that.You can't lie to the doctors that way. What if you hurt yourself even more, then you'll be in worse condition than you already were. Even if it is your favorite thing to do...there are just somethings that you have to give up for a while, or even for the rest of your life. My advice, don't take the rist of hurting yourself even more.Hope I helped, 'n I hope your arm heals before the end of this week!
-tori
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Me and my bf have been together for 7 months. Hes going to uni in at the beginning of october, so hes moving.
Hes one of these guys that can get any girl he wants but Im a lot more quieter. Im kinda worried about the whole trust thing.
I know he hasnt done anything in the last 7 months coz we've been together practically all the time.
Recently I found evidence that he contacted his x-gf last month. They got really close in the short time they were together. They only broke up coz she had to move. He was saying stuff like I miss your gorgeous face, call me when you are in the area etc. She practically said the same stuff.
I didnt say anything to him but I hinted it to him a little bit. He caught on but denied ever contacting her. I just left it.
Hes a really nice guy. He always puts me first and has done so much for me.
I really want to trust him but theres just something in me thats just waiting for something bad to happen.
I know long distance realtionships aren't meant to work, but hes going to come home sometimes and im going to go and see him.
Judging from what you have read, do I have something to worry about when he goes?
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Hey, if you really want your relationship to work, then you have nothing to worry about. Because all you have to do is just work harder to trust him; that's just how a relationship grows. If you don't learn how to trust him, 'n you stay jealous 'n suspicious..then it will most definately not work out.It'll just piss him off. My friend got suspicious 'n started to ask her boyfriend all these questions to put him in the spotlight, 'n he got so pissed that he called quits.Hope I helped!
-tori
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hey, i don't really know you but i really need some advice...and quick! k here's the thing. school just started like a week or two ago and since the first of school i have liked this new kid named Sam. i have a lot of classes with him so i talk to him a lot. my friend Julia, who is in art with me and him also likes him, but only because she thinks he's hot (which he is) but she said her first word to him today. we sit at his table and a little bit after class started, he asked my friend Micheal, if me and Julia like him. Micheal told him that I like him but he wasn't sure if Julia likes him. Then Julia told Micheal that she likes sam and then Micheal told Sam that. Micheal told me that sam said that he liked Julia, but my other friend, Joey, said that he likes both of us. I don't want to be mean to Julia but i dont want him to ask her out! Help! (link)
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I had this SAME exact problem...except it wasn't just my friend that liked him...it was ALL of the girls. Well, most of 'em. Anyways..talk it over with Julia. Talk to Sam more often though. It might increase your chances. When you talk to her, 'n she doesn't understand..then drop her, she's not a good friend. But, it's not a good reason to not be friends because of a guy. It's just stupid. It's nice that you don't wanna be mean to her, but like I sayed..talk to her about it. 'N it might help to tell her exactly how you feel about this Sam guy. Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped. 'N sorry if my advice wasn't much help.
-tori
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I have this problem. There is this girl I like, Lea, but she has a boyfriend...or rather had. I found out today that they broke up this morning, and i get the feeling it may be becos of me, due to her knowing i like her and i knowing she likes me to, but she's been with her boyfriend for 2 years. But the problem is, I don't think i like her ENOUGH to go out with her, but there is this other girl, Jo, who also has a boyfriend that i like more, quite abit more. What Should i do? I turned 17 this year, Lea is 17 (18 end of this year) and Jo is 16. (link)
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Don't rush yourself to find who you really like. It takes time to sort out emotions. Try helping Lea first because she just broke up with her boyfriend. As some time goes by, you'll find out who you like.Good Luck 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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Ok, well this guy and I just started going out. I like him so much and he likes me too obviously. Well we've only been going out for a day. Today at school I acted all weird. I mean I like him a lot but he makes me shy. I didn't talk to him much and tried to avoid him a little. I really want us to work out as a couple. What do you guys think I should do in order to not be shy and talk to him and such. I have had boyfriends so its not like I'm stupid, this guy just makes me shy like no other boyfriend has. Thanks :) (link)
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Hey~ get out of your "comfort zone" and just talk to him! Go out somewhere with your friends 'n just hang out. Eventually, you won't be shy around him! Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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Well maybe about 2 - 3 years ago I met this boy, he lives in california and i live in everett washington. Hes in 11th grade and im in 10th. He came up a few months ago and visited me for about 2 weeks and then left. I really love him and we talk online everyday through email because his computers messed up and wont let him download aim or anything. He's always like " Whats up baby " and " I love you too ". Were not going out but I really wanna go out with him. I know he would never cheat on me because hes real. He doesnt make things up If hes busy he'll say " Oh ill email you later im busy ". Hes so sweet to me. But yesterday I went on my sister screen name and she sent him a email that told him that I want to go out with him and that I was scared to ask because he might have a girlfriend or he might say no. And he wrote back saying something like " Tell her I dont have a girl and I would never say no to her and I really love her. " Then she wrote back saying " She wants to know why you love her." And something else. And he said " Tell her to ask me why I love her but she should know." Im not that mad at her for doing to because I kind of knew. But anyways lol my question is should I go out with him? I mean we live far away and probably wouldnt be able to see eachother. But we really love eachother. Drop your thoughts or whatever. (link)
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Well, just a start..long distance relationships are hard! I've been there, 'n you just can't stop worrying because I always kept thinking " What if he's cheating on me" Cause you never know. If you two really like each other, 'n if you're ready for a relationship that his gonna be difficult, then go for it. Learn from your mistakes if it turns out wrong! Good Luck 'n Hope I helped! 'N hope it works out between ya'll!
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Okay .. well I basically Just Started Cutting Myself! + Now i cant Stop.. It like takes controll over me! I dont and wont tell mY Parents and i dont wanna get help or tell anyone* Not even Friends.. but i think they might know.. I dont know what to do ? Im only 13! Should i continue?
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My advice..don't continue cutting yourself. My friend hates his life..and he started cutting himself...he eventually went farther than that and tried to commit suicide 2 times. The third time he tried, he ended up very injured, and was sent to the hospital. See, my point is..he got so addicted to it, he wanted to do more. So, for your safety, don't continue. Hope I helped!
-tori
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Okay..there is this girl in my school who nobody really likes..we used to be really close but then we both changed..and shes a big lier..she asked me while I was away from the computer if we were friends..and how it seems like we arent because we dont hang out anymore..She said she had a gift for me because she was recently on vacation..but I dont know what to do because if I accept it then she will wanna hang out all the time and talk on the phone and that kind of stuff and I cant keep giving her excuses?!..What should I say whenever she tells me that stuff again? Please help me!! (link)
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Explain to her why you two have grown apart. Don't just be like " We're not friends anymore. And we're not friends because you're big liar." Say it in a calm nice way. Ask her to meet you somewhere, accept the gift, 'n then talk to her. Afer you finish talking to her, ask her if she wants the gift back. 'N just go from there. 'N you're right, you can't keep giving her excuses. Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped. (sorry if I wasn't any help)
-tori
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I'm a 15 F. This boy likes me .. almost all the girls that I've talked to like him or think hes cute. He's really shy though... He gets his friend(who is my friend too) to come up to me and say that he thinks I'm cute and ask me questions. All he's ever really said to me is hi or bye. I think it's really cute that he's shy and it shows that he's not rude or agressive like the other boys. Well the thing is.. I'm shy too and I dont know how to get a conversation going when he's with his group of friends and I'm with mine. Any ideas? (link)
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"Play the same way" This "boy" got his friend (who is your friend too) to ask you questions. Get one of your friends to do that also. 'N just go up 'n talk to him. Don't be shy, it doesn't get you anywhere (believe me). You don't need any ideas exactly, just say whatever comes to you, but don't use pick-up lines.It's the same as saying " well gee, I really like you, but I have NOTHING to say to you, so I'm just gonna use pick-up lines I got from an Advice website." Yeah~ if you see my point, lol, don't use pick-up lines. Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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ok, well i like my brothers friend.. lets call him... BOB, ok well BOB likes me too and we always talk and hang out and we've kissed and he sometimes gets all playful touchy but just like flirting and stuff and i wanna go out with him but hes afraid my brother will get insanely pissed off at him.. I talked to my brother and he was like "whatever.. hes cool so i dont care" so i was like, sweet. Well i dont wanna ask this guy out cus i just dont, im not scared or nething but i wanna talk to him about "us" but i dont know how.. i dont think this is making sense.. BUT ANYWAYS i dont know how to talk to him about it.. its reatrded cus i can usually go up to a guy and tell him i think hes hot or that i like him and stuff and they would be like "sweet" or something BUT i CANT with BOB... What would you do if you were in my situation?... I rate high..
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Well, you did the right thing to ask your brother about it. 'N even if you're nervous, go up to "BOB" and tell him. Tell him that your brother said that it was okay for you two to go out. *rate me for my advice, not for me just answering this question* Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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Today everybody forced me and my boyfriend to kiss and we did but I totally freaked out as soon as I felt his tongue and jumped back going: Ew! He got really pissed and ran off. I thought everything was over until I saw him and we hugged and he said it was OK. Now he's gone cold on me, hung up on me and switched his phone off. I think I've runined everything but I like him so much. I need help and fast. (link)
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Hey, you were just nervous 'n you weren't ready. However...the "Ew!" reaction wasn't very smart to do in front of everybody. It wasn't right for "everybody" to tell ya'll to kiss anyways. Just go over to his house 'n explain to him that you were just nervous, 'n that you're sorry that you reacted that way. If you can't go over to his house today, wait 'til school tomorrow. He should understand.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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ok this gurl likes me and i like her yadda yadda yadda...but she says taht she doenst know if she can take it the next step because i dont go to church regularly...if i did, then she said she would take our relationship further...but i hardly ever go to church...and i usually work on sundays...wat should i do? (link)
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You should talk it over with her. Tell her that you really would go to church but because of your job you can't. If she thinks that's not a good enough reason, ask her what you should do.If she wants you to make time to go to church, then ask her what you should do. It's really not your fault you have to work on Sundays. I'm a Christian, 'n I go to church often. 'N I also work. At first my working hours got in the way of me being able to go to chruch. I talked to my boss 'n asked him if I could come later to work. Maybe you could try that. Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped.
-tori
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Theres this girl i really like thats in my class. The problem is my best friend likes her a lot too. He works with her so we both see each other a lot. I dont want to lose my best friend but i think she likes me more than she likes him. What should i do? (link)
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Hey, first things first. Relationships with guys 'n girls..they come 'n go. However, your trust worthy friends 'n your best friends will stay by your side for the rest of your life. Don't ruin the "bond" between you 'n your friend.Talk to him. Don't get all pissed at him. Ask him if it's okay to like her also. If he gets pissed, he's not a good friend.Good Luck! Hope I helped.
-tori
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ok so today i was talking to the kid i like and it was great! we really connected. but i dont think he likes me. how can i approach him and sound like im his friend but not sound like i like him? (link)
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Just be yourselfl! Try not to be clingy though, talk to him often but not like "24/7" Good Luck 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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