Question Posted Wednesday September 15 2004, 5:24 pm
Well maybe about 2 - 3 years ago I met this boy, he lives in california and i live in everett washington. Hes in 11th grade and im in 10th. He came up a few months ago and visited me for about 2 weeks and then left. I really love him and we talk online everyday through email because his computers messed up and wont let him download aim or anything. He's always like " Whats up baby " and " I love you too ". Were not going out but I really wanna go out with him. I know he would never cheat on me because hes real. He doesnt make things up If hes busy he'll say " Oh ill email you later im busy ". Hes so sweet to me. But yesterday I went on my sister screen name and she sent him a email that told him that I want to go out with him and that I was scared to ask because he might have a girlfriend or he might say no. And he wrote back saying something like " Tell her I dont have a girl and I would never say no to her and I really love her. " Then she wrote back saying " She wants to know why you love her." And something else. And he said " Tell her to ask me why I love her but she should know." Im not that mad at her for doing to because I kind of knew. But anyways lol my question is should I go out with him? I mean we live far away and probably wouldnt be able to see eachother. But we really love eachother. Drop your thoughts or whatever.
Additional info, added Wednesday September 15 2004, 6:10 pm: I mean we might be able to see each other like over breaks like christmas break and spring break and of summer break!! And im gettin a cell phone so we would be able to talk there too. -- Also ive been in about 4 long distance relationships and they went fine! So yea I know all about that.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MissEmmyBoo answered Saturday September 18 2004, 3:14 pm: yeh!! you definitely should at least try it!! it can work just keep in touch as much as possible! i wish you the best!! :) [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
xOmAnDaH answered Thursday September 16 2004, 12:07 am: I think you should go out with him..you could visit each other as much as possible..and if things dont work out..then at least you tried..obviously you keep in touch so i dont think there will be a problem..well hope i helped..rate me =)
Beccah answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 10:58 pm: definitely! go for it! if u guys are in love then you need to be with each other!
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x1xRock_Faeriex3x answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 8:53 pm: I say that you should most definatley go out with him, he is one in a trillion, you will most likely not find a guy like that in the near future. I hope it works out if you do go out with him! [ x1xRock_Faeriex3x's advice column | Ask x1xRock_Faeriex3x A Question ]
mshonest4eva answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 7:34 pm: if you can deal with the long term distance, than maybe hes the guy for you. Ask him out like its the Sadie Hawkins dance, girl!! If he really meant what he said, then he would go out with you and you caould make it work. So work it and hope for the best. u can email me here or at alissag4@excite.com if u want to ask me nemore questions.
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 6:58 pm: Well, since you know about long distance relationships I'm not going to give you the speech on how hard it is and stuff lol. But, he seems to make you happy and you both love each other and trust each other and everything. So, I see no problem in it. I mean you know he's the real guy you're talking to because you've met him before too and he seems really sweet to you and everything. I mean, he even confessed to your sister that he really loves you. And thats really sweet. And if you know he won't cheat on you, and you two can trust each other, and you think it will work out, then go for it. No one can tell you that you two don't love each other or anything, only you two know if you two trust each other. Just follow your heart and see where it takes you. And it seems to be taking you to him. So, go for it hun! And he even said himself he wouldn't turn you down. So just be like "My sister told me she e-mailed you, I had no clue about it, but since she did e-mail you, I think we should talk about that all... I mean we've met and everything and we love each other, but we're not going out and I want to change that, but only if you want to..." Just say something like that and how you feel and everything. I hope this helps and good luck hun! Tell me how everything goes. If you need anymore help, just post a message in my inbox.
Tori_Dori answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 6:08 pm: Well, just a start..long distance relationships are hard! I've been there, 'n you just can't stop worrying because I always kept thinking " What if he's cheating on me" Cause you never know. If you two really like each other, 'n if you're ready for a relationship that his gonna be difficult, then go for it. Learn from your mistakes if it turns out wrong! Good Luck 'n Hope I helped! 'N hope it works out between ya'll!
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Sherry answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 5:31 pm: Dont do it, because you or him could find a girl/boy in your town that you really like. its also not worth it just emailing him all the time its not even "going out" but sure online relationships dont work out..no matter what.. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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