Question Posted Tuesday September 14 2004, 5:13 pm
I'm a 15 F. This boy likes me .. almost all the girls that I've talked to like him or think hes cute. He's really shy though... He gets his friend(who is my friend too) to come up to me and say that he thinks I'm cute and ask me questions. All he's ever really said to me is hi or bye. I think it's really cute that he's shy and it shows that he's not rude or agressive like the other boys. Well the thing is.. I'm shy too and I dont know how to get a conversation going when he's with his group of friends and I'm with mine. Any ideas?
XxRockon answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 6:22 pm: aww thats so cute! Maybe both of your groups of friends could go out and do something together so u both coudl talk but u both could talk to ur friends too. Maybe talk about school, sports, music, tv shows..n e thign u guys have n common. [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
o0psychicwish0o answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 6:18 pm: how bout when you see him by himself go up to him and be like "i hear you like me and think im cute. I thik your cute too" yeah pretty brave but it works! talk about music and school. School is really easy to talk about, so always keep it in mind. [ o0psychicwish0o's advice column | Ask o0psychicwish0o A Question ]
FloridaBabe answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 5:40 pm: Hey girl! I have been in the same situation as u. I am also pretty shy, but my friends just told me to take those risks that u think r worthwhile. This guy sounds like the rare type thats hard to find. Take your chances. Maybe ask some of his friends to go to the movies with a bunch of ur friends too and make sure to tell them to invite this boy too. Also when u r at the movies all together, try asking ur friends to start a conversation that has to do with u and just jump in and ask some questions then about him that r realated to that subject. It will definetly get things going and give u that little extra boost. Have Fun!
~*Michelle*~ [ FloridaBabe's advice column | Ask FloridaBabe A Question ]
Toxicxoxo answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 5:35 pm: you should ask him how his day is going, ask him if he is doing anything this weekend, if he is busy then ask him if he wants to hang out next weekend. invite some friends. my friends always know how to start a good conversation
hope i helped
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pimpettex answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 5:29 pm: Aw thats so cute. I'd go up to him and just say hey hows ur day goin or somethin like that. Or say he looks good today .. thats a nice shirt anything along those lines. But make sure u mean it!! KK good luck! [ pimpettex's advice column | Ask pimpettex A Question ]
Tori_Dori answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 5:20 pm: "Play the same way" This "boy" got his friend (who is your friend too) to ask you questions. Get one of your friends to do that also. 'N just go up 'n talk to him. Don't be shy, it doesn't get you anywhere (believe me). You don't need any ideas exactly, just say whatever comes to you, but don't use pick-up lines.It's the same as saying " well gee, I really like you, but I have NOTHING to say to you, so I'm just gonna use pick-up lines I got from an Advice website." Yeah~ if you see my point, lol, don't use pick-up lines. Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori [ Tori_Dori's advice column | Ask Tori_Dori A Question ]
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